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guys: opinions on "fragile" girls

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by fr8lover, Jun 27, 2003.

  1. fr8lover

    fr8lover Elite Member

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    http://www.tapeline.com/pics/pics/pic.fragile.jpg'>

    you know the type. the one that always apoligizes and seems to have unusually low self esteem. they are happy, but always have underlying worries about what you say and misconstrue your words and flip out a lot.

    they can be the nicest girls in the world, but seem to hit the FAN on the drop of a dime. almost like mood swings.

    is there any way to make it work with these girls? no doubt theyve been through some heavy stuff to have that kind of demeanor and emotional problems...but is there a way to tough it out and work through it?
     
  2. vinyl junkie

    vinyl junkie Elite Member

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    i was engaged to a girl like that... i loved her, but she was fuckin crazy... i can't offer advice tho- it was a great 3 years, but it was such a waste of time too...
     
  3. mapo returns

    mapo returns Member

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    yeah its hard to give advice since there is certain degrees of it.

    i knew a girl like that once. she told me she had sex with 16 guys, and she was only 19 and didnt start having sex until 18.

    that right there should have been the writing on the wall.
    anyway, we were talking about clothing fads one time..and she said when she was a kid she just wanted to take her clothes off and run naked. i said to her 'it sounds like you liked taking your clothes off later on in life too'. i thought she would laugh, she started to cry and shit.

    i saw she had a train wreck of a psyche, so i bailed.
     
  4. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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  5. --zeSto--

    --zeSto-- Veteran Member

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    They make tape for fragile girls?
    I guess you're suppose to wrap them up in it.

    Really though... they tend to be clingy and crazy.
    They can be totally loyal and loving but you might
    break their hearts and have eternal enemies. Tough call.
     
  6. fr8lover

    fr8lover Elite Member

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    im just chatting with her for awhile and:

    * shes apologized about 50 times for the smallest things

    * shes mentioned her low self esteem

    * asked if i "hate her already" at least 3 times

    i mean, ive barely talked to her and she seems semi-clingy...but ive hit a drought and i think i might give it a try.

    famous last words..
     
  7. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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    no, really....


    now or never...
     
  8. rental

    rental Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Jul 1, 2001 Messages: 7,641 Likes Received: 1
    fragile girls

    yeah, they need therapy




    i mean, for real. no joke.
     
  9. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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    you fool.... everytime i think, this kid is just MISSunderstood you prove me wrong..
     
  10. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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  11. mapo returns

    mapo returns Member

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    exactly.

    i have the same feelings toward people who try to act too mature.
    good lookin tease on what you said.

    this is a little off-topic but..

    i also hate people who are fake when it comes to being mature.
    i am serious too sometimes..but alot of times i just like to fuck around and laugh at shit. its enjoyable - makes life bearable.

    one time i was with a friend at a pizza buffet place. and i was chugging soda like none other, and i burped really fucking loud. and i was rolling, it was great. my friend looked like he had seen a ghost, he was like 'i should spit in your food'. i kept laughing, and said 'go ahead, its all you can eat, ill throw it out and get more!' then he calmed down a bit and said 'do you hear anyone else burping here?' and i said 'no, but theyre over there doing what they want, ill be over here doin what i want, im not hurting anybody'. and thats basically how i feel about shit, people need to lighten up. we have a fucking war going on where peoples houses were being bombed to shit, we got a whole bunch of people in the world who are malnourished, we got people with SARS, and in the time its taken me to type this, there has probably been some rapes and murders that have gone down, so to get all pissed about dumb shit just tells me your priorities are all fucked up. youre not alone in this world, so ya better learn to deal with other people.

    people have told me to 'grow up' numerous times. i tell them to fuck off.
    if im not hurting anybody else ill do as i please - if you dont like it go commit suicide or some shit.
     
  12. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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    who... me? take this serious??...thats funny!
     
  13. --zeSto--

    --zeSto-- Veteran Member

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    to put it simply....

    if she is not comfortable with herself she can't be confortable with someone else.
    I might be wrong, but from my experience those girls become emotion / social leeches
    who threaten suicide if you even think about ending the relationship.

    or you could be the guy who teaches her to love herself again
    and you go down in all history as her biggest hero. (not likely)
     
  14. SleepAnDream

    SleepAnDream Elite Member

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    christ, that sounds like a conversation with my last girlfriend...the bitch called me NINE times in one night last time i ran into her....echhh....
     
  15. AevOne718

    AevOne718 Junior Member

    Joined: Jun 25, 2003 Messages: 206 Likes Received: 0
    I like fragile girls. I am all affectionate all the time and shit... I like to hug them and take care of them. Yes, I like fragile girls.

    When they lose thier head, just keep calm, smile, and talk to them gently, soon, the craziness will dwindle away, and once you get rid of the craziness, she becomes the greatest girl ever. Of course, if you want a girl just to put your penis in, then it's not worth it, but if you are actually looking for a relationship, then it is.
     
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