The G Spot

I'm starting this thread now that I'm, once again, sexually active. It has been a long time, a little more than a year in fact. While I'm apparently not too rusty on the hinges, I'm always down to improve and learn something new. It's not my intent to be graphic or vulgar, but we'll just see how this one goes, shall we?

 

I was going down on "Xgirl" the other night. She's the first girl I've made orgasm orally, and while I think there is a certain level of prowess you can possess, your performance very much depends on the person you're with, for both physical, emotional, and mental reasons. Some people just play better together. For instance, I think she's the first one I made cum simply because I cared enough to try that hard. Through the course of four hours on and off, she came five times. This amazed her and me as you can imagine.

 

The problem is this...clitoral orgasms, while having a large fanbase, come with a price. Go too hard and you leave her extremely sensitive. Think about when after you go off, and she keeps giving you head. It becomes too sensitive to allow (at least for me). The nerves are on edge, and need a rest. It is largely the same for a woman's clitoris. She needs a break, and goddamnit so do I. I go very softly the first time, but it seems everytime after that requires more pressure and a longer time frame to get her off.

 

I want to learn about gspot orgasms mainly because it means a different type and variety is the spice of life. All the girls on the board, the ones not too shy to speak up, can provide the best advice on this subject. All the guys, please share your experiences. Anyone add anything to help the education process, or ask questions.

 

To catch people up...an overview. As far as I've been able to muster, all women have a gspot. There is some confusion about this, which leads me to believe that while the area is present, the stimulation of that area may sometimes not bring results. The Gspot, anatomically, is the area beneath the urethral sponge. (urethra...remember biology? you pee through it.) This might at least partially explain its role in what is often called "female ejaculation." It also might help explain why Gspot stimulation makes some women feel as if they have to urinate when they really don't. (The ejaculate is not urine.) I believe it's one to two inches inside the vagina, located on the roof. It feels like a concentrated mass of spongy tissue, and you'll notice the difference between it and other areas.

 

The main problem I've come across is the urination thing. While stimulated, Xgirl complained that it hurt...not in a bad way but in a Ouch...don't stop...okay stop I'm confused, kind of way. It made her feel as if she had to pee and she didn't want to for obvious reasons. IS there anyway to overcome this sensation, or is it something you just have to ride out to the end? In a position (I don't know what it's called) where the woman lays on her stomach and the man is on her back, with vaginal penetration, some girls also mention that peeing feeling. I'm assuming this was also gspot pressure.

 

Let the monkey knife fight begin.

punch her in the head. it feels GUUUUUUUUTE

going lightly sometimes will work plus it feels awesome.

 

i've given up on anyone ever finding my g-spot.

^ have you?

 

Find it yourself then tell your partner.

Dont expect someone else to fine the Pirates Treasure without a map.

what you have to do is..........

 

pick her upstick your dick inside,shove it all the way in and lift her up and down...not letting your pee-pee slip out at all....inside you will feel this thing....bouncing up and down on your dickhead...my last girlfriend moaned like a cow and she creamed all over me.....im not sure if that was the Gspot,but i know its all "G"..

READ A COUPLE OF BOOK ABOUT SEX...LEARN.

its all for the better...

4 1/2 hours.....and i bet she blew you for like 5 minutes right...lol.....damn kid how's your tongue feelin today....no girl is worth that kind of time,. As far as the G-spot is concerned......much like unicorn's and monkey's knifefighting.....it is a myth.---ahhhhh sheeiiit, i'm just a jealous old coot---when do I get to hear i'm cummmmmmmmmmmmmming:crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

inside you will feel this thing....bouncing up and down on your dickhead

That's like my exgirlfriend. I would hit the back, and not pull out, just kept shoving, like trying to propell her foreward. It was like a perfect recipe. This is something else though.

 

Yeah dude. My tongue hurt a lot. So did my chin, for reasons I just won't spell out.

it exists.

 

some women know where it is others need to find it....

its supposed to be on the side of the thingy closest to the out side....anyway use your thumb lightly on the outside while searching on the inside till you find it and then once it is found proceed with le tigre position (doggy style) and let her find it.

i've had success w/ this move in the past.

 

while fingering a girl, push lightly on top of her, well you know..pussy, and with your other hand rub on her outside above her crotch where your fingers are inside. so from the inside you are kind of massaging your hand on the outside. you can get the g-spot in between your hands. i have found the g-sopt this way, some girls have loved this, most actually, but it did not go over so well with one girl. just do it lightly. i also have really long fingers, this may or may not be a factor. good luck homie!

The G Spot

 

If the woman is laying on her back, then her G Spot is located roughly 1.5" inside her vagina on the upper wall. The most ultimate orgasms come from a woman having her g-spot stimulated. The area inside the vagina typically has a different texture; ridged (not as smooth) as the rest of her genitilia. A G-Spot orgasm is often associated with female ejaculation and 15-30 mins of a uforic sensation where the female is in complete bliss... Don't expect much from her during this time, she is in heaven.

 

Fingering

With your fingers as far "in" as is comfortable for the woman, move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina. It generally feels best if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls while rotating. You may wish to give a LITTLE extra pressure towards her belly (upwards) as long as you don't break the steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the (usually slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind the pubic bone and exert pressure towards her belly (upwards). This is direct G-spot stimulation, and it usually feels best if the fingers are subtly moving. You can move your fingers in small, slow circles, or point your fingers more sharply and rock them back and forth.

 

Theres some text that should help out...read over it.. but of course the best method of learning is to actually practice.. id suggest and i dont know why people dont do this more but tell your girl to tell you when shit feels good, that way you can concentrate on getting her off and not have to fumble around for hours on end.

Cunnilingus

 

Performing cunnilingus is about the most wonderful thing you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and it has the tendency to give her an exceptional orgasm. Many women prefer it to intercourse, and for most, it is the easiest way to orgasm. There is nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; and that is meant as you enjoy the taste, smell, and feeling of her vaginal juices. Besides, lots of women expect it these days and men who perform great cunnilingus are always appreciated and considered fabulous lovers. What if things don't smell so sweet? Don't suffer or complain, just take a nice hot shower or bath together. See the Bathing and Showering section for more details on how to make that bathroom experience a whole lot of fun for the both of you. Before reading further please read the section on the clitoris (Other Spots) so as you better understand exactly what you are dealing with and how it works. Also, it is an excellent idea to combine cunnilingus with fingering techniques. This generally will make a woman's orgasm more intense and will get her there more rapidly.

 

Tonguing

Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that won't feel terrific, so relax! Any licking and sucking of the labia, vaginal entrance, clitoris, or anal area is going to feel great to the woman. Also, you should never stop doing something that is obviously working (unless your purposefully teasing her, but don't take that to far either).

 

Here are some descriptions of how to get your tongue into certain shapes for performing cunnilingus:

 

The sharp, wide tongue:

To achieve this position, stick your tongue as far out of your mouth as possible, then try to touch your nose. Once you are in this position, hold the same muscle groups still and begin moving your tongue around. Practice five sets of three, moving the tongue first in circular motions, then up and down.

 

The sharp, round tongue:

To achieve this position, point your tongue while simultaneously trying to make the top of your tongue touch the roof of your mouth and the bottom of your tongue touch the bottom of your mouth. Once you are in this position, practice moving your tongue in and out of your mouth while keeping the tongue hard and round. For the more advanced student, try keeping your mouth closed and circling your tongue around inside of it, while of course, maintaining position.

 

Flat, soft, wide tongue:

To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Try to make your tongue rest gently on the bottom teeth. Once you have accomplished this, slowly, while holding the position, move your tongue outside the mouth. Practice curling the wide tip of the tongue upward, downward and side to side. This too, practice for five sets of three, while holding each move for 2 seconds.

 

Flat, hard, wide tongue:

To achieve this position, flatten your tongue in your mouth. Cover all your bottom teeth with your mouth. Using some force, try to explode your tongue in all the side positions. Using all the muscles in your tongue, try to move your tongue around.

 

Tonguing Techniques

The Lick

Leaving your tongue soft and jaw relaxed, try licking her from vaginal entrance up to her clit. This is a really good way to start out.

 

Labial Hold

Run your tongue between the inner and outer labia on one side, while holding the two parts together with your lips. Now do the other side.

 

Tongue Intercourse

In and out, around and around, etc. This feels nice. Not wonderful or incredible or earth-shaking; nice.

 

The Clitoris Flick

Spread her outer vaginal lips with your hand(s). Then, with your tongue pointed and stiff, gently flick here and there. Feel free to roam, but keep coming back to her clit. This drives some women wild, and others can't handle the feeling. Some women may prefer that you always leave your tongue soft, so when you try this, pay attention to whether those moans are ecstacy or pain.

 

The following techniques should not be introduced until your partner is really hot (i.e., very wet). These are very intense actions which may be too much to take for some women, even when nearing orgasm.

 

The Clitoris Suck

With her clitoris exposed, give it a quick little suck; pulling it into your mouth briefly and letting it go. This is a lot like licking a bit of cake batter off of your pinky. This feels incredible, and is a fine thing to do if you feel like torturing her.

 

The Clitoris Hold

Take her exposed clit into your mouth and gently suck on it, simultaneously flicking your tongue over and around it. This can be done very lightly or very aggressively, and combined with fingering, will usually rapidly produce an intense orgasm.

 

The Tongue Tube

Roll your tongue into a tube (if you cannot do this, forget about it because it is genetic and you can't learn it). This technique works best in an inverted or 69 position. Roll your tongue into a tube around her clitoris. Slide it back-and-forth; in effect, your tongue is doing something similar to a woman's vagina around a man's penis. This is likely to bring any woman over the edge and to an explosive orgasm.

 

Still Having Trouble?

Try using your tounge to spell the alphabet on her genitals. This works surprisingly well as your tounge is always moving in different directions. Learn her favourite letters and the orders that work the best!

G spot , easy to find , even easier to please ..........always a good time when ur girl gushes on ur dick ........

 

Originally posted by ASER1NE

orgasms are always good , i was watching some sex show that was sayin how most women usually only have clitoral orgasms , which while being quite intense , are no match for gspot orgasms which are 'apperantly' more vigorous and feel deeper and fuller..........this is because the two orgasms are routed through completely separate nerve systems to reach your brain , just thought id add that .

 

so the moral of the story is whatever you want it to be

here's what i do: one finger inside, rubbing circles over the g spot. its on the roof, and feels like a knot in your neck or back. other hand spreading the labia open. this makes the clit pop up. its more sensitive this way. start slowly licking and with the other hand slowly on the g spot. gradually speed up, she should make the right noise to let you know how close she is to orgasm. when it hightens up, go really fast, then while she's really excited, slow down suddenly. it will let her down without orgasm, but keep going with your tongue and finger, slowly bulding up. repeat this process around four times. on the fourth time, just go all the way, making her cum. all those previous unachieved orgasms will all burst out in one. i always do this and almost every girl tells me that either i'm the best at it, or i gave them the longest orgasm they've ever had. :king:

thanks high priest, i had read that same website. what i'm looking for is personal experience, particularly in the uirinating feeling part. can it be overcome, if so how (speed, technique). i try to treat it less scientifically and go more along the approach you share. what feels good...lemme know. etc. maybe it's just not for some folks

 

good call, bug

why do girls have better orgasms?? shit 15-30 minutes??? god damn thats gotta feeel good, and they get mulitple ones...holy shit

to add my .02

 

First things first!

It all starts with a kiss and if you are not good at kissing you won't get far enough to get her panties off of her and use your new found oral skills. So I want to share with you first some techniques for driving her wild with a kiss. Many women complain that after they have had sex with a man for a while or are in a relationship with a man that he does not kiss them often enough or long enough. So if you are guilty of this STOP IT NOW! And go kiss your lover like you did in the beginning. Pretend that this is your first kiss for the very first time and try to feel those same feelings all over again. Then kiss her and slowly and passionately make out with her like you used to in when you were first dating.

I can't tell you how many times I have heard a woman say that she can tell the first time a man kisses her if she is going to sleep with him or that if he knows how to kiss he will be good in bed! WOW what pressure! Your first kiss could be your last! Many women actually decide with your first kiss if they will go any further. So it stands to reason that you better polish up your kissing skills and techniques. So I am going to share with you some of the do's and don't of kissing, kind of a Kissing Technique 101!

 

Kissing Technique 101

 

Clean Teeth and Fresh Breath

First off, you absolutely must have clean teeth and fresh clean smelling breath. You should have your teeth cleaned at least twice a year. And brush your teeth every morning and evening and after ever meal if possible. Drink allot of water rather than soft drinks (for general health and for healthy teeth), coffee can stain your teeth and leave bad breath. Also if you are on a date and you go to dinner, after you eat go to the restroom and clean your teeth and make sure you don't have any food stuck in your teeth. The natural enzymes in your mouth can cause the food to putrefy in your mouth and cause bad breath. This is especially true with meat! Keep some mints handy for the both of you. Mints are better than gum because they will dissolve where gum will stay around and may get in the way of your first kiss! Now that you have clean teeth and breath, let's talk about kissing technique.

 

Keep Your Lips In Shape!

Do you want to kiss someone with dry, cracked and or raw lips? Well neither does she! So keep your lips in good shape. Keep some chapstick, carmex or other lip conditioner with you at all times and keep your lips soft and smooth. Don't pick or pull your skin on your lips, it will only make it worse!

 

Kissing Technique 101

Let's assume that this is a first kiss and if it is not a first kiss, pretend that it is a first kiss as I mentioned above and it will help bring some new excitement to a existing relationship, try it and see!

So first off go slow and don't rush things. When the time is right, slowly go in for the kiss and be very gentle, with only slightly parted lips. Most women complain that either the guys are too tight lipped or to wide lipped and slobber all over them. So you need to have just slightly parted lips. Then gently press or cushion your lips on hers. When you put your lips on hers they will fit better if you straddle either her top or bottom lip between your lips. Kiss her long and slow, and then if she responds follow her lead and kiss her again. Each time savor the experience and vary where your lips land from her top lip to her bottom lip or on both lips...

As you continue you can part your lips more and gently start to bring just the tip of your tongue into play. Now if she has stared sticking her tongue into your mouth, then that is a strong signal for you to do the same, but still go slowly and don't stick it in all the way, go slow in a teasing manner.... Once you get to this point of passionate French Kissing, there are endless variations and techniques you can use. I will give you a few below.

 

Tongue Techniques:

 

When you are kissing passionately with your tongues involved you can:

 

1. Run your tongue around hers and intertwine your tongue with hers.

 

2. Play the follow me game: Touch her tongue, then quickly bring your tongue back into your mouth and see if she follows you?

 

3. Suck on her tongue! or Suck on her lower lip! GENTLY PLEASE!!!

 

4. Flick the tip of her tongue with your with your tongue the same way that you would her clitoris if you were performing oral sex on her. This technique will give her the message that you would be good at oral sex!

 

5. Lick the edges of the inside of her lips with the tip of your tongue.

Those should get you going and for your homework, come up with variations of you own.

Now that you have been passionately kissing you may be heading toward passionate lovemaking. So let's take this kissing into the realm of foreplay and oral sex!

 

Oral Foreplay 101

Now that you have been kissing and she is responding just rip off her panties and dive right between her legs and move your tongue at warp speed. NOT! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT WOMEN COMPLAIN ABOUT! So many men are guilty of this! I mean most men would love it if you were making out with a girl and she just dropped to her knees whipped out your cock and started to suck you off right then and there! BUT SHE IS NOT A GUY! Women want to be seduced and teased. Even men that like to go down on women are guilty of this! 0 to pussy in 5.2 seconds! C'mon guys this is not a race it is a seduction, a tease and an event that you want to make last as long as possible!

 

So what you want to do is to tease her and then please her. Keep in the back of your mind "tease her" every time you make love to a women. When you tease her, you build sexual anticipation and increase her arousal. You want to drive her mad with desire. You don’t even want to touch her pussy (as you read my newsletters you will notice that sometimes I use the word "vagina" and other times the word "pussy", it all depends on my mood. I have also found that most women refer to their genitals as a pussy as well, I hope I do not offend anyone, but I say what I feel at the time.) Until she is dripping wet!!! So let's tease her now!

 

Moving into foreplay Step By Step

Note: As you read this I want you to imagine yourself doing this to a lover, real or imagined, so that the techniques become part of you and will flow effortlessly from you when you are with a partner. If you don't have a partner at this time, imagine it over and over again so that the techniques will become second nature.

 

As you are kissing her mouth you also want to kiss her on other places on her face too. Kiss her, cheek bones, her chin, all over her lips kissing and sucking as you go ( don't suck on her face, only her lips, as most women don’t like the skin on there face sucked on) Also you will notice that I did not include her forehead as this is normally a place where our parents and grandparents kiss us and is normally associated with non-sexual love and at this point you don’t want to remind her of non-sexual feelings.

 

Next move over to the area where her jaw line neck and ear meet. This is a very sensitive area. Very gently kiss, lick and suck on this area very tenderly and slowly. ( If you say anything to her keep your voice very soft as you are very close to her ear and almost anything you would say in a normal voice would be loud and hurt her ear and possibly kill the mood.)

Now move down her neck very slowly doing that same as you did in step 2. See Figure 2) continue this if she is responsive. Remember that when you make love to a women you can always ask a women "Does this feel good?" That way you know you are not wasting time. But don't over do it with the asking.

 

At this point you should move along the path in Figure 3 or a similar one. As you go along the path kiss, suck and lick. Move around the edge of the breast first kissing lightly then licking and finally gently sucking (don't suck hard enough to leave a hickey or bruise). Cover the entire breast but don’t touch the nipple yet. Move in a circular motion moving closer and closer each time around.

 

When you get just at the edge of the nipple use one of the techniques below (You can use them in the order listed below or in any order you choose, but "The Warm Breath" should be done first.

 

The Warm Breath:

Before you actually touch the nipple, use your warmest breath on her nipple, but don’t actually touch her.

 

The Swirling Tongue:

Swirl you’re the tip of your tongue around the very edge of the areola of the nipple each time getting closer and closer to the tip of the nipple. Start slow and go faster if you desire. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

 

The Tongue Flick:

Flick the tip of her now erect nipple back and forth with the tip of your tongue. Start slow and go faster if you desire. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t do it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch and alternate techniques.

 

The Suck:

Slowly take the nipple into your mouth and gently suck it and knead it with your tongue, lips and mouth. Press the nipple between your tongue and the roof of your mouth.

 

The Suck & Flick:

Do the suck as outlined above, then when the nipple is in your mouth flick it back and forth and up and down with your tongue. Start slowly and go faster if you desire. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

 

The Nibble:

Nibble very, very gently on her nipple with your teeth. If you have any jagged edges on your teeth you should skip this one. You only want to knead the nipple with your teeth very gently. This should only be done for 30 seconds at most. (A good way to practice this one is to put a grape on your mouth and play with it with your teeth and nibble it with out breaking the skin of the grape)

 

The Big Suck:

This time when you suck the nipple into your mouth suck as much of the surrounding breast in to your mouth as well and gently suck and knead it with your tongue. Push the nipple and breast to the top of your mouth with your tongue like before.

 

The Cool Breath:

Now that her nipple is wet, if you blow on it with cool stream of air from your mouth it will provide a cool sensation on her nipple do this for 15-30 seconds. After you do this immediately follow up with "The Suck & Flick", your warm mouth will very good to her right after the sensation of the cool breath.

Use the above techniques first on one breast and then the other, one at a time at first and then back and forth. You can even push her nipples together and lick them both at the same time (if her breasts are big enough.) Do all of this for at least 20-30 minutes! She will love you for it. Most men just spend a couple of minutes on a woman’s breasts, kind of like they are passing through on the way down and if you are having a quickie that is ok. But now you are going to show her that you are a man who not only appreciates her breasts but also a man who sees her breasts as a destination rather than somewhere you stop on the way down. You are going to show her you are a man who completely enjoys to and knows how to make love to a woman and fulfill her sexual desires.

 

Now move down her abdomen slowly and gently kissing, licking and sucking as you go. Circle the navel. You might gently probe inside her navel with your tongue, but very lightly and gently. Some women will enjoy it and others will hate it. If she does not enjoy it stop. And continue with the other areas. You can also cover the entire area as in Figure 4 and spend an extended period of time on her tummy or abdomen. You should spend at least 5-10 minutes. Remember tease her.

 

Note 1 : Don't tickle her. If she it too ticklish you make have to skip the area that she

finds ticklish.

 

Note 2 : I am including many illustrations because I want to cover even the most basic techniques and ideas so that if you are a person with no sexual experience what so ever you will be able to be a confident lover and know exactly what to do.)

At this point you can go down to her legs or turn her over and go to her back, which will be very nice because most of the time most men skip the back if they have started on the front. If you decide to go to her back, kiss lick and suck all the way around her waist as you turn her over on to her tummy.

 

When you get to her back, continue in one smooth motion into the pattern or path in Figure 5. Remember to keep the idea of your passion and desire for her in your mind and to keep teasing her as you go with light touches of you lips, then more pressure, then add your tongue, suck and nibble. You can also use light bites that end in a kiss on her back as well. Spend at least 10 minutes on her back.

 

 

After her back you will want to move down to her butt , First going down one side and back up and then over and down the other side. At this point you can either start to orally please her from behind or have her turn over. In this scenario I am going to show you what to do when you have her turn over.

 

 

After you turn her over you should still be at her feet. Start now once again. Kissing licking , and using all of the techniques you have learned up until now. If you are into sucking toes now is the time to do it. Suck each toe and nibble on them. ( If her feet are not clean or she has toenail fungus or any open cuts or blisters, I recommend skipping the oral toe play. ) Now start on the top of her foot and work your way up her inner calf as it is much more sensitive than the shin area.

 

Move up her inner thigh . Then go up to the very edge of her pussy licking in one long stroke. Then over and down the other side and down her other leg all the way down to the foot, using all of the techniques you have learned so far. (This is going to drive her crazy, because it teases her and builds anticipation and it is rare that once a guy gets to her pussy he almost never leaves. You are teasing the hell out of her and showing her who is in control in this situation.) Now go back up her leg, and all the way back up to the edge of her pussy.

 

 

Kiss, lick and suck, the entire area all around to the left and right of her pussy all of the techniques I have taught you so far. Lick below her pussy on her perineum. (the spot right below her pussy and above her anus.) Do this for at least 5 – 10 minutes.

 

At this point you can also stimulate her anus with your mouth as well if you wish. Many women love this type of oral – anal stimulation.

 

WARNING: Oral – Anal stimulation if not done under the right conditions can have associated health risks as there are bacteria that live in the lower intestine that can cause serious infections in the upper gastrointestinal tract (i.e. your mouth, stomach, small intestine), or your partners vagina. If you intend to practice oral – anal stimulation, there are certain pre-cautions you should follow.

 

A. You should know your partner well and know that she is in good health, and free from STDs, Hepatitis and HIV.

 

B. You should only do oral - anal stimulation when your partner is fresh from the shower and/or has washed thoroughly with soap and hot water. And has not had a bowl movement since she has washed.

 

C. Nothing that penetrates your partner's anus should come into contact with her mouth, your mouth or her vagina. I don’t recommend penetrating her anus with your tongue. If you do penetrate her anus with your finger, make sure that you don’t stimulate her anus orally after that point as when you remove the finger it could bring bacteria and/or feces from inside the rectum outside to the surface of the anus. Also remember which finger penetrated her so that later you can avoid bringing it into contact with her/your mouth or her vagina.

 

If you follow these precautions you should be safe. But remember if you do practice oral – anal stimulation you do so at your own risk.

 

Now we move on to what you have been waiting for and what she is now wanting and needing, craving so bad that it is driving her wild. At this point she should be dripping wet! So now you start to please her by using the techniques below.

 

 

Oral Vaginal/Clitoral Stimulation Techniques:

In almost all of these techniques your mouth is right on her Vulva (pussy) you almost never have your tongue extended as they do in porno films. Porno Tongue as some people call it is not good sexual technique. It is used for the benefit of the camera and for the viewer of the porno movie (to get good camera angles), not the benefit of the actress. A tongue in a hot warm mouth feels much better than one extended out as far as it will go. Also when your tongue is in your mouth you have much better control, dexterity and speed (when called for). The one exception is when you are using teasing strokes in the beginning, but then you will move into whole mouth techniques. You will use many of the same techniques you have used above but they are slightly altered so be sure to re-read them below along with the new ones.

 

Start with the teasing strokes, first and move on to indirect clitoral stimulation, finally move on to direct clitoral stimulation (unless your partner is too sensitive for direct clitoral stimulation.)

 

The Warm Breath:

Before you actually touch her vulva (external vaginal area or pussy), use your warmest breath on the whole area. But don’t actually touch her pussy. Use your softest warmest breath on the external area only. WARNING: NEVER EVER BLOW INTO YOUR PARTNER'S VAGINA! THIS CAN CAUSE AN AIR BUBBLE (Air Embolism) TO ENTER HER BLOOD STREAM AND CAN RESULT IN SERIOUS INJURY AND EVEN DEATH!!!

 

The Long Teasing Lick:

Using the tip of your tongue, lick the just outside her edge of her outer vaginal lips (or labia majora) with long strokes one at a time. Then move inward and lick directly on each lip tracing it up to her clitoral hood. Move inward again and lick between the inner and outer lips (or labia minora and labia majora.) With each stroke lick from the bottom of her pussy to the top and make as long a stroke as possible.

 

The Ice Cream Lick:

Lick her Vulva (Pussy) with a long lick like you would an ice cream cone. Make your tongue as wide as possible and lick from the bottom to the top with long broad strokes. Depending on how adventurous you are you can start your stroke at either the bottom of her pussy, below her pussy at the perineum, or just below her anus (See precautions mentioned earlier about anal stimulation.) And lick her anus, perineum, and entire vulva. If you choose to do it this way start the stroke just below her anus with the tip of your tongue. When you get to the perineum start to widen your tongue and when you get to her vulva your tongue should be almost flat and cover as much of her vulva as possible.

 

The Tongue Thrust ( a.k.a Tongue Fucking):

Thrust your tongue in and out of her vaginal opening. You want to thrust in as far as possible. You can either press your mouth against her vulva and thrust in and out with your tongue. Or stick your tongue out as far as possible and make it is hard or ridged as possible and thrust in and out by moving your head forward and back.

 

The Alphabet Technique:

As comedian Sam Kenneson said "Lick The Alphabet! and do lot’s of capital T!" Write the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on your partners Vulva. This will add a great variety of strokes and sensation. This is a teasing technique and should be done in the beginning.

 

The Swirling Tongue:

Press your slightly open mouth on her vulva over her clitoris and Swirl you’re the tip of your tongue around clitoris. Start slow and pay attention to your partner’s movements. After you have been at it for awhile you can use your fingers to pull back the clitoral hood and provide even more direct stimulation.

 

The Tiny Movements Technique:

Take the very tip of your tongue and put it directly on her clitoris. And move your tongue very, very slowly in a very small circle, or left to right, up and down (see which one she responds to best.) You are just barely moving your tongue. You can even stop sometimes but just keep your tongue there on her clit and she will start to move for you.

 

The Tongue Flick:

Flick the tip of her clitoris back and forth with the tip of your tongue. Start slow and go faster to see which speed she responds to most favorably. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

 

The Suck:

Slowly take her clitoris into your mouth and gently suck it and knead it with your tongue, lips and mouth.

 

The Suck & Flick:

Do the suck as outlined above, then when the clitoris is in your mouth flick it back and forth and up and down with your tongue. Start slow and go faster if she responds well. You can do this as long as she is enjoying it. But don’t do it so long that she gets bored with the sensation. Switch techniques after a minute or two.

 

The Cool Breath:

Now that her clitoris and vulva are wet, if you blow on it with a very soft cool stream of air from your mouth it will provide a cool sensation on her clitoris do this for 15 seconds. After you do this immediately follow up with "The Suck & Flick", your warm mouth will very good to her right after the sensation of the cool breath. Use on the external area only. WARNING: NEVER EVER BLOW INTO YOUR PARTNER VAGINA! THIS CAN CAUSE AN AIR BUBBLE (Air Embolism)TO ENTER HER BLOOD STREAM AND CAN RESULT IN SERIOUS INJURY AND EVEN DEATH!!!

 

General Tips for Orally Pleasing a women:

Continue to stimulate your partner using the techniques you have just learned. You can bring your partner to orgasm several times if you desire. Most women may need a short break between orgasms. So after you have given her an orgasm wait 30-90 seconds before you resume stimulation. During this period you can come up for air and kiss her on the lips or stay down between her legs and kiss lick and suck on her inner thighs.

Almost all women in that have answered my survey say that their favorite oral technique that they have had done to them is when their lover also stimulates them with his fingers as well at the same time as performs oral sex on them. So if you don’t know the best way to do this read last months May 2000 Newsletter for the detailed techniques on manual G-Spot Stimulation techniques that can be combined with what you have learned here.

If she starts pushing her pussy against your mouth harder that means she wants more and is in enjoying it. If she pulls away she may be too sensitive or you may be providing too direct stimulation too soon. You can continue to use other techniques or stay with this one. When you find a techniques the really drives her wild stick with it! You must learn how to read her movements, her breathing and her sounds.

You can add more direct stimulation to any of the techniques above by pulling the clitoral hood back and stimulating the exposed clitoris directly. You do this by gently pulling back the skin covering her clitoris with your thumb or finger.

Ask your partner what she likes best and how you can bring her the greatest pleasure.

Originally posted by Iris

 

i've given up on anyone ever finding my g-spot.

 

:( Me too.

I have never orgasmed through just sex or fingering, but when it's accompanied with clitoral stimulation, I do.

One time I think I almostttttt orgamsed through just sex, and i'm pretty sure it was because my dude was pornstar big, and knew how to work with me well... like the rythem and stuff.... but unfortantely, he came before I did... and I never got a chance to know if he was "the one" who could make me orgasm for the first time. :(

 

As for the peeing part, I've hadthat sometimes..... i've read that that is really common to feel the urge to pee, and that the woman should just relax and according to my reading, that the feeling will "pass"... and after it does........ she should have it start to feel good, and most likely orgasm. As for myself, sometimes it'll pass (but no orgasm)..and sometimes I have to stop, and go pee.

 

A homeboy of mines told me when his girlfriend and he started having sex (she was a virgin) ...she coulden't orgasm, and always complained a bout the urge to pee..... and he really wanted her to experience an orgasm through sex, so he told her to relax, and if she peed then it was okay..... so one day she got on top and worked it... and she i guess peed on him a little, but soon after that... got her first orgasm.

 

Sex for me is good, I mean It feels good, and it's great, it's just that I can't orgasm with that damn G-spot or whatever where ever it is.

I think my soulmate will be the man who'll satisfy me like no other...

(find the magic spot)

god.....thank you high priest....up until your post this shit was just depressing.....

ive had a few experiences with the g spot, all i can say is you better coat that mattress in plastic bags, its a fucking mess.....

wow you people got way too much time on your hands.............i have a feeling you spend all your time researching and analyzing this stuff and spend little time actually doing it*-----all these texts and excerpts on how to please a girl and who gives a fuck----suck my dick, swallow my load, and get the fuck out*--------CASANOVA.

listen up boys!

 

Look at this beautiful diagram. The g-spot is about 2 inches into the vagina. You might have luck finding it through doggy-style or missionary. Girl on top is more for clit stimulation, haha. Anyways, you should try finding it with your fingers first. Not that I know anything about this stuff, but just a suggestion. Good luck! Nice to know somebody is getting laid more than I am.

 

With the help of the Jesus Potato, this elderly gentleman has pleasured hundreds of women, and hit more sex spots than there are letters for.

 

Says the Jesus Potato: "G's up, hoes down."

correction

 

i think they misspelled the 3rd HOT SPOT...

i see "clitoris" and "G spot" but what about that last one... oh, there it is: "ANUS"

i can always count on my man pileau for working in "monkey knife fight" with a convo about the G-spot, and it all makes sense.

the female orgasm is a myth

Sexual Psychology

 

masters and johnson...they've got the answers...and its published too!

Originally posted by THEMEDIC

the female orgasm is a myth

 

 

no, i can assure you that it exists.

"Nothing that penetrates your partner's anus should come into contact with her mouth, your mouth or her vagina. I don’t recommend penetrating her anus with your tongue. If you do penetrate her anus with your finger, make sure that you don’t stimulate her anus orally after that point as when you remove the finger it could bring bacteria and/or feces from inside the rectum outside to the surface of the anus. Also remember which finger penetrated her so that later you can avoid bringing it into contact with her/your mouth or her vagina"

 

This is funny.

I read once that you have to practice with G-spot stimulation because most girls, if they haven't had an G-spot orgasm, won't without the practice. Its located, like was already said on here, is about 2 inches in on the top. It feels like a spongy bump sort of. Anyways, any girl will tell you it feels good when you touch it, but they won't come unless maybe you're there for hours. I read that in order to practice, you have to manually stimulate the G-spot and clitoris at the same time. This is easy, all you have to do is stick your first two fingers inside with your thumb on the clit. Then you just sort of go at it. Oral stimulation also helps on the clit. Anyways, you have to repeat this on a regular basis till she gets used to orgasming with stimulation to both spots. You gradually stop with the clitoral stimulation till she's climaxing with mostly g-spot stimulation. This is how you get her warmed up to it. Once she knows she can come from her G-spot she can do it all the time. It makes sex amazing. Like the feeling of a girl coming while you're inside of her is ridiculous. All her muscles start going and they pretty much start sucking you off. I've never been able to maintain when a girl comes with me inside her.

As for myself, sometimes it'll pass (but no orgasm)..and sometimes I have to stop, and go pee.

 

... and she i guess peed on him a little, but soon after that... got her first orgasm.

haha that's exactly what i'm afraid of.

 

Dusty, "the simple joys of a monkey knife fight," can and should be worked into every conversation.

Make sure if you rub her G-spot that you trim down your nails.