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i just said yes to a girl that i will never love in the way she wants me to

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by willy.wonka, Nov 19, 2003.

  1. willy.wonka

    willy.wonka Guest

    she thinks it can work and all these things, but i know myself.sounds fucked up huh.i said yes yesterday to her askin me out cause i told her the day before that i would never love her, but she wants to experience me and all that i show her, yah seen?she's mygood friend, but kissin her on the lips made me feel unhappy.

    do i break up with her tomorrow or should i have just done it right after i said yes?

    i hate feeling like an asshole.
  2. anal rapist

    anal rapist New Jack

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    you shouldn't really have said yes, but give it a while she may grow on you
  3. Dick Quickwood

    Dick Quickwood 12oz Loyalist

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    then stop associating with manure people
  4. Daze One Million

    Daze One Million Elite Member

    Joined: Jun 12, 2001 Messages: 3,804 Likes Received: 0
    Re: Re: i just said yes to a girl that i will never love in the way she wants me to

    oh shit lol, that was some funny stuff


    but man you should really at least let her know that in the long run you aint gonna be married and having kids, just more like a right now kinda thing
  5. Vanity

    Vanity Veteran Member

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    she wants it... give it to her.

    the rest is her prob
  6. Dick Quickwood

    Dick Quickwood 12oz Loyalist

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  7. Frate_Raper

    Frate_Raper Veteran Member

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    I just went though this in thelast few weeks mang,I was with a chick for 3 years fell out of love with her but shes insanly down for me.I had to tell her if I hadn't I would of felt like I was using her for the ass etc.....

    I felt like the biggest dick ever,I never want to feel like that again.I think you should do whats right for you.Why make yourself feel like shit cause this girls in love with you and your not happy.Think about the long run...she wants to hang out, you don't you ditch her she feels like shit.You may even become mean unwillingly or knowlingly.

    I just found some one I'm excited to see and happy just being with her,kissing her makes me smile and feel alive, so seriously homie do whats right don't prolong anything and ship wreck her!
  8. iloveboxcars

    iloveboxcars 12oz Royalty

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    Don't string people along. I've been on both ends of this situation and if you let it last any longer you are going to feel like shit, and so is she. Right now. at this very second, she is convincing herself that you must have feelings for her otherwise you wouldn't have said yes.

    Call her now and excuse yourself from the relationship.
  9. swiss cheese

    swiss cheese Senior Member

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    i thought this would be about marrying a woman you don't love. That'd be much more interesting.
    Seriously, though let her "experience" you. She already knows you won't love her. Just keep reminding her along the way.
  10. Gunm

    Gunm Banned

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    yeah, like someone else said...give it about a week and a half and see if she doesn't at least grow on you a little bit. If not, then maybe it's for the best that things don't proceed past that.
  11. chicken bone

    chicken bone Guest

    Leave her as soon as possible. I know what it's like. If you leave now it'll be way better for the both of you even if it makes you feel like an asshole, it's the right thing to do. Just be honest, even if you want ass and that's what you'll be getting, I would stress that you pass it by. The longer you stay with her the harder it will be to leave her without hurting yourself first and breaking her heart.
  12. phem9

    phem9 Guest

    i read what u wrote & had 2 reply. u should do wat chickenbone said. i know it's hard & u don't want 2 hurt her b cause she's yer friend but u knew as soon as u kissed her that it wasn't a happy moment & that's key right there. i kno the feeling. it's the worst & it can even kill a friendship just like that if ur not honest. @ times even the honesty will make the other upset, b cause it's still denial. good luck man! :eek:
  13. OcToBeR

    OcToBeR Junior Member

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  14. Abracadabra

    Abracadabra Dirty Dozen Crew

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  15. eseLokE1uno

    eseLokE1uno Senior Member

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    that was very immature on both of your parts the easiest way to communicate with people is by saying the truth otherwise you have to deal with bullshit like this