Thought I'd share some tips myself for those going through this right now or might have to do so in the future.
1. NO CONTACT! Extremely difficult but don't write, call or mail. You'll find thousands of excuses to contact her but don't. You're trying to let go and this will only prolong the desire.
2. Remove everything that reminds of her and put in in a box or something: photos, gifts,clothes etc. Get it out of your way. You don't need that shit right now.
3. Don't look her up on Facebook! One day you'll find pics of her and the new man in her life and you'll just want to die - trust me.
4. Write your feelings down on paper. Make a list of all the things you don't like about her or why you are better of without her.
5. Don't drink or use drugs. Stay clean n sober so you can deal with the stress rather than avoid it.
6. Read or post stupid topics like this, it helps :lol:
7. Work and Hobbies. Whatever it is that you like to do: draw, sports etc.etc. It keeps your mind of things.
8. Avoid the places the two of you used to hang out and don't play those songs you and her listened to while having sex.
9. Hang out with your homies.
10. Don't start dating someone soon after a break up. All you want is your ex, not some bimbo you don't even know.