im having to quit for the same reason as you my friend. my girlfriend and i get into fights when i drink. i cant smoke pot because i feel gross when i do now after being off of it for 7months thanx to the court. drinking was a way to get folded with out smoking. and pills and coke never were any real "cool" thing to me, so fuck thoes things. i realized not to long ago that i get REALLY depressed when im clean. i have tried to kill myself, and i have done some other fucked up shit to my self, but i got help. rehab was the right choice for me. im not saying its good for everybody tho. it just opend my eyes to things. good luck to you Dirty habit. i wish you the best of luck, because i know how hard it is. just dont end up losing your girlfriend, or your family. its all your really got when you take everything else away. my 2cents. peace