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do you think this is fair

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by HESHIANDET, Jun 18, 2004.

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    homeboy gets involved in a semi long distance relationship. he is in senior year of college and driving 1.5 hours every weekend to see his girl. because of this he isn't really able to work part time and is usually mega broke. they decide to move in together once he finishes school. girl decides that she just cant stand her current roomates and needs to get her own place ASAP. so instead of dealing w/ it for a month or 2 and stacking chips she gets bank loan and rents a new crib. the day after homeboy graduates college he is expected to move to a new city because girl cant front eh rent on her own anymore as the loan money is running out. being anice guy he moves up and gives the last of his mopney to help pay rent for a mopnth. now girl is being a cunt wanting money and making my man feel bad about not having a job yet. when if she had just dealt w/ her situation the couple would be better off. i think shes unfair and selfish. sucks.
  2. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

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    how long were they together before all this?

    If he's willing to move in with honey with less than a solid year of dating time, he's just asking for trouble. My girl wants me to move to Vancouver with her.... but I've only know chica for 8 months. A little too soon for that kind of talk.
  3. nomadawhat

    nomadawhat Veteran Member

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    long distance relationships, money causing arguments and moving in together are the top 3 ways to kill a relationship.
  4. Thats the kind of girl that will suck your man dry and eventually marry him, believe it...i agree it sucks.
    If i were you i'd knock some sense in his head .
  5. High Priest

    High Priest Elite Member

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    Tell him to move on, no its not fair but he shouldnt be putting up with that shit either.
  6. exactly...

    and i speak from experience here
  7. BROWNer

    BROWNer Guest

    hook it up!
  8. !@#$%

    [email protected]#$% Moderator Crew

    Joined: Oct 1, 2002 Messages: 18,517 Likes Received: 623
    money problems=relationship death

    dude, when the bills ain't paid and peeps ain't pulling themselves up, it puts such a tremendous strain on a relationship...
    it breaks up marriages for chrissakes.

    no, it's never fair when one person in a relationship is consistently giving or sacrificing more than the other.

    sounds like homeboy gave and sacrificed more, and homegirl has her own needs first.

    (as opposed to the needs of the realtionship: that both parties are equal)

    this has been today's episode of ..
    The Young and The Twelve Ounces
  9. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

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    haha... I'll be visiting this summer.
    She used to do a big radioshow and manage
    a recording studio and yadda yadda yadda.

    I however.... kind of like the city I'm in.
  10. BROWNer

    BROWNer Guest

    okay, you like toronto:rolleyes:, but does the
    prospect of a potentially great career move not
  11. BROWNer

    BROWNer Guest

    ps-make sure you visit the island and it's
    inhabitants. you can't come out west and not
    experience your own countries equivelant
    to the bahamas:king:
  12. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

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    yes... but to be honest I'm looking to get out of new media.
    I want to be a postman, or a leathersmith, or a cabinet maker or something.

    I've spent my ENTIRE life on computers and it's my personal rebellion.

    oh... moving to BC to make babies isn't high on my list (for at least 5 years)
  13. BROWNer

    BROWNer Guest

    pps-if this is not do-able, at least visit hornby island for
    a few days.
  14. <KEY3>

    <KEY3> Veteran Member

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    I hear you.

    I'm not exactly sure what the deal will be with the trip,
    but chances are she'll be dragging me to White Rock.
    I would move there, but NOT on a girlfriends coat tails.

    you know?
  15. BROWNer

    BROWNer Guest

    an adventure to a beautiful place with
    a pretty girl? good times dude, you may
    end up staying:)
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