I used to work in the industry. A sexual health specialist told me the only reason humans have HSV 1&2 and primates only have 1 is because primates can Lick their genitals and humans can't.
Don't stress your outbreaks are gonna be at their most severe in the first 6-12 months, then taper off once your immune system has adjusted. Get on an antiviral (valaciclovir, famciclovir or one of the many generics) and taper off your dose to when you don't get ANY outbreaks.
Remember, even if you don't have any outbreaks or symptoms you can still pass it on.band don't be a dick and think that a condom means "she'll be aight" you need to tell people.