H. Lecter Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 OK, We all know that these choices are conditional... This is a matter of preference, life is complicated and leaves us with few options... So in theory, Would you rather many from one, or some from many? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H. Lecter Posted August 20, 2005 Author Share Posted August 20, 2005 Honestly, If I had an answer of my own, I would'nt be interested in yours.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 boogie hands Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CACashRefund Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by Vanity@Aug 20 2005, 07:10 AM boogie hands Quoted post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GREENOJOS Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 both. not at the same time ofcourse. if im in a relationship i wouldnt mess around all over town, but until im there, its on with several. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slave_one Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 you usually tire of the promiscuity, then move on to an exclusive relationship. but then sometimes you wanna go back and get a taste of the first one. in the long run, i would go with exclusive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orgasm Addict Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Exclusive. Being single and promiscuous only makes you realize that the fish in the sea aren't that cool or interesting. Plus, all the head games and acting like you have no emotions... what a waste of time. I love being upfront and I love being in love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fondles Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 pssh, man hoe for real. i'm too young to commit on that exclusive level. In 5 years i'll change my ways, i'm sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by Orgasm Addict@Aug 20 2005, 04:57 PM Exclusive. I love being upfront and I love being in love. Quoted post on point! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slave_one Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 he said man hoe. hahahah. forill, i trip out on those kids in high school who are in serious relationships talking about being TOGETHER FOREVER...and then what happens down the road? have fun first, settle down later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beardo Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 im too fuckin weird and antisocial to really get down with banging different bitches every night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H. Lecter Posted August 20, 2005 Author Share Posted August 20, 2005 I'm feeling the responses, especially that of Orgasm Addict.. but on the other side of that, I'm feeling the "have fun young, until you're ready to settle" responses too~ but what troubles me about that when is it actually enough?? When is it time to actually settle down?? How will I know ready?? And when I know that I'm ready, won't that make me more likely to grab what's around at the time and settle, just for the sake of "me being ready"?? And by then, half of the women are spoiled and most,if not all of your previous relationships with potential have already been tainted beyond satisfactory repair.. A wise man once told me a West African tradition tale or whatever you'd like to call it, about a man from a small town who had a beautiful field that could support him and any family forever. But this man was the most intelligent, ambitious and beautiful of all people in the town, and he decided to travel to the big city, with the idea in mind that he always had a farm and women to go back home to. After some time, he returns to his town, but only to find that his soil had rotted and all of the women had been taken. For the remainder of his days, he was reminded that no matter what he did, no matter how hard he worked, he was too late..His oppourtunities had all gone to waste...Patience became his flaw, rather than his virtue.. and all he could do was look back.. Sounds better coming from the man who told it proper, but you understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imported_YEAHMANWORD Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by H. Lecter@Aug 20 2005, 06:42 AM Honestly, If I had an answer of my own, I would'nt be interested in yours.. Quoted post It all depends on your mood man. It's all a cycle. You move from having a girlfriend, to being single and hooking up with everyone and anyone. It all ends when you find someone who you don't want to lose, and who you want to be in your life forever. That's also when the true beauty begins. When you foster the relationship you have with this person, and you two become intertwined together like mother earth and all of her creatures. By the way, this is a dumb fuckin thread. I hate when people ask questions like this. It reminds me of a fuckin 17teen magazine pool. If you're a confused 13-year old girl with insecurity issues, then so be it. But if not, then go out, live your fuckin life, don't go out in the morning and say "Hey, I'm gonna go look for a soul mate." or "Hey, I feel like fucking a girl in a taxi tonight." Just go out and take things as they come. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
H. Lecter Posted August 20, 2005 Author Share Posted August 20, 2005 "It all ends when you find someone who you don't want to lose, and who you want to be in your life forever." Good response, with the exception of the criticism~ I made this poll out of curiousity of what the majority viewpoint is~ and to see some of the more extreme responses.. And being that people who you usually speak about such a topic with are too close to you to give a fair or honest conversation anyway, what better place? If you think I'm passing my fate off into the hands of an online polls results, you're bugging~ "Take things as they come" is a great theory~ but the devil will find work for idle hands... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by beardo@Aug 20 2005, 12:24 PM im too fuckin weird and antisocial to really get down with banging different bitches every night. Quoted post Yeah me too... it's either that or it's people that suck, and the more people involved in your life the greater your bullshit/drama index is going to be. Finding the right person, to me is more important than having "fun", because you could spoil the opportunity... and besides... it's just bullshit/drama otherwise. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hungoverseas Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 i've never been very into the whole sleeping around thing. i guess it's cool for what it is, but in no way is it fulfilling at all. having someone you love, who actually loves you back is much, much more rewarding. there's really no comparison. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodice_ripper Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 Originally posted by slave_one@Aug 20 2005, 05:10 PM he said man hoe. hahahah. forill, i trip out on those kids in high school who are in serious relationships talking about being TOGETHER FOREVER...and then what happens down the road? have fun first, settle down later. Quoted post i was those high school kids, and in answer to your question, we are still together and she's the only thing in my life that never leaves me.... * edit, since its relevant to the topic we've been with other people on occasion during our relationship, with permission. But everyone else is made of cardboard in comparison with her.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mackfatsoe Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 I'm with beardo and villian edit: no homo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 10 to 1 for exclusive relationships. I hadn't realized there were so many upstanding citizens on here. lol We may be vandals, but we have dignity dammit.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tough Love Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 meh do whatever you feel like doing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 my brother is 40 and has never been married... goes out w/ strippers and stuff.. so i've seen that road :smile-mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
^ . ^ Posted August 20, 2005 Share Posted August 20, 2005 exclusive..hands down. thank god i got so lucky and have the boyfriend that i do now.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Dazzle Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Originally posted by slave_one@Aug 20 2005, 10:10 AM forill, i trip out on those kids in high school who are in serious relationships talking about being TOGETHER FOREVER...and then what happens down the road? have fun first, settle down later. Quoted post My girlfriend's ex is getting married to his girlfriend. They are both 17 and they've been together for less than two months. Have a nice life..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Umm, since I'm single I voted for promiscuity. But if I found the right girl I'd settle but i dunno. Lifes probably too short to get too settled. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mauler5150 Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Oh yeah, that marriage sounds like its gonna add to the divorce statistics. Oh how sad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dead sentiment Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 you'll know when you're ready to settle down because you wont want anything else. when it really comes down to it, you know what you want and you'll gravitate towards it. i guess you also need a lot of self-awareness for that as well... sometimes it takes a certain person to make you feel that way, also the timing of the situation along with everything else in your life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahyoulose Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 i picked the exclusive relationships... although my longest running relationship has been 4 whoooolleee months. hahahaha i just bring myself to sleep with people that i don't care for - it hurts me too much plus im a paranoid loser about STD's and all that shit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeRVe54 Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 tough call cuzz i been in a relationship for a year and a half, and it was all but holy. i love and loved this girl like noone else. but then there comes a time when things just arent the same. people change and so dont feelings and circumstances. nothing works to me cuz in the end your always back with yourself. its true>> together and miserable or alone and lonely. at least i think so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2 blaazed Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 Exclusive Relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suicide Bomber Posted August 21, 2005 Share Posted August 21, 2005 I think everyone would rather find "the one" right away then go through all those chicks... and i meen i know some would say "Well id get bored of just one person all my life" well once you find "the one" you dont want anyone else... just my theory i guess... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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