oneeightyone Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 I consider myself to be an old ass man minus a few years, i am a 20 something and should be through the entire lovey dovey romantic teenager bullshit, but it seems im not, i want an opinion on this. I had a girl, best girl of my life, she moved to long island, i live in virginia, we are friends now, i went to visit her and met one of her friends, who i thought was just a regular person that i would probably never talk to again, we exchanged contact info and over time began to talk and talk and talk and talk, turns out this girl is as crazy as i am and she is identical in ways to me. She's an incredible girl and somehow feelings have grown for her, and im wondering, "is this right??", im having feelings for someone that's a hundred miles away, who i only know through the computer and through the phone, should i be feeling this way when i can find someone close to me but then again al the chics that i have dated dont come close to this one single person. What do i do? should i just stop talking to her and let it fade away.? Should i keep going heart into this thing and start some long distance relationship.? This is more towards the older 12oz heads that might have been in this situation, or laughed at one of their friends in this situation. It's strange really, maybe im just fucked. Oh and T-E-A-S-E, hit me up transcendentialist@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_gooch Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 20 and an old ass man? dude are you kidding??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
High Priest Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 Originally posted by the_gooch 20 and an old ass man? dude are you kidding??? yea i was just about to say.. give it a couple weeks or so.. see where things are at.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JUDONO? Posted July 16, 2004 Share Posted July 16, 2004 damn what the fuck does that make me a senior citizen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oneeightyone Posted July 16, 2004 Author Share Posted July 16, 2004 haha, hell yea im old, actually no, im pretty fucking young, i guess the sarcasm wasnt doused on there like i thought it would be. I do however feel like a kid when i think about this situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InnerCityRebel Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 Originally posted by the_gooch 20 and an old ass man? dude are you kidding??? fuck 30 must be on the death bed then.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 i say give it a shot....have you ever thought of the possibility that she can moved to Virginia, or you to Long Island...continue to talk to her and, see where it goes...cause you two do have mad feelings for one another right? don't give up.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slave_one Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 if this is how you feel about this girl who lives far away, you should go for it. most long-distance relationships don't work though; they start off good, then a year or two down the line, things change; you meet new people, you have different interests, and so forth, things falls apart. but if it's a chance you are willing to take, then i say go. go oneeightyone go! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kr430n5_666 Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 ? (5:06:53 PM): that makes no sense ? (5:06:57 PM): you're not a dinosaur Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_gooch Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 Originally posted by I-Patch-Clan fuck 30 must be on the death bed then.. :lol: :lol: :lol: oh man... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 don't do it. well.. you can do it... but don't spend money on it: no long distance (unless you have free ld through a cell or something) and def. no trips. learn from my mistakes bro. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithfull Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 smoke more weed and you wont give a fuck about love Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest KING BLING Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 I know a couple who met on the internet and got married... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faithfull Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 ^^^ thats embarrasing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rental Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 okay, just wanted to make sure you meant to spell it transcendentialist instead of, you know, transcendentalist? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duh-rye-won Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 have you made sensual computer love to her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gatita Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 Okay. Im dating a guy whose 2 hours from me. And althought Va is much farther from LI [i currently live in LI, he lives in PA, I know VA is about 5 or 6 hours from LI], if you can do it, or at least continue some kind of relationship or friendship with the girl, do it. If you guys continue shit, AND, it goes well, who knows one or you, maybe one of you guys will move, continue it, etc. You might think youre old being "mid to late 20s" and all, but, always think of yourself as growing, as experiencing, and realize its not as big of a deal as you first thought it was. Shit, we are always learning, fuck it. I hope when Im 50 Im still learning about live, regardless its about relationships or what. Sorry for the thoughts being jumbled, Ive had a couple of drinks but felt it was necessary giving some kind of advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatbastard Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 i say go for it, people start relationships from all the way accross the world and manage to maintain them, this girl is in your same country if its the difference between being with a cool girl you care about or being alone and another peice of meat in the dating scene, do whatever it takes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Quickwood Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 i'm not going to read that crap Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 ^^ finally, someone said it. I have no advice, but keep in mind that you shouldn’t use weird type fat caps that some dude gave you a bag of that you’ve never used before on a spot where half the city will see it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest 455 Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 ^^^^hahaha......that's great. I would say run it bro....who knows....something good might spark out of relationship.... <----29 and holding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 long distance doesn't work. Seek worthy significant others in your own community or get the hell out into the bigger world beyond the confines of your town. Seek out the nearest city and begin your search. Long distance relationships do not work. I had one years ago and despite letters, phone calls and photos, bitch still fell in with some other guy. Goddamnit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krs702 Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 i say enjoy it while it runs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaBar2 Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 Internet romances are okay to keep the flame alive, just like writing love letters (just quicker) but for the real McCoy, you need to be there. If you really think you love this girl, go to Virginia (don't make her come to you--you'll regret it later if you do.) Meet her family, check out her city, the culture there, etc., etc. Remember, when one marries, you are not just marrying an individual---YOU ARE MARRYING INTO A FAMILY. If you can't stand her parents (siblings, etc.), or if they hate you implacably, most likely the relationship won't fly. If it won't fly, don't try to make it fly anyway, save yourself a lot of money and grief. Give yourself a goal---say six months. Within that amount of time, you should know if it's true love or if it's just a pesky, persistant boner. And don't forget---her opinion is paramount. You may love her like life itself, but she may be looking around for Mr. Next-in-line the whole time. A word to the wise, you know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oneeightyone Posted July 17, 2004 Author Share Posted July 17, 2004 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Pretty fucking cool. Yea, ill set a time, see whereit goes and whatnot. I just find it incredible to find a person like here, but eh, 6 months from now ill se where it's at, i need to go paint now, get this thinking to stop revolving around my brain matter, thanks a lot everyone for your replys. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frate_Raper Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 I say this.........be nasty keep her as your real deal lady freind and pound mad ass in your area because you'll be confident enough in yourself because you got a lady to mack other sluts...................different area codes! or be the nice mang and run with her but be cassual and shit........and dude I met this girl at a tattoo shop once we traded emails so she could send me photos next thing i knew i was rolling with her and being majorly in love......the nerd Box is ok I guess! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted July 17, 2004 Share Posted July 17, 2004 Originally posted by Frate Raper you'll be confident enough in yourself because you got a lady to mack other sluts...................different area codes! http://lisag.com/photos/december/lisa%20&%20nate%20dogg.jpg'> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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