This is going to change your life I swear

if this has already been talked about delete it but after discovering this book i feel like its my job to tell ever man I can.

Ok so your probably very similar to me. You either jerk off everyday or have a girlfriend that you fuck. Same thing happens to everyone so i dont have to get into it but heres what it comes down to. When you jerk off, your orgasm and your ejaculation are two different things. With this book you can learn to seperate them so you can keep having orgasms without comming. I SWEAR it works. It takes about a week to learn (at least for me) and its the greatest thing ever. No more worrying about how long your gonna stay hard for cause you can do it forever. Plus its got tons of sex secrets for you and your girlfriend. If your a lonely guy this will CHANGE YOUR LIFE! well at least the way you masterbate. Another thing is your body uses up a lot of energy creating all that sperm. when you dont use it you get a lot more energy and are happier. TRUST ME it works.

im not the dude who wrote it or anything just another guy trying to help everyone out cause this is the greatest book ever. When you read it and they start talking about energy and how to move it around your body you might think its bullshit but trust me it works

go ahead and make fun of me if you want but i know im help out some of you guys big time.

1 is enough for me. That and I last a lot longer than my girlfriend, orgasming multiple times is definately not something she'd be down with.

you are going to get nabbed..

I'm not reading a whole fucking book with the word penis in ever sentence......

i practice tantric sex. never had a complaint.

hahah. true dr. dazzle but you really only need to read the first three chapters around 60 pages. and i think its simmilar to tantric sex but i donno

hmmmmm.....

Originally posted by casekonly@Feb 9 2005, 07:17 PM

i practice tantric sex.

maybe one day you'll even get to put that practice to use with a real live woman. keep hope alive.

LOOK AT THE BLOODY GRIN ON THE GUYS FACE ON THE COVER. IM GONNA LOOK FOR IT FOR SURE

id have to buy that online if i was going to buy it.

:lol:

if i was going to buy it.

*looks for credit card*

or get this book:

bacause they have an article in there about the same topic,

but if you leave it on your coffee table people wont assume

that you are into 'docking'. (use urbandictionary.com if you need to)

Another thing is your body uses up a lot of energy creating all that sperm.

OH NOES MY CELLS ARE PRODUCING SPERM ON A LARGE SCALE AND USING UP ALL MY BODY'S ENERGY WHATEVER WILL I DO.

OH DAMN I JUST USED UP 400 TIMES AS MUCH TYPING THAT LAST SENTENCE OMG LOL

alleighluia I have seen the light I will change mY ways. MY LIFE HAS CHANGED FOREVER.........

not

i'd read it.

Originally posted by <KEY3>@Feb 9 2005, 05:16 PM

or get this book:

 

 

bacause they have an article in there about the same topic,

but if you leave it on your coffee table people wont assume

that you are into 'docking'. (use urbandictionary.com if you need to)

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okay i looked up that word Docking on urbandictionary.com and man is that fucking just wrong in every aspect!!!! :hatred:

i wish i didnt look that up... i dont even want to know how you got 'docking' into your vocabulary in the first place dazzle...

dazzle?

dazzle didn't say it... I did.but dazzle will be all happy you confused the two of us.

and I got the word from a joke on http://www.somethingawful.com

I had to look it up too.

man i thought u were going to tell us how to do it, not to read some goddamn book

can't u just give us the kist of it man?

how about someone go ahead and just cut and paste the first three chapters so all of us broke asses who steal everythign else via internet dont have to pay for one more thing.

Originally posted by platapie@Feb 9 2005, 11:02 PM

how about someone go ahead and just cut and paste the first three chapters so all of us broke asses who steal everythign else via internet dont have to pay for one more thing.

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good call.

First the locker room thread and now this, im amazed there hasnt been a buttplug thread yet.

Its nice that girls can have multiples with ease...

just tell us how to do it... im sure it really only takes a paragraph or two. Fuck if im going to read 60 pages worth...

fuck, it only takes a few minutes of googling to find it, you momos:

http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/mantak.html

SUMMARY

INTRODUCTION

What follows is a summary of some of the techniques contained in The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Please keep in mind that this is just a fraction of the information presented in the book. A lot of supporting material is left out, along with ALL the material related to "energy" techniques (many of which amount to "drawing the energy up into the brain"). This summary will see you through only the first part of the program presented in The Multi-Orgasmic Man; if you like what you experience based on the material below, then by all means buy the book and try the rest.

This book's basic approach for male multiple orgasms is that men stop or change the stimulation they are creating/receiving just prior to reaching the point of ejaculatory inevitability. If done close enough to ejaculation, one may experience the muscular contractions that accompany what the authors call "contractile phase orgasms" without moving into "expulsion phase orgasm". Expulsion-phase orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation and erection loss, while contractile-phase orgasm is accompanied by the normal feelings of "coming" (including the 3-5 sec. "fluttering" muscular contractions in the pelvis) without ejaculation and without erection loss.

The Multi-Orgasmic Man suggests that men "peak" to this contractile phase orgasm many times over the course of a lovemaking session or masturbation session. After experiencing each orgasm, one pauses for a few seconds and then resumes whatever pleasurable stimulation one was engaged in.

There's one subtle point here: if you have an orgasm without ejaculating BUT also loose your erection and notice that your urine is cloudy the next time you pee, then you have experienced a "retrograde" ejaculation back into the bladder. These occurrences (related to going "too far" or clamping with the PC muscle "too late") are harmless.

PROPER BREATHING

The first step this book discusses is learning about breathing. By breathing deeply and regularly (without hyperventilating) one can gain more control over orgasm, and enhance one's ability to skirt along the contractile side of things without falling over into the expulsionary side of things. Here's how to practice:

Exercise 1

1. Sit on a chair with your back straight and your feet touching the floor about shoulder width apart.

2. Place your hands over your navel and relax your shoulders.

3. Inhale though your nose and feel your lower abdomen expand at the navel area (below and around it) so that it bulges outward. Your diaphragm will also descend.

4. Keeping your chest relaxed, exhale with some force to pull the lower abdomen back in, as if you were pulling your navel back toward your spine. Also feel your penis and testicles pull up.

5. Repeat steps 3 and 4 eighteen to thirty-six times.

LEARNING TO FOCUS ATTENTION

The following exercise enhances the ability to concentrate. The ability to direct attention to one's partner is an important part of sex.

Exercise 2

1. Slowly inhale (expanding your belly) and exhale (flattening your belly). Count each complete inhalation and exhalation as one breath.

2. Continue breathing from the belly and counting from one to one hundred, thinking only about your breathing.

3. If you notice that your mind has strayed, start again.

4. Practice this exercise twice a day until you can count to one hundred with ease.

FINDING THE PC MUSCLE

Exercise 3

1. When you are about to urinate, stand on your toes and the balls of your feet. If necessary, you can use the wall for support.

2. Inhale deeply.

3. Exhale slowly, forcefully push out the urine while pulling up on your perineum and clenching your teeth.

4. Inhale and contract your PC muscle to stop the flow of urine midstream.

5. Exhale and start urinating again.

6. Repeat steps 4 and 5 three to six times or until you have finished urinating.

The PC (pubococcygeus) muscle is responsible for the rhythmic contractions in the pelvis and anus during orgasm. In women, PC muscle contractions may be used to contract around the penis, causing further stimulation. In both men and women, a strong PC muscle is associated with stronger orgasms. Besides this effect, conscious contraction of the PC muscle around the prostate gland is one technique this book recommends men use in helping to avoid ejaculation.

STRENGTHENING THE PC MUSCLE

This exercise is designed to strengthen the PC muscle. Although one could conceivably stop doing exercise 1 when proper breathing becomes second nature during sex, and one could stop doing exercise 2 when one is capable of directing and maintaining attention, and one could stop doing exercise 3 when one is familiar with one's PC muscle, one should make a habit of doing exercise 4. The more it is done, the stronger the PC muscle will get, and the better sex will feel.

This exercise may also be done by women to receive similar benefits. Please note that in the exercise below the only really important contraction is the PC contraction. You may skip the mouth and eye contractions if you wish, as well as any pelvic contractions unrelated to the PC muscle.

Exercise 4

1. Inhale and concentrate on your prostate, perineum, and anus.

2. As you exhale, contract your PC muscle around your prostate and around your anus while at the same time contracting the muscles around your eyes and mouth.

3. Inhale and relax, releasing your PC, eye, and mouth muscles.

4. Repeat steps 2 and 3, contracting your muscles as you exhale and releasing them as you inhale, nine to thirty-six times.

SELF-PLEASURING

Now, we learn the basic technique of male multiple orgasms. Keeping in mind that orgasm and ejaculation are physiologically separate processes that can be enjoyed independently of each other, we train ourselves to experience orgasm without ejaculation. We initially learn through masturbation, and incorporate this technique into lovemaking with a partner after we've had sufficient practice:

Exercise 5

1. Start by lubricating your penis. Lubricant will increase your sensations. Oil is generally better than lotion, which dries up more quickly.

2. Pleasure yourself however you like, remembering to massage and stimulate your entire penis, your scrotum, and you perineum, including the Million-Dollar Point (a point on the perineum just forward of the anus). Continue to breathe deeply and regularly, as you learned in exercise 1.

3. Try to notice your increasing levels of arousal: notice the tingling at the root of your penis, notice the stages of erection, notice your heartbeat rise.

4. When you are getting near ejaculation, stop and rest (possibly breathing in deeply and holding the breath for a second or two). Try to notice the contraction of your PC muscle and anus that occurs at contractile-phase orgasm, although don't be surprised if it takes some time to experience this without ejaculating. You can also try to squeeze your PC muscle around your prostate if the prostate starts contracting and you are afraid you might fall over the edge.

5. After you regain control, you can start again as many times as you like and continue for as long as you like.

In this exercise, one should experiment with getting as close as possible to ejaculation without ejaculating. The PC muscle contraction part of this technique is what allows you to get MUCH closer to ejaculation (and hence experience a fuller non-ejaculatory orgasm) than mere stopping would allow.

If you manage to achieve contractile-phase orgasms (without ejaculating) twice or more in one masturbation session without losing your erection, then you should pat yourself on the back: you're multi-orgasmic!

INCORPORATING MULTIPLE ORGASMS INTO SEX WITH A PARTNER

Once the proper feelings are identified and experienced in Exercise 5 (contractions of the PC muscle that WOULD have led to ejaculation but don't because you stopped and/or clamped your PC muscle around your prostate) they can be carried over straight away in to sex with a partner. The only difference is that with a partner you generally stop thrusting or else (verbally or non-verbally) ask your partner to slow down/stop whatever THEY are doing rather then slowing down/stopping your own hand (as you did in Exercise 5).

Although this book contains a chapter devoted to issues surrounding gay sex, it made most of its partnered-sex suggestions in the context of male/female intercourse. In my opinion, this book has the potential to be very sexually liberating for male/female couples, as multi-orgasmic men would logically seem to be a better sexual match for (often naturally) multi-orgasmic women.

DELAYING EJACULATION IN MALE/FEMALE INTERCOURSE

The first thing to note is that when using the male multiple orgasm techniques it is generally necessary for men to slow down or stop as ejaculation nears. If regular intercourse is going to be performed in a male/female coupling, it's often a good idea for the woman to experience an orgasm or two first (manually or orally) so that any stopping/starting is not as disturbing. This also is a good idea as intercourse is generally quite a bit more pleasurable for women after an orgasm or two.

If it's necessary for the man to slow down to avoid ejaculating, but the woman is close to orgasm and doesn't want thrusting to stop, there are a few options. Obviously, the man can stop thrusting and massage the clitoris or vagina with his hand. Another approach is to just change the thrusting style: instead of moving in and out, while all the way in move up and down or in circles while pressing your body against her clitoris. This movement is driven by the pelvis, and can be a lot of fun.

CHOOSING A SEXUAL POSITION IN MALE/FEMALE INTERCOURSE

"Man on Top" (missionary) position allows good eye contact, which is valuable if both partners are multi-orgasmic and they want to do some of the "energy" stuff mentioned in this book (like imagining the sexual energy flowing up their spines to their brains). Although this position isn't the best at allowing G-spot stimulation, this stimulation can be increased by putting a pillow underneath the woman's hips, or by her bringing her legs up to drape over the man's shoulders (also, the higher the legs, the deeper the penetration).

"Woman on Top" (straddling) position is an easy one for men to control ejaculation in. Gravity assists in ejaculatory control, and because the man can relax his pelvic muscles it's MUCH easier for him to pay attention to what's going on and slow things down if ejaculation is too close. This position also allows the woman to stimulate her clitoris during sex. The fact that the woman can control rate and type of stimulation, and the fact that she can stimulate her clitoris during sex, are strong reasons for this position being an easy one for multiorgasmic women to be multi-orgasmic in.

"Man from Behind" (doggie) position is good if strong stimulation is desired, or if desire is flagging. Deep penetration is very easy, and becomes deeper the more "forward" the woman bends (i.e. leaning into the bed with the legs and torso at a sharper angle to each other). Clitoral stimulation is easy, and G-spot stimulation is pretty direct. The lack of eye contact is the only real drawback, though if you have a mirror by the bed you can see each other's eyes by looking to the side into the mirror; this actually can be quite erotic.

two minutes ago i didn't know what docking was........ :yuck:

Hahahaha.....Earmuff's is all about docking.

Originally posted by CinchedWaist@Feb 9 2005, 09:50 PM

Its nice that girls can have multiples with ease...

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i think its only some of us really. its a congenital thing. although it probably takes some experimentation to find it if you have it.

"the Million-Dollar Point"

no ones gonna listen to me but you cant just read that you really got to read the whole three chapters

no thanks..