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So, I despretely need to move out.

 

This is my situation.. and anyone who's been fed up with being over 18 and living on the dependency of yours parents and moved out, and basically said "FUCK YOU" and bounced... i'd really like to hear your stores of independance.

 

It's like this. I've grown up spoiled. Never really worked in my life, focused on school, rich hardworking parents bought everything for me that I've ever wanted. I thought i had my life dope. My first car I got when I was 18... a 2002 suburban. My parents pay for my education in full, and bought me & my bitchass sister that I would give money to have her clubbed in the back of the neck, a huge house here in Nevada. She's alot older than me, 8 years, and she think's she can tell me what to do, and alot of the time i'm a prisoner in this house.

I'll be 20 next year, and I still get grounded. I get my car and house keys taken away from me every weekend now to stop my "partying." They're give back to me on Mondays when I leave for school. If im out late, they call the police on me and search for my car. They harass my boyfriend's house by leaving vulgar messages for me on his answering machine. My mom and my sister have built a tag team on me, and I swear to god I woulden't mind slitting her throat. Infact, I woulden't mind slitting my own, and blaming it on them. Shit sucks. I'm anti social most of time in this house and spend my time alone in my room or in the living room when no ones down there, I hate talking to them. Note that my sisters bitchass fiance lives with us also, and he lives for free.

What i'm trying to get at, is that I need a life where I'm free. Where I can go out, and come home whenever I please. I'm extremey good in school, but some how thats not good enough. I'm the "baby" in the family. They treat me like shit, buying me things in exchange for freedom.

So, after 19 years of being dependant... I need to get out. I want to move out. The thing is, if I move out..... I need to get a job. Whatever, a job, I can get one. But then, I'll have no car. My car will be taken away from me. I could still have a ride to school if I wanted to, but they pay for my school too, meaning i'll probably drop out. I don't want them paying for anything of mines anymore. Thats the only way I can be independant.

Work=Apartment=Drop out of college=busses=No more Car=Work=Come home whenever I want to=Freedom.

 

What should I do? What would you do?

I have 2 more years of school left.

I need to get out.

 

I need to hear of your stories of independance too. Inspire me.

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Guest KING BLING

Are you really asking this shit? Sit down with your folks, neogtiate the terms of your living there to meet your needs and their wants and make a big effort to assert the realness of these expectations. I mean fuck, you have to be retarded to give up all that shit to go out on the weekends. Get a shitty job and offer to pay rent in exchange for weekend freedoms - make arrangements to call them or even page them at certain points in the evening to assure them you are okay. I would not advocate for any of this except you have shit that most people would die for, and despite your oppressive condition, in two years you will not only have the chance to be fully self sufficient, but more than likely your rich ass parents will buy their whiny little baby some toys from Ikea.....

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just give up the car, free rent and free food. it's really worth it. when you work to support yourself, you'll be proud of yourself for your own accomplishments. i work a lot now, but it doesn't bother me when i think about how glad i am that i don't have to put up with my parents anymore.

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I TOTATTLY feel you.. but jesus christ.. I'm a great student, my GPA stands at a firm 3.8, which is like..... heaven for me since I never really did that good in high school. They treat me like i'm still in elementry.. taking my keys away? I bust my ass just for them to say "My babygirl roxy is doing great pulling honor roll's at the art acadamy" ..THATS ALL. Thats all they care about it, and I know it because i've been COMPARED SOOOO MANY TIMES to Marias kids, or Renees daughter, or Jamies Son.

Have you ever lived in a jail where you can't even have locks on your bedroom door for whatever reason? And when you do install your own "lock" they pick it, and dont even knock? Or not even have a key to your own house so that you have to bang on the door so they know what time you come home? Or been 19 and grounded, or have a curfew even?

I'm saying, I work so hard for them to brag to their friends about how great i am in school. I'm their little fucking monkey. Why can't I have fun too?

I'm totattly in prison. I'm forced to eat a certain time, i'm forced to call my mom right when I get home from school so she knows i'm home. (She lives in Hawaii).. They read my mail. They take away my laptop when I am "bad". I never was allowed to have friends over till a month ago. My sister, you don't understand our history. We go way back where she hates me for taking her spotlite away when I was born, and she still hates me which explains why she loves to make my life hell.

 

This isn't about going out on the weekend to sneak a beer or someshit, it's beyond that... it goes waaaaay past just "going out." I can't even explain this shit right now

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Originally posted by Dr. Drew

just give up the car, free rent and free food. it's really worth it. when you work to support yourself, you'll be proud of yourself for your own accomplishments. i work a lot now, but it doesn't bother me when i think about how glad i am that i don't have to put up with my parents anymore.

 

Free rent and free food? where'd this come from?

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Originally posted by DEE38

Have you ever lived in a jail where you can't even have locks on your bedroom door for whatever reason? And when you do install your own "lock" they pick it, and dont even knock? Or not even have a key to your own house so that you have to bang on the door so they know what time you come home? Or been 19 and grounded, or have a curfew even?

I'm saying, I work so hard for them to brag to their friends about how great i am in school. I'm their little fucking monkey. Why can't I have fun too?

I'm totattly in prison. I'm forced to eat a certain time, i'm forced to call my mom right when I get home from school so she knows i'm home. (She lives in Hawaii).. They read my mail. They take away my laptop when I am "bad". I never was allowed to have friends over till a month ago. My sister, you don't understand our history. We go way back where she hates me for taking her spotlite away when I was born, and she still hates me which explains why she loves to make my life hell.

 

This isn't about going out on the weekend to sneak a beer or someshit, it's beyond that... it goes waaaaay past just "going out." I can't even explain this shit right now

 

Just start getting crazy, have them call the cops and accuse your sisters finace of trying to touch you. Than download kiddy porn on your dads computer and call the cops on him, put hash in brownies and any sauces people are making for dinner, sell your Suburban and act like it was an accident. Start eating with your fingers and act like you have joined a religious cult wearing all pink all the time (at least at home), start having really loud sex in your room and put a dead bolt on the door. Start putting on make up so heavy that it makes you look like a drug addict

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Originally posted by Dr. Drew

wait, so you live with them, and pay rent and buy your own food?

 

I live with my sister in Nevada. My mom bought us this house a long time ago because she was forcing me to go to UNLV, which I never wanted to go, I wanted to go to an Arts school and thats where I go now. We're originally from Hawaii.

 

My sister and her fiance live here. Free. They pay no rent. My mom pays mortage each month. Lucky right? And he also doesn't have a job. Lucky life for him! I live here free too. I get money each month with a credit card which is meant for school and gas. I never do have cash. I have a set amount of money each month.

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Originally posted by KING BLING

 

Just start getting crazy, have them call the cops and accuse your sisters finace of trying to touch you. Than download kiddy porn on your dads computer and call the cops on him, put hash in brownies and any sauces people are making for dinner, sell your Suburban and act like it was an accident. Start eating with your fingers and act like you have joined a religious cult wearing all pink all the time (at least at home), start having really loud sex in your room and put a dead bolt on the door. Start putting on make up so heavy that it makes you look like a drug addict

 

Thats not my "stee-lo" though.

I'm not very violent either.. but when I get pushed to that point (as if anyone would) I think i'd slice a finger off or two

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Guest KING BLING
Originally posted by DEE38

 

Thats not my "stee-lo" though.

I'm not very violent either.. but when I get pushed to that point (as if anyone would) I think i'd slice a finger off or two

 

but you see, half of that shit will be a reality when you move out anyway...why not just get all psycho and scare the shit out of the people that annoy you - or you could really get rebelious and cut up the credit card.

 

Actually I have a great idea if you look better than your sister, which is likely because you are younger - start subtly dropping hints at her man. At first just exchange looks, than bump into him when you only have a really small towel on. Start playing with him and than let him make a move and go with it. Than make him be your bitch or tell your sister thus destroying her and shifting all family focus to her...if you are lucky she might move out, and if you get bounced it doesn't matter anyways.

 

I should be a high school counselor ....

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hmmm....my girlfriend is going through something comparable to this i suppose:

 

to avoid having to move to florida with her parents a few months ago, she agreed to move in with her aunt. her friends are here, school is here, and most importantly, I am. so yeah, her aunt starts off being all cool. she tells my girl that she can go out whenever she wants and such, but if shes gonna be gone for a day or so to just call and let her know. and her parents sent the aunt money to pay for her food and kind of rent, and sent money to my girl for gas and car insurance.

 

now for some reason, a few months ago, the aunt decided to just turn into some huge fucking asshole overnite. she kicked my girlfriend out for being a slob (which is total bullshit....) only when her dad talked to the aunt did she let her back in. however, she said that she now had a curfew: 11 on weekdays and 1am on weekends. thats crap. she gets out of work at 10 when she works so there goes my chances of seeing her during the week.

 

gradually, more and more things about this aunt are showing themselves: shes basically an alcoholic, shes ripping off workmans comp, and she treats my girlfriend like total shit even though shes doing very well in school, working fulltime, and keeping the house clean, forget the fact that shes dating me...my girl used to be so happy all the time, now she calls me crying and stuff because her aunts flipping on her for no real reason and telling her parents that shes a disrespectful asshole. i have volunteered to kill her aunt many times. what a stupid asshole.

 

thankfully, girlie got into a car accident a little bit ago, she wasnt hurt, but a landscaping truck fucked up the back of her car (a brand new mazda that her parents got her when they moved...) but she said she had gotten slammed into the steering wheel and hurt her back a little. so today she calls me hysterically laughing: the insurance company sent her a check for 6000 dollars for her "injuries". so yeah. shes moving within the next 2 weeks. fuck her stupid aunt. fucking cunt.

 

dee, run away. its the most cliche and juvenile thing you can possibly do. or just seriously flip on your mom and sister. point out what a good student you are and all that shit and tell them you dont deserve this crap treatment. even if your not the angry type, now might be the time...or you can just hire me. ill fly in (youll pay for this of course...credit card, i dont care...) and i can kill your sister and her fiance and dispose of them in the desert somewhere. im dead serious. i can pull this off. ill do it just for the price of the plane ticket...actually, throw in a bag of caramel apple salt water taffy and that should be good. i hate people. and can take it out on them. say word.

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Originally posted by KING BLING

 

but you see, half of that shit will be a reality when you move out anyway...why not just get all psycho and scare the shit out of the people that annoy you - or you could really get rebelious and cut up the credit card.

 

Actually I have a great idea if you look better than your sister, which is likely because you are younger - start subtly dropping hints at her man. At first just exchange looks, than bump into him when you only have a really small towel on. Start playing with him and than let him make a move and go with it. Than make him be your bitch or tell your sister thus destroying her and shifting all family focus to her...if you are lucky she might move out, and if you get bounced it doesn't matter anyways.

 

I should be a high school counselor ....

This is the best advice I've ever heard. For real, that's the best, but if you are a little timid for that one I've got an alternative, but for real, if youve got the balls, go for that shit.

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get a job, get some cash, buy a car of your own. keep working and going to school. then when you get a car and enough money to get an apartment. then say eat a dick, im out. thats what i did. except i got a case of the fuck its, and didnt go to work, so i lost a few jobs. which made it hard to keep an apartment. if i had it to do over again, id probably stick it out at home for the remaining two years. it'd be alot easier that way. however im sure you dont wanna hear that. trust me it gets worse. when your struggling to make rent and get gas and eat all in the same week, you'll think the same. you could take your car to a chop shop, sell it to them. keep the money, report it stolen to insurance, get a new car and youd have a nice bit of cash. shit, why didnt i think of that when i had a nice car?

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Originally posted by Tyler Durden

hmmm....my girlfriend is going through something comparable to this i suppose:

 

to avoid having to move to florida with her parents a few months ago, she agreed to move in with her aunt. her friends are here, school is here, and most importantly, I am. so yeah, her aunt starts off being all cool. she tells my girl that she can go out whenever she wants and such, but if shes gonna be gone for a day or so to just call and let her know. and her parents sent the aunt money to pay for her food and kind of rent, and sent money to my girl for gas and car insurance.

 

now for some reason, a few months ago, the aunt decided to just turn into some huge fucking asshole overnite. she kicked my girlfriend out for being a slob (which is total bullshit....) only when her dad talked to the aunt did she let her back in. however, she said that she now had a curfew: 11 on weekdays and 1am on weekends. thats crap. she gets out of work at 10 when she works so there goes my chances of seeing her during the week.

 

gradually, more and more things about this aunt are showing themselves: shes basically an alcoholic, shes ripping off workmans comp, and she treats my girlfriend like total shit even though shes doing very well in school, working fulltime, and keeping the house clean, forget the fact that shes dating me...my girl used to be so happy all the time, now she calls me crying and stuff because her aunts flipping on her for no real reason and telling her parents that shes a disrespectful asshole. i have volunteered to kill her aunt many times. what a stupid asshole.

 

thankfully, girlie got into a car accident a little bit ago, she wasnt hurt, but a landscaping truck fucked up the back of her car (a brand new mazda that her parents got her when they moved...) but she said she had gotten slammed into the steering wheel and hurt her back a little. so today she calls me hysterically laughing: the insurance company sent her a check for 6000 dollars for her "injuries". so yeah. shes moving within the next 2 weeks. fuck her stupid aunt. fucking cunt.

 

dee, run away. its the most cliche and juvenile thing you can possibly do. or just seriously flip on your mom and sister. point out what a good student you are and all that shit and tell them you dont deserve this crap treatment. even if your not the angry type, now might be the time...or you can just hire me. ill fly in (youll pay for this of course...credit card, i dont care...) and i can kill your sister and her fiance and dispose of them in the desert somewhere. im dead serious. i can pull this off. ill do it just for the price of the plane ticket...actually, throw in a bag of caramel apple salt water taffy and that should be good. i hate people. and can take it out on them. say word.

 

Thats like a miracle story right there. 6g's. Fuck. I feel her pain though, sounds so similiar to my situation.

 

And as for the suggestions for me to put the moves on herbitchass fiance, fuck that. Thats fucking disgusting Joey buttafucco type shit, i forgot the name of the girl, but gross.

 

And i'll consider the assasin offer. Actually I'd rather have you kill me, and make it look like I did it because I coulden't stand their bullshit anymore. word to everyones mother.

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^^ Thats preety much my alternative, but I would save up enough to buy the car and move out at the same time. If you were smooth enough you could get a job with out them knowing that you even have one. "BAM Bitches, Im out da doa!" And then they'll be so proud of you that you did things all sneaky like they would have, that they'll forget that you totally worked em'.

Independence is a bitch, but you have to go through it sooner or later. If you like that idea, I'll tell you how you can buy you're own house for less than you pay in rent.

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Originally posted by DEE38

 

And i'll consider the assasin offer. Actually I'd rather have you kill me, and make it look like I did it because I coulden't stand their bullshit anymore. word to everyones mother.

 

 

me killing them would also stop their bullshit you know...that way your mother would be so grief stricken that shed probably not kick you out and continue to flow you the dollaz. with a Z. it ALSO gives you a free pass to do shitty in school (should you feel the need...). im also firmly convinced that im going to kill someone someday. i have it set out VERY well and i think im going to get away with it. i just need an excuse and victim now. although, if you give me the bag of carmel apple salt water taffy and your suburban (hell, you wont need it....) then ill kill you i guess. but then the horny 14 year olds of 12oz will just hate me. god forbid.

 

whatever you want shugah. i aim to please.

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Originally posted by Tyler Durden

 

 

me killing them would also stop their bullshit you know...that way your mother would be so grief stricken that shed probably not kick you out and continue to flow you the dollaz. with a Z. it ALSO gives you a free pass to do shitty in school (should you feel the need...). im also firmly convinced that im going to kill someone someday. i have it set out VERY well and i think im going to get away with it. i just need an excuse and victim now. although, if you give me the bag of carmel apple salt water taffy and your suburban (hell, you wont need it....) then ill kill you i guess. but then the horny 14 year olds of 12oz will just hate me. god forbid.

 

whatever you want shugah. i aim to please.

 

bwaaahahhahahhaaaaaaa

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keep your head up

 

for real though, if you can put up with it until you graduate, do it. Its hard balancing work, school and all the other shit you need to do, not to mention that you will no longer have a car or any spending money once you pay for all the necessities to live.

I haven't lived at home with my parents since I was 18. If I just stayed at home and went to school, I would be so much farther ahead, rather than just starting to get my life together and living like an adult.

So my advice is to tough it out if possible. It'll be better in the long run. Just think, once you have a career, not a job, you'll never have to talk to them again.

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