casekonly Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 ok, the breakdown: you've been friends with a girl for a number of years, and you fall in love with her. you both love each other, but haven't been intimate (fucked, etc.) you're facing a situation: 1) tell her and everything works out 2) tell her and your friendship crashes and burns what do you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SMUGGLER RSH Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 CASUAL SEX.............The solution to all situations like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casekonly Posted September 19, 2002 Author Share Posted September 19, 2002 nah, that leaves it open, ya know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pissdrunkwhat?! Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 im kinda in this same situation... but i told her.... and well i dont know it sucks cause i know nothing will ever happen between us, but hey! still got friendship :o ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casekonly Posted September 19, 2002 Author Share Posted September 19, 2002 yeah, and you get to see her with every new boyfriend, too... how'd you lay it on her? how did she react? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bug Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 STOP BEING A LITTLE WHINY BITCH, AND JUST FUCK HER ALREADY. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zen Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 dont tell her. it wont work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casekonly Posted September 19, 2002 Author Share Posted September 19, 2002 what makes you say that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footsoldier Posted September 19, 2002 Share Posted September 19, 2002 99% of relationships dont work out, but your also not going to be able to carry on a normal friendship forever if your in love with her...so you have 2 choices, dont tell her and eventually kick yourself in the wrists with a razor when she falls in love with someone else; or tell her and be with her and all happy and probably end up breaking up eventually..i think this second part could be wrong though because if your this close on a friendship basis then a relationship could be even better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casekonly Posted September 20, 2002 Author Share Posted September 20, 2002 word, i hear ya. it's a tough situation, huh? i have no way of knowing what she'll say, but i'm sure our friendship won't end if i tell her, it would just be weird for awhile. i dunno. i appreciate the wisdom, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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