i just said yes to a girl that i will never love in the way she wants me to

she thinks it can work and all these things, but i know myself.sounds fucked up huh.i said yes yesterday to her askin me out cause i told her the day before that i would never love her, but she wants to experience me and all that i show her, yah seen?she's mygood friend, but kissin her on the lips made me feel unhappy.

do i break up with her tomorrow or should i have just done it right after i said yes?

i hate feeling like an asshole.

you shouldn't really have said yes, but give it a while she may grow on you

Originally posted by willy.wonka

i hate feeling like an asshole.

then stop associating with manure people

Re: Re: i just said yes to a girl that i will never love in the way she wants me to

Originally posted by ARCEL

then stop associating with manure people

oh shit lol, that was some funny stuff

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but man you should really at least let her know that in the long run you aint gonna be married and having kids, just more like a right now kinda thing

she wants it... give it to her.

the rest is her prob

that's the spirit

I just went though this in thelast few weeks mang,I was with a chick for 3 years fell out of love with her but shes insanly down for me.I had to tell her if I hadn't I would of felt like I was using her for the ass etc.....

I felt like the biggest dick ever,I never want to feel like that again.I think you should do whats right for you.Why make yourself feel like shit cause this girls in love with you and your not happy.Think about the long run...she wants to hang out, you don't you ditch her she feels like shit.You may even become mean unwillingly or knowlingly.

I just found some one I'm excited to see and happy just being with her,kissing her makes me smile and feel alive, so seriously homie do whats right don't prolong anything and ship wreck her!

Don't string people along. I've been on both ends of this situation and if you let it last any longer you are going to feel like shit, and so is she. Right now. at this very second, she is convincing herself that you must have feelings for her otherwise you wouldn't have said yes.

Call her now and excuse yourself from the relationship.

oh...

i thought this would be about marrying a woman you don't love. That'd be much more interesting.

Seriously, though let her "experience" you. She already knows you won't love her. Just keep reminding her along the way.

yeah, like someone else said...give it about a week and a half and see if she doesn't at least grow on you a little bit. If not, then maybe it's for the best that things don't proceed past that.

Leave her as soon as possible. I know what it's like. If you leave now it'll be way better for the both of you even if it makes you feel like an asshole, it's the right thing to do. Just be honest, even if you want ass and that's what you'll be getting, I would stress that you pass it by. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be to leave her without hurting yourself first and breaking her heart.

i read what u wrote & had 2 reply. u should do wat chickenbone said. i know it's hard & u don't want 2 hurt her b cause she's yer friend but u knew as soon as u kissed her that it wasn't a happy moment & that's key right there. i kno the feeling. it's the worst & it can even kill a friendship just like that if ur not honest. @ times even the honesty will make the other upset, b cause it's still denial. good luck man! :o

DUDE, JUST BE HONEST TO YOURSELF AND TO HER...EVEN IF IT HURTS HER...ITS THE BEST THING FOR HER...JUST LET HER KNOW THAT... SHE'LL BE ALRIGHT

pooey pooey yum yum

that was very immature on both of your parts the easiest way to communicate with people is by saying the truth otherwise you have to deal with bullshit like this

well, the relationship lasted 6 hours

she is kinda my bestfriend, but ithink she fell for me knowinghow much i could love, since i was lovin her friend.she's a great gal, but my heart does not belong to her and i question if it can belong to anybody.like her friend i was lovin..i think it would have only been a temporary thing.

right when i got home she tells me..."i know" and so i say..so what do we do now?...then she kinda pretended to act like she didnt know what i was talking about.i told her that i cant go out with her...

she's in love with me and i hurt her last night, but i hope that she knows that i do care.

:D sounds like a plot from a friends episode

this is so emo it's not even funny

Originally posted by willy.wonka

...she's in love with me and i hurt her last night, but i hope that she knows that i do care.

the only way to be sure is if you tell her