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ubejinxed

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  1. hahaha forreal i think i got trapped by the sex.... !! DOH!
  2. thanks.... warm fuzzy
  3. word.... i dont think i'll be getting married again...... perhaps cohabitation this whole thing ruined my outlook/perspective on marriage....
  4. well it could've been the sex or perhaps my hot hot sportbike
  5. uh since our marriage didnt last the necessary amount of time, 2 yrs after he got his conditional green card, and he would've had to apply to have the conditions removed to get the 10yrs.. it gets revoked and he's gonna have to get a lawyer.... he drew out the divorce process as long as possible to try to get more married time so it would look good for the INS (or whatever they call it now) so yeah.. i'm done, and he's not gonna keep the card unless he gets on it.. and he's a lazy ass sooooooooo... maybe not... and abracadara.... yeah it's a great feeling to be done even if you go through some shit.... let her be on her own... DIVORCEE PARTY!!!!!!
  6. i was married for about 2 yrs.... i married for love... but him i think for his papers.... enh... so glad it's over... on to bigger and better things and the dog and the bike??? my life (besides school) they helped me keep it together... alure you're not local anymore hhuh....
  7. ubejinxed

    Anger...

    i could def use some anger management..... like when it gets away from me.. i can't pull it back... dangerous.. it's like i don't give a fark what happens.... i just got to get it out...
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    divorce

    so i dunno if any of you remember my thread about marriage or thinking about it a while ago..... but anyways... it's done..got my final and absolute divorce this week..... and i'm so glad.... the process sucked, obviously,.... but it's good to be done. it's amazing how bad the wrong person in your life can make it.. well i was wondering if any of you have gone through it.... any great stories horror.. etc.... but ya'll are probably too young or what not.. anyways here's some fine stats on divorce: http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsUS.shtml (2002 except where noted) Total divorces granted in 1997: 1,163,000 Rate per 1,000 population (1999): (excluding CA, CO, IN and LA) 4.1 State with the lowest divorce rate: (1997) Massachusetts. Rate per 1,000 population: 2.4 State with the higest divorce rate: Nevada. Rate per 1,000 population: (1997) 9.0 Percentage of population that is married: 59% (down from 62% in 1990, 72% in 1970) Percentage of population that has never married: 24% Percentage of population that is divorced: 10% (up from 8% in 1990, 6% in 1980) Percentage of population that is widowed: 7% Median age at first marriage: Males: 26.9 Females: 25.3 Median age at first divorce: Males: 30.5 Females: 29 Median age at second marriage: Males: 34 Females: 32 Median age at second divorce: Males: 39.3 Females: 37 Median duration of first marriages that end in divorce: Males: 7.8 years Females: 7.9 years Median duration of second marriages that end in divorce: Males: 7.3 years Females: 6.8 years Median number of years people wait to remarry after their first divorce: Males: 3.3 years Females: 3.1 years Percentage of married people who reach their 5th, 10th, and 15th anniversaries: 5th: 82% 10th: 65% 15th: 52% Percentage of married people who reach their 25th, 35th, and 50th anniversaries: 25th: 33% 35th: 20% 50th: 5% Percentage of people who have ever been married by the age of 25: Males: 32% Females: 50% Percentage of people who have ever been married by the age of 35: Males: 77% Females: 84% Percentage of people who have ever been married by the age of 45: Males: 87% Females: 90% Percentage of people who have ever been married by the age of 55: Both males and females: 95% Likelihood of new marriages ending in divorce in 1997: 43% Percentage of all householders who are unmarried in 2000: 48% Percentage of weddings which are remarriages for at least one partner in 1997: 43% Percentage of first marriages that end in divorce in 1997: 50% Percentage of remarriages that end in divorce in 1997: 60% Percentage of divorced women who remarry within five years as of 1995: 54% Estimated average length of divorce proceedings in 1997: 1 year Percentage of African American adults in this age group never married in 1998: 53% Percentage of households occupied by one person in 2000: 25.5% Percentage of population (by area of US) who had never married in 1999: Midwest: 28% Northeast: 28% South: 26% West: 29% a brief article (not necessarily my views) What is the current divorce rate in the United States? Has the divorce rate changed much over the past 5 to 10 years? The divorce rate in the United States has generally been going up throughout the 20th century until its peak in the late 1970s. The rate of divorce has been slowly declining since that peak. In the most recent data, there were about 20 divorces for every 1,000 women over the age of 15. This number is down from about 23 divorces per 1,000 women in 1978, but it is still significantly greater than the rate of divorce during the 1950s. At that time, the rate of divorce was about 5 per 1,000 women. The divorce rate has been climbing in every industrialized country in the world. There are two significant factors affecting the rising divorce rate in the United States and elsewhere: (1) men and women are less in need of each other for economic survival, and (2) gains made in birth control allow men and women to separate sexual activity from having children. A variety of factors are producing the current leveling off of the divorce rate. We may be at the end of the effects produced by the emergence of reliable birth control in the 1960s, but there are also other factors. Our population is aging, and in general longer marriages are more likely to remain intact. Also, more young people are cohabiting rather than getting married. The breakup of this kind of relationship does not get recorded as a divorce.
  9. Re: TEAM ALCO i don't drink everyday... but when i do get to the boozee... it's binge drinking for sure... can't stop! i remember when i didn't used to blackout.... and remembered everyt night i drank... not so much anymore... luckily i don't drink as often anymore...
  10. A&F? if youre gonna go for girls like that you might as get the ones rockin something more expensive so they can take you to dinner cause that have that kinda $$ (providing they not the cash suckin type)
  11. this is silly without photos... weight can be muscle or fatty cakes i mean i weigh like 200lbs but it's all muscle.... my pythons are like child eating size i aint lyin
  12. almost got a scooter this year...... i will get one eventually.. i plan on collecting a cruiser, a scooter and i have my sportbike and bicycle the army of two wheeled vehicles
  13. Re: motorbikes! INDEED TEAM YAMAHA!!!! i lover my raven...... i would make love to it if i could, it's sexier than most men and it gives one hell of a ride. ... !! i'm planning on hittin a couple track days this year. me in my power ranger suit, aka my racing leathers: me on the track:
  14. forilla i don't make love...... i fark ....... or fack....... or .. get really drunk and post stupid shit.
  15. yeah. .. cookies are good.... wicked good. sex is good.... wicked good
  16. ayo homeslice i sold my boat, my house and moved to the D CIZZLE and went to grad school, where i am now.. how's it with you?
  17. really good night too much tequila see ya'll in like a couple months
  18. done drank what there was to drink ok let me ask anther question? who's on first? or why is mac and cheese do good?
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