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question regarding "friends with benefits"

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Mr. Mang, Dec 23, 2002.

  1. Mr. Mang

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    question regarding "friends with benefits"

    Discussion started by Mr. Mang - Dec 23, 2002

    here's the deal :


    - there is a girl i am friends with (not the hotornot.com girl).

    - i am friends with this girl but we have also been freaking it on the side.

    - neither of us are seeing anyone but it was kind of understood that while we did freak it we werent gonna see other people.

    - a few days ago i met a girl i want to have a relationship with.



    question: is there any easy way to break off the attachment i had with my 'fuck friend"? it was always understood we were just friends i guess, but i dont want to hurt her feelings or whatever cause she is a good friend. but i have no desire to be in a relationship with her whatesoever.


    i made a big mistake and i'm paying for it now.
     
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    T.T Boy - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    boh
     
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    WhAt_dA_fUcK - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    id showed up to a place where i know she would be at with your new girl.....she'll get the hint..
     
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    cornelius - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    daaaaaaaaaaanng...... girl trouble.... hm... just tell her man.. hey, we were humpin.. now i can't because i'm REALLY folding this other girl in half and stuffing her into the couch cushions... it's awesome.... oh, and we're trying to do this often.. as a couple.. so uhh... i can't feed you my penis anymore.... sorry...
     
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    socrates - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    tell her you want no more....if she says no then you got multiple tappable ass around ya
     
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    vinyl junkie - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    ^^^ that should be said word for word mang...

    and in the mean time, don't sweat it, and just be glad you've been getting laid...
     
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    Sega Genesis - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    Fuk that Fukem both why not......
     
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    Born Loser - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    You see the problem is that no matter what, theres always going to be one of the two people in this "friends with benefits" relationship who has some kinda of feelings more than just sex. And secondly if a girl tells you she just wants to be friends with benefits thats just her way of telling you thats shes a slut.

    But I'd still hit.:eek:
     
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    SRGUN GNRAL - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    sounds like the story from vanilla sky.........................................
    watch out you could end up all fucked up
     
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    Dirty_habiT - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    Don't go to her for sex then. You can still be her friend. Whatever you do, try not to be a jerk about it and it shouldn't be too big a problem.
     
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    455 - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    ^^^^^^take those words and read them well.
     
  12. Mr. Mang

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    Mr. Mang - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    i really appreciate all the help guys. and when i read cornelius's response i almost spit up my drink.

    much thanks, locs.
     
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    Mr. Mang - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    maybe i'll email her? that's always painless. hmmmm
     
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    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    I can kill her for you. :D
     
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    VAITOMANOCU - Replied Dec 23, 2002

    im kinda in the same situation, except there is no "other girl" and i feel no need/dont want to cut off this girl ive been hangin with...i guess you could say its a "friends with benefits" thing, but i think theres a little more involved than that (meaning i have more feelings than just bein with her for the sex, and i have a good feeling she feels the same way) i think we both just dont feel like attaching the whole "relationship" label on it....somethin like that.

    if anything, just be upfront about it cuz...even if she gets pissed or is not happy to hear the news its better than not being upfront about it. it just makes the whole thing pass much quicker and lighter than it would otherwise...now i just gotta start practicin what i preach:eek:
     
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