By registering with us, you'll be able to discuss, share and private message with other members of our community.

  1. Welcome to the 12ozProphet Forum...
    You are currently logged out and viewing our forum as a guest which only allows limited access to our discussions, photos and other forum features. If you are a 12ozProphet Member please login to get the full experience.

    If you are not a 12ozProphet Member, please take a moment to register to gain full access to our website and all of its features. As a 12ozProphet Member you will be able to post comments, start discussions, communicate privately with other members and access members-only content. Registration is fast, simple and free, so join today and be a part of the largest and longest running Graffiti, Art, Style & Culture forum online.

    Please note, if you are a 12ozProphet Member and are locked out of your account, you can recover your account using the 'lost password' link in the login form. If you no longer have access to the email you registered with, please email us at [email protected] and we'll help you recover your account. Welcome to the 12ozProphet Forum (and don't forget to follow @12ozprophet in Instagram)!

For you INDEPENDANT folks. How'd you do it? How'd you say: FUCK YOU MOM&DAD,IM OUTS!

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by DEE38, Oct 19, 2002.

  1. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    So, I despretely need to move out.

    This is my situation.. and anyone who's been fed up with being over 18 and living on the dependency of yours parents and moved out, and basically said "FUCK YOU" and bounced... i'd really like to hear your stores of independance.

    It's like this. I've grown up spoiled. Never really worked in my life, focused on school, rich hardworking parents bought everything for me that I've ever wanted. I thought i had my life dope. My first car I got when I was 18... a 2002 suburban. My parents pay for my education in full, and bought me & my bitchass sister that I would give money to have her clubbed in the back of the neck, a huge house here in Nevada. She's alot older than me, 8 years, and she think's she can tell me what to do, and alot of the time i'm a prisoner in this house.
    I'll be 20 next year, and I still get grounded. I get my car and house keys taken away from me every weekend now to stop my "partying." They're give back to me on Mondays when I leave for school. If im out late, they call the police on me and search for my car. They harass my boyfriend's house by leaving vulgar messages for me on his answering machine. My mom and my sister have built a tag team on me, and I swear to god I woulden't mind slitting her throat. Infact, I woulden't mind slitting my own, and blaming it on them. Shit sucks. I'm anti social most of time in this house and spend my time alone in my room or in the living room when no ones down there, I hate talking to them. Note that my sisters bitchass fiance lives with us also, and he lives for free.
    What i'm trying to get at, is that I need a life where I'm free. Where I can go out, and come home whenever I please. I'm extremey good in school, but some how thats not good enough. I'm the "baby" in the family. They treat me like shit, buying me things in exchange for freedom.
    So, after 19 years of being dependant... I need to get out. I want to move out. The thing is, if I move out..... I need to get a job. Whatever, a job, I can get one. But then, I'll have no car. My car will be taken away from me. I could still have a ride to school if I wanted to, but they pay for my school too, meaning i'll probably drop out. I don't want them paying for anything of mines anymore. Thats the only way I can be independant.
    Work=Apartment=Drop out of college=busses=No more Car=Work=Come home whenever I want to=Freedom.

    What should I do? What would you do?
    I have 2 more years of school left.
    I need to get out.

    I need to hear of your stories of independance too. Inspire me.
  2. -Rage-

    -Rage- 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 12, 2001 Messages: 11,276 Likes Received: 71
    Stay in school, graduate, get a REAL job, make money, move the fuck out.

    KING BLING Guest

    Are you really asking this shit? Sit down with your folks, neogtiate the terms of your living there to meet your needs and their wants and make a big effort to assert the realness of these expectations. I mean fuck, you have to be retarded to give up all that shit to go out on the weekends. Get a shitty job and offer to pay rent in exchange for weekend freedoms - make arrangements to call them or even page them at certain points in the evening to assure them you are okay. I would not advocate for any of this except you have shit that most people would die for, and despite your oppressive condition, in two years you will not only have the chance to be fully self sufficient, but more than likely your rich ass parents will buy their whiny little baby some toys from Ikea.....
  4. Dr. Drew

    Dr. Drew Guest

    just give up the car, free rent and free food. it's really worth it. when you work to support yourself, you'll be proud of yourself for your own accomplishments. i work a lot now, but it doesn't bother me when i think about how glad i am that i don't have to put up with my parents anymore.
  5. fr8oholic

    fr8oholic Veteran Member

    Joined: Apr 23, 2000 Messages: 9,256 Likes Received: 2
  6. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    I TOTATTLY feel you.. but jesus christ.. I'm a great student, my GPA stands at a firm 3.8, which is like..... heaven for me since I never really did that good in high school. They treat me like i'm still in elementry.. taking my keys away? I bust my ass just for them to say "My babygirl roxy is doing great pulling honor roll's at the art acadamy" ..THATS ALL. Thats all they care about it, and I know it because i've been COMPARED SOOOO MANY TIMES to Marias kids, or Renees daughter, or Jamies Son.
    Have you ever lived in a jail where you can't even have locks on your bedroom door for whatever reason? And when you do install your own "lock" they pick it, and dont even knock? Or not even have a key to your own house so that you have to bang on the door so they know what time you come home? Or been 19 and grounded, or have a curfew even?
    I'm saying, I work so hard for them to brag to their friends about how great i am in school. I'm their little fucking monkey. Why can't I have fun too?
    I'm totattly in prison. I'm forced to eat a certain time, i'm forced to call my mom right when I get home from school so she knows i'm home. (She lives in Hawaii).. They read my mail. They take away my laptop when I am "bad". I never was allowed to have friends over till a month ago. My sister, you don't understand our history. We go way back where she hates me for taking her spotlite away when I was born, and she still hates me which explains why she loves to make my life hell.

    This isn't about going out on the weekend to sneak a beer or someshit, it's beyond that... it goes waaaaay past just "going out." I can't even explain this shit right now
  7. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    Free rent and free food? where'd this come from?
  8. post.

    post. Guest

    Hey Dee... wanna trade problems?
  9. Dr. Drew

    Dr. Drew Guest

    wait, so you live with them, and pay rent and buy your own food?
  10. ~KRYLON2~

    ~KRYLON2~ 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Oct 13, 2001 Messages: 10,475 Likes Received: 203

    KING BLING Guest

    Just start getting crazy, have them call the cops and accuse your sisters finace of trying to touch you. Than download kiddy porn on your dads computer and call the cops on him, put hash in brownies and any sauces people are making for dinner, sell your Suburban and act like it was an accident. Start eating with your fingers and act like you have joined a religious cult wearing all pink all the time (at least at home), start having really loud sex in your room and put a dead bolt on the door. Start putting on make up so heavy that it makes you look like a drug addict
  12. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    I live with my sister in Nevada. My mom bought us this house a long time ago because she was forcing me to go to UNLV, which I never wanted to go, I wanted to go to an Arts school and thats where I go now. We're originally from Hawaii.

    My sister and her fiance live here. Free. They pay no rent. My mom pays mortage each month. Lucky right? And he also doesn't have a job. Lucky life for him! I live here free too. I get money each month with a credit card which is meant for school and gas. I never do have cash. I have a set amount of money each month.
  13. DEE38

    DEE38 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Apr 8, 2001 Messages: 11,128 Likes Received: 13
    Thats not my "stee-lo" though.
    I'm not very violent either.. but when I get pushed to that point (as if anyone would) I think i'd slice a finger off or two

    KING BLING Guest

    but you see, half of that shit will be a reality when you move out anyway...why not just get all psycho and scare the shit out of the people that annoy you - or you could really get rebelious and cut up the credit card.

    Actually I have a great idea if you look better than your sister, which is likely because you are younger - start subtly dropping hints at her man. At first just exchange looks, than bump into him when you only have a really small towel on. Start playing with him and than let him make a move and go with it. Than make him be your bitch or tell your sister thus destroying her and shifting all family focus to her...if you are lucky she might move out, and if you get bounced it doesn't matter anyways.

    I should be a high school counselor ....
  15. Intangible

    Intangible 12oz Legend

    Joined: Jul 9, 2001 Messages: 17,479 Likes Received: 7
    Why when there is so much free stuff....its like I wont he lottery or something....;) :D :) :p