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what would you do

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by AREANKAY, Jan 26, 2004.


    AREANKAY Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 9, 2001 Messages: 1,183 Likes Received: 39
    if you where with some people that are not to say friends but people you hang out with from time to time and they where talking shit on someone that is a good friend that you care about greatly what would you do, the thing is these people are supposed to be friends with this person too but the shit that was coming out of there mouthes was not cool it was beyond mild joking shit talking.

    what would you do would you mention this to that person that this is what peopple are saying about them when there not around
    or would you let it slide and remember that these kids are apparently assholes like that

  2. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
  3. ubejinxed

    ubejinxed Veteran Member

    Joined: Apr 12, 2001 Messages: 7,543 Likes Received: 3
    do they know you are really good friends with the other person?

    how good friends are they with your good friend?

    if these people know that you are good friends with the other person then they are not only disrespecting the other person but you as well. if someone talks shit about a good friend of mine it's insulting me as well, and i definitely say something back to them.

    now if these people are not very good friends with your friend don't waste your time telling them, just distance yourself and share that idea with the other person. but if these people are supposedly close with your friend let them know. but telling on people gets u caught in the middle, and i try to avoid it. depends where your loyalties lie and how much shit you are willing to take..

  4. Dirty_habiT

    Dirty_habiT Administrator

    Joined: Mar 8, 2001 Messages: 18,128 Likes Received: 76
    Man... craziness, I swear my group of "friends" is the same way.... whoever's not there is getting run through the mud. I'd say they really aren't their friend.
  5. rinse

    rinse Member

    Joined: Dec 28, 2003 Messages: 703 Likes Received: 0
    if they are talkin' all this smack about your partner when he's not arouund, what are they saying about you when your not around?
    especially if your not feelin' a solid bond with them in the first place.
    uh oh....
  6. imported_dowmagik

    imported_dowmagik Senior Member

    Joined: Apr 19, 2001 Messages: 1,904 Likes Received: 1
    sounds like someone needs to pick better friends.
  7. Devilush

    Devilush 12oz Legend

    Joined: Feb 1, 2001 Messages: 17,035 Likes Received: 2
    fuck no. no one is going to talk shit about my friends in front of me. esp if that person is supposed to be friends with my friend.

    i would (1) put that person in check, verbally. thats rude, childish, and un-called for. see what the person really says when you put that person in check. being a good friend is being a friend. i would want my friends to stand up for me when i am not there.

    (2) tell your friend that the person was talking shit but you took care of it. its up to that person to take care of it from there.

    its a damn good thing that i have a good circle of friends. we wouldnt put up with this bullshit.
  8. sweetcherry

    sweetcherry Senior Member

    Joined: Jun 16, 2003 Messages: 1,016 Likes Received: 0
    damn i had the same problem...i was friends with this girl and i mean she had her faults but she was nice but all her other "friends" talked shit behind her back...so i confronted those people and told them to either not be friends with her or stop talkin shit about her becuase its pointless to pretend their her friends and then talk bull behind her back...i stood up for her and risked lookin a fool with people i hangout with...that seemed to work...they stoped talkin shit but then a week later the stupid cunt went and talked some shit bout me...sad that she goes and ruins a friendship with the only person that hasent made fun of her.
  9. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    shittalking behind backs=highschool

    stand up for your friend, then let your friend know whats up.

    you two find other friends who don't talk shit

    problem solved and god speed
  10. sweetcherry

    sweetcherry Senior Member

    Joined: Jun 16, 2003 Messages: 1,016 Likes Received: 0
    yea it is highschool...and middle school...and sadly even elementary school...and its sad that a large percentage of the younger generations have nothing but shit comming out of their mouthes. (damn it i cant find the pic of southpark where they crap shit out of their mouths...that was some funny stuff)

  11. Jackson

    Jackson Veteran Member

    Joined: May 21, 2002 Messages: 7,345 Likes Received: 122
    muh muh muh muh muh MY SHORONA!!!

    Yer ummm.
    Stay schtum lip zipped.
    That shit will blow over.
    Ignorance is the key.
  12. ASER1NE

    ASER1NE Veteran Member

    Joined: Oct 15, 2001 Messages: 7,578 Likes Received: 3
    avoid the drama all together and say nothing

    AREANKAY Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 9, 2001 Messages: 1,183 Likes Received: 39
    yeh i will prolly just do this to not make problems, and believe me i did speak up when i heard what was being said and i got some looks like who are you but thats casue like i said these kids dont really know me all to well so they dont know shit so it threw them off when i was like yo there buddy

    the only good thing is i dont need to fight them over it if i told my friend she would fuck them up more so then i prolly would :lol: :lol:

    another reason i bring this up like this on a message board is cause i dont have these problems with kids i know casue well i guess i roll with adults but apparently some kids decided to get all little kid so really this is a first for me to deal with, shit this is like one of thoose things they talk about on the "real world"
  14. shaolinmasta

    shaolinmasta Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 26, 2003 Messages: 7,884 Likes Received: 157
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  15. enueone

    enueone Member

    Joined: Sep 13, 2001 Messages: 451 Likes Received: 0
    at this point what can you do except not fuck with them cats like that...you realize they're a buncha dickheads anyway...

    if someone i know is talkin about one of my close friends in front of me...i'll dead that shit like "yo that's my homeboy"..but at this point it already happened so instead of starting the whole "yo so and so said this" and relaying it..just say fuck it and not fuck with them cats...you know what i'm sayin..