what are you talking about dude? Why should the vets hold your hand all the way? Do you think people like SEEN, COPE2, and TKID, to name a few, had someone holding their hand all along the way? No, of course not, im a toy and i dont expect for people to help me all along the way, you gotta use that "tough love" or diss as motivation bro, dont expect a helping hand all the time.