boxcarwilly Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 hey kids, i just got engaged, and i wanted to share my fucking elation with all the people i know from here. holy shit is jobe saying he is happy??? shes got a killer ring. a killer heart. and shes got me. its kind of insane. completely unexpected completely insane. well seeing as i can babble on and on about it... just tell me congratulations and maybe if you are worth it, you can be invited to the wedding and buy us presents. jobeone.fuckbachelorhood. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DETO Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 best wishes. Congratulations. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poop Man Bob Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 Congratulations! It's a great feeling, isn't it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest beardo Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 congrats, man glad to see things turn around besto luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Telo Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 Congragulations man. I dont necessarily want to come to the wedding because i look like one of those cheese dick Ralph Lauren models when i get dressed up like that. But good luck with that whole scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-J.Handsome- Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 Congragulations man. best of luck to you and yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 Congratulations... Sounds like something you really wanted... surprise or not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Dazzle Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 Congradddddy's.....must be a nice feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilush Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 say it aint soooo boxcar!!!! thats awesome dude. congratulations!!! i'm going to message you right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.HollaBack Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 awesome man... good luck with that. i wish i had found the right one already... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxcarwilly Posted March 26, 2004 Author Share Posted March 26, 2004 devilush... sn: threeredrazors thanks everyone, keep making me feel congratulated MOTHAFUCKAS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! beardo: its definately a change in the right directions. its something like an anchor, and a validation for everything else that has come up, the past the fuckups the bullshit. but its good. real good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 congratulations! now, are we all getting invited to the wedding? I'll bring gelatin salad! http://www.lileks.com/institute/gallery/knox/garden2.jpg'> uhmmmmm!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERIZENO Posted March 26, 2004 Share Posted March 26, 2004 congrats and good luck !! i am about to ask myself ... have the plan for june ... but i will be asking the parents with in the next two weeks !!! aaaaahhhhhhh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxcarwilly Posted March 26, 2004 Author Share Posted March 26, 2004 Originally posted by ERIZENO congrats and good luck !! i am about to ask myself ... have the plan for june ... but i will be asking the parents with in the next two weeks !!! aaaaahhhhhhh even tho i completely agree with that approach, and feel like a shitfuck for not persuing it, everyone we have told so far understands why we did it somewhat surprisingly, her mom cried my mom cried, and we figured theyre gonna cry either way might as well get it done because its something that you cant be talked out of... not that we could be talked out of it, its better in my mind to do it as irrationally and romantic as possible.... and think about where and when because its a huge point in writing the autobiography of two people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERIZENO Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 i have been with her for 4 years ... its expected we will do it, its when not if ... so i have a dope plan ... i dont want to share the details ... she comes thru here some times too. dont want to spoil the fun. i was looking for christmas gifts and i bounced into this idea. i have to agree it has to more than just randomly dropping to one knee and asking. her parents will be cool with it ... i just need to ask ... we live in CA & her parents are in MN. we are going there next week for 10 days and that will be my only chance with her parents before the planed date comes up. im stoked ... i will share the deal when we get there !!!! again good luck !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synaps Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 it's a good look for the kid congrats Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devilush Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Originally posted by boxcarwilly devilush... sn: threeredrazors oiii damn the man and work. i will be able to im you this weekend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.HollaBack Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 do you guys really think its still important to ask the ladies parents for permission these days? (not being a smart ass, just wondering the general opinion of you guys) does it always apply you think, or is it just respectful or by culture? speak up... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-J.Handsome- Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 i think it's just being respectful. -J. Handsome Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DETO Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 <span style='color:pink'>i agree, i think it should be done in respect. but if ever got a "no" from the parents, i still would go ahead with my plans. </span> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.HollaBack Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 personally, i guess i could do it... but im not fucking the mom, im fucking the daughter, yoa mings? :lol: J. HollaBizzzzzle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERIZENO Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 it is respect ... but i dont think its as important as it would have been 20years ago. I am in good with the family and i just want to do it right in my view. i dont even have the ring to show them ... the one flaw in my plan now !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boxcarwilly Posted March 27, 2004 Author Share Posted March 27, 2004 Originally posted by J.HollaBack do you guys really think its still important to ask the ladies parents for permission these days? (not being a smart ass, just wondering the general opinion of you guys) does it always apply you think, or is it just respectful or by culture? speak up... i think its noble if the situation permits, but sometimes it can royally fuck things up, believe me i would have loved to tell her dad and let him know my intentions etc, it just wasnt the right situation. but it definately adds some romance to the sitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.HollaBack Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 another thing, about the ring... how do you get her size, i guess you should know by now if you are marrying her... but also, how do you know what to look for when it comes to the ring? what do you look for... :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seven.13 Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Wow :) You sound really happy so I wish you the best of luck.n Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
duh-rye-won Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 http://www.castorena.com/images/bundy/al.gif'> "YOU DID WHAT?" haha. just playin' dog. good luck and congrats! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ERIZENO Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 With being with her for 4 years i have found out over time what style, cut, band material and everything she likes ... so either guess or be sly and ask for parts of the answer here and there. i have a friend whos father is a jeweler by trade so im set !!!! i just need to get the ball rolling soon . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InnerCityRebel Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 Congrats and best wishes.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hottnickels Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 boxcarwilly, i remember a while ago, things weren't going so great for you..i am really happy to hear that things are looking up and that you're happy.. congratulations and good luck!! awesome news. so many people i know (or sorta know in a way) are getting or have gotten married + kids. very cool... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
casekonly Posted March 27, 2004 Share Posted March 27, 2004 congrats! how does it feel? scary? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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