faggot is so played out. its been said in this thread so much it's losing it's effect.
here's a list of other acceptable synonyms
A to C
AC/DC - bisexual; not named after the band
African queen - black gay male, U.K.
anal astronaut - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass bandit - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass goblin (gobblin') - gay male
ass jockey - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass monkey - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass pirate - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass rammer - gay male, refers to anal sex
ass spelunker - gay male
ass Viking - gay male
batty boy - gay male, mainly British usage
bent - opposite of straight, gay, mainly British usage
back door bandit - gay male, refers to anal sex
bender - gay male
bitch - female dog; overly aggressive and spiteful female; woman who does not conform to society's behavioral, sexual, and clothing norms; a person (usually male) who receives anal sex (originated as prison slang); a man who is dominated in a relationship by another
bone smuggler - gay male, refers to anal sex
booty bandit - gay male, refers to anal sex
bubble biter - gay male, refers to analingus
bumhole explorer - gay male, refers to anal sex, british
bumhole surfer - gay male, refers to anal sex, british
bummer - gay male, refers to anal sex
bunty boy - gay male, British usage
butthole explorer - gay male, refers to anal sex
butthole surfer - gay male, refers to anal sex
butt bandit - gay male, refers to anal sex
butt banger - gay male, refers to anal sex
butt buddies - gay male couple, refers to anal sex
butt fucker - gay male, refers to anal sex
butt pirate - gay male, refers to anal sex
butty - gay male, refers to anal sex
cake eater - gay male, refers to analingus
chick with dick - a preoperative transsexual woman
chocolate starfish invader - gay male, refers to anal sex
cock jockey - gay male
cock smoker - gay male, refers to oral sex
cock sucker - gay male, refers to oral sex
colon bomber - gay male, refers to anal sex
cream pie - ejaculation inside the anus
cream puff - effeminate gay male
cumguzzler - one who performs oral sex on a man and subsequently swallows the ejaculate (cum).
cunt - vagina; strong term of abuse, disliked person (UK)
cunt - vagina; female, somewhat synonymous with "bitch" (US)
D to G
deviate - gay male or lesbian
doughnut puncher - gay male
fag - gay male, short for faggot. Also a non-sexual British term for cigarrette.
fag trap - a heterosexual person who acts in a manner to attract homosexuals; see "queer bait"
fagnostic - A gay person in denial about their sexuality. Contrived from the words fag and agnostic.
fairy - effeminate and/or gay male
femme - feminine, effeminate and/or gay male
flamer - effeminate, flamboyant gay male
Frenchman - gay male, origins unknown
friend of Dorothy - gay male, most likely originates with a stereotypical gay affinity for Judy Garland
fruit - effeminate and/or gay male
fudge packer - gay male, refers to anal sex; originated as prison slang
galboy - gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
girl - effeminate male, as in "don't be a girl"; or a gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
goober gobbler - gay male
gump - gay male (prison slang)
H to K
half rice, half chips - UK: bisexual
homo - gay male, see homosexual
joto - gay male (prison slang)
L to Q
Lavender with Rage - gay male
limp wrist - gay male
macho like Morrissey - publicly maintaining neutral sexuality or heterosexuality, but suspected of homosexuality, refers to Morrissey; see also "fagnostic"
mama's boy - effeminate male who is controlled by his mother or has a good relationship with her
man - masculine female; or lesbian female who has the "masculine" role in a lesbian relationship
may tag - gay male (prison slang)
moffie - Afrikaans and South African English for male homosexual. Possibly deriving from the term for a castrated sheep.
mucus fucker - heterosexual male; used by gays, refers to intercourse.
nance - variant of nancy
nancy - effeminate and/or gay male, see mama's boy
nancy boy - variant of nancy
necro - short for necrophiliac.
nellie - variant of nelly
nelly - effeminate gay male
no name - pejorative term from Latin America and the Philippines
nonce - pedophile (British slang)
old lady - wife; a gay male (prison slang)
on the down low - A closeted homosexual who carries on a superficially heterosexual life, often with a wife and children, but actively practices homosexuality in secret; particularly in the African-American community.
one of them - homosexual
pansy - an effeminate male; used as a synonym for gay
pederast - male who has relationships with a pubescent boy; slur when used to describe same sex relationships or sexual acts that are not pederasty
peter puffer - gay male, refers to oral sex
pillow biter - a gay male who receives during intercourse
pillow muncher - a gay male who receives during intercourse
player for the other team - homosexual (not necessarily a slur)
pole smoker - a person who performs fellatio
poof - short for poofter
poofta - variant of poofter
poofter - effeminate and/or gay male (UK)
pooter poker - gay male, refers to anal sex
prick - penis, insensitive male
puff - variant of poofter
puffta - variant of poofter
puffter - variant of poofter
punk - In prison slang, punk refers to someone who is treated as a sexual submissive
pussy - vagina, effeminate and/or gay male. weak male.
queen - effeminate or cross-dressing gay male
queer - strange or unusual; a member of any sexual minority, gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender
queer bait - a heterosexual person who acts in a manner to attract homosexuals.
R to Z
Rectal Wrangler - gay male (early 21st century)
Rectum Raider - gay male
Roland - gay male
rump rangler - gay male, refers to anal sex
salad tosser - one who performs oral to anal sex
sapphic - lesbian
sausage jockey - gay male
seme - dominant gay male in intercourse, refers to anal sex
she-male - a preoperative transsexual woman, or a transgendered woman
shirt lifter - gay male
shit shoveler - gay male, refers to anal sex
shit stabber - gay male, refers to anal sex
shrew - wife given to nagging
sissy - effeminate and/or gay male
sissy boy - variant of sissy
sister - gay male (prison slang)
skank - promiscuous, most often female
skippy poofter - gay male immigrant, uncommon insult in Australia, skippy is Australian slang for kangaroo and a slur used towards immigrants
sodomite - gay male, refers to sodomy
swisher - gay male
t-bird - masculine female, see tomboy
tall drink of cock sucker - attractive woman, refers to oral sex. Derived from the phrase "tall drink of water" with a similar, non-sexual meaning.
tallywhacker toker - gay male, refers to fellatio
turd burglar - gay male, refers to anal sex
Turk - gay male, refers to common practice of sodomy among Turkish men
uke - a gay male who takes during intercourse
uphill gardener - gay male, refers to anal sex
weak sister - effeminate male
wimp - effeminate male
woman - effeminate male, as in "don't be a woman"; or a gay male who has the "feminine" role in a relationship
woofta - variant of woofter
woofter - variant of poofter