growing up around addicts, i would like to think i know the line between enabling and supporting.
this one particular, I know we are actual friends-have been supportive through many aspects. distance, i would like to believe, keeps me from being an enabler, so support is all i can offer. communications have been cut from hours a day of talking/texting....and very open and honest about wanting to use/and slipping.
now my friend has completely relapsed and communication has dwindled down to a few words of texts a day. there are moments I wanna blow up the phone in hopes of them picking up just to hear it in their voice, whether they are high or not.....but im afraid the constant buggin will drive them further...
on the other hand...what if they dont think i care enough to check up on the nurga?
just at a loss. whinin like a biotch. but just want to do the right thing.
Congrats ralph-hope that keeps motivating others.
sW= keep pushin man. as long as your sobriety is for you.