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question regarding "friends with benefits"

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Mr. Mang, Dec 23, 2002.

  1. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    here's the deal :

    - there is a girl i am friends with (not the hotornot.com girl).

    - i am friends with this girl but we have also been freaking it on the side.

    - neither of us are seeing anyone but it was kind of understood that while we did freak it we werent gonna see other people.

    - a few days ago i met a girl i want to have a relationship with.

    question: is there any easy way to break off the attachment i had with my 'fuck friend"? it was always understood we were just friends i guess, but i dont want to hurt her feelings or whatever cause she is a good friend. but i have no desire to be in a relationship with her whatesoever.

    i made a big mistake and i'm paying for it now.
  2. T.T Boy

    T.T Boy Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: May 18, 2001 Messages: 21,803 Likes Received: 41
  3. WhAt_dA_fUcK

    WhAt_dA_fUcK Senior Member

    Joined: Sep 30, 2002 Messages: 1,149 Likes Received: 0
    id showed up to a place where i know she would be at with your new girl.....she'll get the hint..
  4. cornelius

    cornelius Member

    Joined: Nov 3, 2001 Messages: 816 Likes Received: 0
    daaaaaaaaaaanng...... girl trouble.... hm... just tell her man.. hey, we were humpin.. now i can't because i'm REALLY folding this other girl in half and stuffing her into the couch cushions... it's awesome.... oh, and we're trying to do this often.. as a couple.. so uhh... i can't feed you my penis anymore.... sorry...
  5. socrates

    socrates Guest

    tell her you want no more....if she says no then you got multiple tappable ass around ya
  6. vinyl junkie

    vinyl junkie Elite Member

    Joined: Jan 17, 2002 Messages: 4,725 Likes Received: 0
    ^^^ that should be said word for word mang...

    and in the mean time, don't sweat it, and just be glad you've been getting laid...
  7. Sega Genesis

    Sega Genesis Member

    Joined: Nov 17, 2002 Messages: 994 Likes Received: 0
    Fuk that Fukem both why not......
  8. Born Loser

    Born Loser New Jack

    Joined: Sep 14, 2001 Messages: 63 Likes Received: 0
    You see the problem is that no matter what, theres always going to be one of the two people in this "friends with benefits" relationship who has some kinda of feelings more than just sex. And secondly if a girl tells you she just wants to be friends with benefits thats just her way of telling you thats shes a slut.

    But I'd still hit.:eek:

    SRGUN GNRAL Member

    Joined: Nov 17, 2002 Messages: 302 Likes Received: 0
    sounds like the story from vanilla sky.........................................
    watch out you could end up all fucked up
  10. Dirty_habiT

    Dirty_habiT Administrator

    Joined: Mar 8, 2001 Messages: 18,136 Likes Received: 82
    Don't go to her for sex then. You can still be her friend. Whatever you do, try not to be a jerk about it and it shouldn't be too big a problem.
  11. 455

    455 Guest

    ^^^^^^take those words and read them well.
  12. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    i really appreciate all the help guys. and when i read cornelius's response i almost spit up my drink.

    much thanks, locs.
  13. Mr. Mang

    Mr. Mang Elite Member

    Joined: Feb 27, 2002 Messages: 2,901 Likes Received: 1
    maybe i'll email her? that's always painless. hmmmm
  14. MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega

    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega Veteran Member

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    im kinda in the same situation, except there is no "other girl" and i feel no need/dont want to cut off this girl ive been hangin with...i guess you could say its a "friends with benefits" thing, but i think theres a little more involved than that (meaning i have more feelings than just bein with her for the sex, and i have a good feeling she feels the same way) i think we both just dont feel like attaching the whole "relationship" label on it....somethin like that.

    if anything, just be upfront about it cuz...even if she gets pissed or is not happy to hear the news its better than not being upfront about it. it just makes the whole thing pass much quicker and lighter than it would otherwise...now i just gotta start practicin what i preach:eek: