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if you were in my shoes ?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by fatalist, May 25, 2004.

  1. fatalist

    fatalist Dirty Dozen Crew

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    if you were in my shoes ?

    Discussion started by fatalist - May 25, 2004

    finally the guy i been seeing since december...is now my man...we made it offical with the bf/gf titled not to long ago....i couldn't be happier

    but seven days into our new relationship...he tells me, he has been thinking about going back home to philly to live...something about how he wants to be there for his mother while she is still young...and how he misses his siblings...but i know there're sub-reasons why he is going

    living here where i stay, all he has is his job and a few friends...
    i told him i wasn't going to stop him from leaving...cause it would be a selfish act on my part

    chilling with him lastnight i got this madd vibe that it wasn't the same
    anymore...thoughts were running through my fuckin head like "why the fuck im i still with him"

    so he's leaving in two months...two of my friends say im just a piece of ass till he goes...i should bail out

    i need to stop running on emotions and start thinking logically
    so what the fuck do i do.....

    and how do i break it down to him....that i care but i got to go..

    i need some 12oz remedy.
    what would you do?
     
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  2. azert

    azert 12oz Senior Member

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    azert - Replied May 25, 2004

    I would become a lesbian..

    The plain truth always works best, don't soften it up just tell him what you posted.
     
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  3. EyeforAnEYE

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    EyeforAnEYE - Replied May 25, 2004

    Do what you think is right. you now you'll get a handful of real responses and the rest jsut dumb ones on here. use your gut instinct.
     
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  4. Telo

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    Telo - Replied May 25, 2004

    Option # 1..

    Be a pansy and follow him or weep about the whole situation..

    Option # 2...

    Break it off and go look for some more fish in the sea.. There are millions out there..


    I'd choose the latter..
     
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  5. 26SidedCube

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    26SidedCube - Replied May 25, 2004

    My toes would be cramped.


    P.S. Making shit 'official' is retarded unless you're 100% both of you plan on being there for one-another for the rest of your lives. You guys need to be more clear on the type of relationship you both really intended on having with one another.
     
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  6. GucciCondom

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    GucciCondom - Replied May 25, 2004

    Well if he is leaving anyway why stay with him longer? Gives more time to get attached I guess. I would just sit him down and talk about it and explain how you feel. If you think it would be hard to talk about try writing him a little letter so you can have all your thoughts out clear and he has to hear everything you have got to say.



    Then after all that you can come holler at me since im in PA. :crazy:
     
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  7. T=E=A=S=E

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    T=E=A=S=E - Replied May 25, 2004

    if i were in your shoes, i'd:

    stay in the relationship until your man leaves, granted the sex is good. if its lowsy, go ahead and wish him luck with his move back home and break it off.

    simple as that.

    ps- if you do stay with him, dont fall in love, realise this is relationship is only for the next two months or whatever...
     
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  8. fatalist

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    fatalist - Replied May 25, 2004


    too true mann..
     
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    adderall - Replied May 25, 2004

    that guy sucks.
     
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    TURBOCAPSLOK - Replied May 25, 2004

    LADIES AND GENTLEMEN....12OZ PRESENTS TO YOU ITS FEMALE VERSION OF THE OLD TEASOLA!
     
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    EyeforAnEYE - Replied May 25, 2004

    I think turbo will agree, throw some salad on him ;)
     
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    gfreshsushi - Replied May 25, 2004

    drop him and get your groove on with someone else. waiting around for him to leave will only make you both think "what if...?" quit while you're ahead while you're still in a position to. the longer you stay the more it will hurt when he's gone.
     
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    T=E=A=S=E - Replied May 25, 2004

    :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
     
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    fatalist - Replied May 25, 2004


    your sweet..im waiting for homeboy's phone call...i hate to do this. but its true i will only be hurting myself if i stick around

    how should i act with him afterwards...we work in the same place?:confused:
     
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    EyeforAnEYE - Replied May 25, 2004

    KNIGHT BIZZLES FOR LIFE
     
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