loopsnew Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 i haven't posted here in a while; never really even posted that much so hi again. got a question for you about sex and peaks and age and men and women. I have often heard that men reach their sexual peak at 18 while women reach it at 35. Is this true? i'll be 28 tomorrow and this is alll i can think about. a few weeks ago i had a .. romantic interlude with one of my best friends... all i wanted to do was him, all weekend long. he, on the other hand, didn't. even though he just traveled over 600 miles to be with me. so... wtf?? i realize the fact the we were friends first makes it a little awkward, i mean, at one point he said he felt like he was belittling me.... ??? it was by the 3rd day that he began distancing himself, didn't even touch me that day/night. so i've been just trying to figure out if i'm a sex fiend and was expecting too much from him? or if it was something else? granted, there are waaay too many variables in this situation... i flat out asked him what was up... he said he felt smothered...??? and i'm thinking the whole time... if i was a guy that had just flown all that way for some ass that was all for the taking.... um, yeah, seems like a no-brainer to me. so i guess what i ask of you, aside from my own situation ( although your thoughts on this would be enlightening and welcomed cause i'm damn confused and could use some unbiased views/ advice) do you find that your sexual intensity is at a discord compared to your partner? does age and sex ( male/ female) have anything to do with it? what are the things i can expect to encounter in future relationships that i should be wary of in this sense? i mean, shit. i thought i was being straight forward. :sigh: so yeah... thanks. :n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 maybe you're ugly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loopsnew Posted November 19, 2004 Author Share Posted November 19, 2004 i'm not :) ... for a "veteran", your response shows an astonishingly absurd amount of substance. i can see why you have over 5k posts ;) :n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 holy shit, when did i become a veteran. And some of my posts actually do have substance. But when someone comes on the board asking for relationship advice i give them bullshit. why? because how the fuck are we supposed to know. every situation is different. all i did was give you the first short answer possibility in my head. if that isn't it then maybe you are annoying and he doesn't enjoy giving it to annoying girls. i know i cant stand it. Also, the "sexual peak" thing is garbage. I know a lot of 28 year olds that are still sex hounds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verbal Kint Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 either you're busted or your friends a faggot the only 2 options I guess he could not be a fag and just be a pussy .....I've met a lot of old sluts that are banging hella dudes at like 40 - 45 - --- -- I think they are into sex until that ripe old age because guys have all there sperm depleted and think whats the point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 wrong verbal. there are a lot of reasons why i choose not to have sex with a girl. that doesn't make me a faggot. that makes me a man that doesn't go after every piece of tail just because it's there. you'll learn when you get out of highschool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
»§ÜGÅR« Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 i'll state the obvious, but.. did you ever think maybe he just wanted to visit with you, and not fuck all day/night? Maybe he felt like you wanted a serious relationship out of him and was tryin to corner him there. Eh...that's all that comes to mind for me. you can pay my receptionist on the way out. thx. ;-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JohnnyHorton Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 Originally posted by iloveboxcars@Nov 19 2004, 06:23 PM wrong verbal. there are a lot of reasons why i choose not to have sex with a girl. that doesn't make me a faggot. that makes me a man that doesn't go after every piece of tail just because it's there. you'll learn when you get out of highschool. Quoted post he was talking to the thread starter dude he wasn't calling you a faggot, he was calling the dude who wouldn't fuck her gay edit: typo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 yeah i know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Herbivore Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 post pics (nude, preferably)... it'll help us develop our assessment of the situation. help us... help you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!@#$% Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 it's always disconcerting for a woman when a man doesn't want it. it happens though. and it isn't neccesarily a reflection on you. i've broken up with a couple guys because of our crappy sex life. there were a few different reasons, in one case, the dude just didn't want it that much (about once every two weeks).. i also took his virginity from him. when he was 25. (????) still don't get that one. i used to think maybe he was gay. as a 28 year old woman, i understand where you're at but don't trust that "sexual peak" stuff. every person, and couple, is different. it is good to be straightforward about your expectations before you get into a relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyNapua Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 Sometimes no matter how cool or sexy someone is..the other person doesn't want to fuck them.....I have known guys that are awesome in looks and personallity but that doesn't mean I wanted to drop my jeans for them just because we hung out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 Originally posted by LadyNapua@Nov 19 2004, 11:32 AM Sometimes no matter how cool or sexy someone is..the other person doesn't want to fuck them.....I have known guys that are awesome in looks and personallity but that doesn't mean I wanted to drop my jeans for them just because we hung out. Quoted post LIAR! YOU WHORE! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 19, 2004 Share Posted November 19, 2004 hi loopsnew, how ya been? It's been a while, we used to chat when I was know as 'kilo7' but yeah... I date a 28 year old girl (or woman I guess?) and she was insatiable. I mean like days straight where when ever it was possible, we would go. It does get tiring, but dont worry about it. Everyone should be able to find someone with a matching sex drive. Otherwise, have fun looking. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodney Trotter Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 I'm just guessing here but he probably doesn't like you in that way. Simple as that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InnerCityRebel Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 in true Knightbat style show us ur boobies..That will handle everything... i think someone is either gay or just....... fuck it lame.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LadyNapua Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 Originally posted by iloveboxcars+Nov 19 2004, 02:34 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (iloveboxcars - Nov 19 2004, 02:34 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-LadyNapua@Nov 19 2004, 11:32 AM Sometimes no matter how cool or sexy someone is..the other person doesn't want to fuck them.....I have known guys that are awesome in looks and personallity but that doesn't mean I wanted to drop my jeans for them just because we hung out. Quoted post LIAR! YOU WHORE! Quoted post [/b] haha, yeah you are right....come on over. you caught me and put the truth out for all of 12oz...whatever. :haha: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaesthebluntedwonder Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 damn, i wish this girl i've been crazy about forever would get that feeling and call me up...maybe someday. the thing is, we're real good friends, and i've told her how i felt, and it never goes anywhere... we hang a lot and it's great, but sometimes there's this very slight tension and i wanna just, you know, go at it like there's no tomorrow, which of course would be the best way to resolve it. :idea: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 My sexual peak is clogged in my right nut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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kaesthebluntedwonder Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 oh yeah, LadyNapua, the thing about the foreigner kid, who when he tried to pronounce L's would pronounce N's, is true. i wanted to tenn you that in that other thread, but it got cnosed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 i thought it was crosed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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LadyNapua Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 Originally posted by kaesthebluntedwonder@Nov 20 2004, 11:22 AM oh yeah, LadyNapua, the thing about the foreigner kid, who when he tried to pronounce L's would pronounce N's, is true. i wanted to tenn you that in that other thread, but it got cnosed. Quoted post lol, i got that part...i was wondering if the post by sue1984 was a joke...i was expecting something interesting and when i clicked on i thought i was pushed inside of a southern baptist church. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaesthebluntedwonder Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 ooh...damn these message boards for not letting people know who others are talking to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Overtime Posted November 20, 2004 Share Posted November 20, 2004 I KNOW YOU LOOPSNEW! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loopsnew Posted November 24, 2004 Author Share Posted November 24, 2004 thanks for the replys all. i had a wonderful birthday weekend and am just now catching up on my eLife. where to start? iloveboxcar... however amusing your arrogance is, i hear what you are saying and will take heed. Originally posted by »§ÜGÅR«+Nov 19 2004, 01:26 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE (»§ÜGÅR« - Nov 19 2004, 01:26 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>did you ever think maybe he just wanted to visit with you, and not fuck all day/night? Maybe he felt like you wanted a serious relationship out of him and was tryin to corner him there. Quoted post [/b] i know he doesn't think i was trying to "corner" him... but i also know he knows i wanted more :) something he cannot offer. i understand that now. i understood it before we even progressed. i just let my hopes get up once i realized he was cooler than i had thought :p seriously though... just the fact that he flew down when he had just seen me two weeks earlier.. and showered me with lovely attention got my hopes real high even when my head told me i should just think "all guys are scum" lol. and to be honest, i fooled myself into thinking i didn't like him as much as i really do. he was... is my friend, afterall! pisses me off every time i fool myself. lol. one day i'll learn, eh? i posted this at a time i was extremely contemplative about why he did what he did and did not do. now that i'm more... clear? i can SEE i can only worry about why i did what *i* did. i had fun and great enjoyment. and wishing i could have more is like trying to eat my cake and icing, too. i should just be happy with what i got, accept MY choices and move on from this learning experience... just makes it sooo hard when you transgress that ubiquitous line between friendship and lover, eh? i'm having an uncomfortable time "going back to the way it was," as he puts it :) all comes with the growing pains. Originally posted by symbols@Nov 19 2004, 02:15 PM it's always disconcerting for a woman when a man doesn't want it. it happens though. and it isn't neccesarily a reflection on you. Quoted post thank you symbols. i didn't realize it but i really needed to "hear" that. we're so prone to think women are so emotional and men so detached... all they want is to fuck fuck fuck... so for him to not want to when i was more than willing was... yeah. who knew he could have a conscience? lol. granted, out of the four nights he was here, we were intimate seven times... fiend? lol. Originally posted by <KEY3>@Nov 19 2004, 02:45 PM hi loopsnew, how ya been? It's been a while, we used to chat when I was know as 'kilo7'... Otherwise, have fun looking. Quoted post yo, what's up, kilo! how's the hat? ;) man, i laugh NOW thinking about where i was in life last we spoke. if you remember anything... know that i have grown alot since we have spoken :king: still alittle rocky with LOTS to learn... but know, best of all, i've learned alot about ME! it feels great, even if i stumble everywhere else. Originally posted by villain@Nov 20 2004, 11:21 AM My sexual peak is clogged in my right nut. Quoted post bwhahahhah. :haha: nice. <!--QuoteBegin-onesecondple@Nov 20 2004, 12:10 PM I KNOW YOU LOOPSNEW! Quoted post alot of people know me.. i'm ePOP.u.lar :haha: hey kyle. you still have the dub? i got rid of my wagen and got an R32... and lovin every minute of it :five-o: thanks again all. its good to know that its OK if i want the booty long time at my ripe old age :p :love2: oh! and for the curious... :gaga: :n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
»§ÜGÅR« Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 i like your hair! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Quickwood Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 my crystal ball says that vegetables could be the answer, if the technique for servicing yourself, you're willing to master. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 i, personally don't find you attractive. which is hard to say really.. because i can tell you are attractive.. you just arent my type. confusion galore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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