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What if she had cancer?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by fuse=--action, Jan 6, 2006.

  1. fuse=--action

    fuse=--action 12oz Senior Member

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    What if she had cancer?

    Discussion started by fuse=--action - Jan 6, 2006

    So I was going to break up with my girl the other day. But when I called her (she lives an hour away, so I'm not exactly down for driving there just to do the deed) she didn't answer. So I called her the next day, and the next.

    Finally, yesterday, her friend calls me and tells me that she's WAY sick. As in she's on the bathroom floor puking her guts out still kind of sick. As unfortunate as this is for her, it kind of interrupts my plans. I mean, I can't break up with a girl that's in that condition. I have to at least wait for her to get better.

    Which brought me to the thought: What if she doesn't? What if she gets diagnosed with cancer out of the blue? What then?


    I mean what's the waiting period on that one?



    All hypothetically of course.

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  2. !@#$%

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    maybe she's sick of you
     
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    Pfffffffffft - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    ^^hahah..



    why did you break it off with her in the first place?

    if she did some foul shit then you need to keep going and never look back, otherwise..if you really care then see whats up with her
     
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    fuse=--action - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    She bores me and she doesn't have a car right now.



    Sex could be better.

    -fuse.
     
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    i don't care how sick she is, if she and call you (or call you back) for several days, obviously she's not too concerned with you anyway. i dont think ive ever been in a relationship and not talked to that person in some form, atleast once every single day. maybe im weird like that, and mad folks are going 2 or 3 days without talking to their signifigant other, but that just seems...weird.

    fuck it, dump her.
     
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    i agree...is that surprising?

    if she was concerned at all,
    she would try to get in touch with you
    and ask you to come help her, etc.

    dump her and save both of you some grief.
     
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    fuse=--action - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    Well see that's part of the reason I would be getting rid of her.

    I forgot to include other reasons like that she doesn't pay attention to me. Instead she pays attention to everyone but me and hates it when I pay attention to other girls.


    All of this has just been as of lately though. Don't think I'm some bitch and put up with this for any amount of time.



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  8. RumPuncher

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    seek's got a point.

    if it's not an 'every day' relationship, then it's not that serious.

    Chances are she ate some bad seafood or something.

    + if 'not having a car' is reason enough to break up... you've got bigger problems.

    ++ if she does die of cancer, and you stick with her, you'll get sympathy play for the next decade.
     
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    i should start penning some books based off all the drama we get around here.

    really.
     
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    seeking - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    whats there left to discuss? just don't call her again, and when she finally comes looking for you in a week, tell her you were really sick...of her.
     
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    fuse=--action - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    Also, I'm not actually worried about if she has cancer or anything. There is no indication that would point to anything like that.

    I was just thinking, "Alright dude, just wait till she gets better that way you won't be such a dick." Then I thought, "Fuck, what if she never did?" That's all.
     
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    SteveAustin - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    her not calling you back is definitely a sign...fuck the drama...end it before she does.
     
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    richard_vagina - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    send her flowers and break up with her.
    be a gentleman about it.

    that's all you have to do.
     
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    fuse=--action - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    When I couldn't get in touch with her, I started to think that maybe I should just start to operate under the assumption that we are already broken up and go score with someone else.

    Mind you, by "tried to get in touch with her" I mean I called her once a day.

    -fuse.
     
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    MAGS156 - Replied Jan 6, 2006

    just stop calling and don't go over when she finally calls blame it all on her and say you have moved on
     
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