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dear abbey...

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by loopsnew, Aug 13, 2003.

  1. loopsnew

    loopsnew New Jack

    Joined: Jun 3, 2003 Messages: 95 Likes Received: 0
    define foreplay... on the basis that's it an early start to a relationship. a little naive, but bare with me... so say you start dating someone. but your not ready to have sex... but your def all about having a little fun, right? well, how far is too far without teasing the fuck out of the other person? meaning, i guess, is there such a thing as teasing to the point they get mad?

    scenario: date 6. everything above the belt so far has been explored. how can i explore further without having to actually have intercourse? i haven't even tried touching past the belt, cause to me it just seems... i dunno, unfair to him. an unbearable tease. i don't want to be a tease. but i do want to... explore. the thing is, that's all i want to do. i dunno if i even like him enough to progress further, you know? honestly, i just want to enjoy myself, but NOT at the expense of others. that's my dilemma, i guess.

    so if intercourse isn't a given outcome, then its not really foreplay, huh? hmm. i guess i just want to know exactly what you deem... appropriate (?). oh. and for those that will undoubtedly post useless shit, allow me to say upfront, fuck off.

  2. Dick Quickwood

    Dick Quickwood 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Aug 25, 2002 Messages: 14,783 Likes Received: 14
    so whats your dilemna ? is there a force feild around your cunt ?
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    [email protected]#$% Moderator Crew

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  4. Kettiecat

    Kettiecat Senior Member

    Joined: Aug 27, 2002 Messages: 1,122 Likes Received: 0
    If he doesn't get off, then he's been teased. A big boy can handle this. Just like if he gets you all worked up then you have to go home and play with your dildo. Are you pissed at him for not finishing you off?

    On the other hand if you don't like this guy enough that you think you'll never have sex with him, why are you wasting your time in a relationship you know is going to end. Wasting his time is much worse than leaving him feeling like he's been teased.
  5. loopsnew

    loopsnew New Jack

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    that's just it, i don't know. sometimes i'm really giddy to see him. sometimes its more like .. blah. <-- my discovering my likes and dislikes of him. noone's pissed. i just don't know my ...boundaries, if there are any...? i don't want to piss him off, is what i'm getting at.

    i mean, that's what getting to know someone is all about, i guess. i'm just a bit clueless :lol: i know. sad. just don't really know what to do. eh. thanks anyways :)

    option a
    option b

    ^^^ how long can that go on before he expects intercourse? i know everyone is diff. just. haah. nevermind. i'll figure it out. one way or another. thank you.
  6. StarzAbove

    StarzAbove Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 15, 2003 Messages: 7,133 Likes Received: 6
    just tell him straight up!
    you just want to play around;)
  7. BigOatser

    BigOatser Senior Member

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  8. --zeSto--

    --zeSto-- Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 12, 2000 Messages: 6,979 Likes Received: 2

    let me regain what's left of my composure....

    ok then. It's been a while since I've been in that situation but trust me...
    every guy has been there before. Usually in the teenage years before
    they even really knew what do do anyways. I think that the key is to
    make a distinction between 'foreplay' and just 'making out'. I read an
    article that claimed 'Making out is the new sex'. It was more so about
    women in their prime who were tired of not getting the attention they
    wanted because men were only about that single act. So they had to
    find a way to get a bit of the intimacy back.... I'm off topic.

    I guess you just need to make it clear how far things will go before
    you both get all heated up. It's like driving a fast car. If you're expecting
    to hit top speeds over a quatermile, you'll work the engine in a different
    way than if you had a 50 mile race ahead of you. If he guns the engine
    to hit the quatermile and you're pacing for the 50 there will be trouble.

    did you like my racing cars metaphore?
  9. Dick Quickwood

    Dick Quickwood 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Aug 25, 2002 Messages: 14,783 Likes Received: 14
    hahaha are you intentionally trying to confuse our young whore
  10. --zeSto--

    --zeSto-- Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 12, 2000 Messages: 6,979 Likes Received: 2
    ^ not really.

    I just know she's into cars so I'd try to create a good comparison.

    I could have just said blue balls are bad.
  11. fr8lover

    fr8lover Elite Member

    Joined: Oct 22, 2000 Messages: 3,919 Likes Received: 1
    i think youre extremely sexually frustrated. go get laid/
  12. loopsnew

    loopsnew New Jack

    Joined: Jun 3, 2003 Messages: 95 Likes Received: 0
    lol @ kilo. thank you. i knew i could count on you :lol: now go beat up arcel and his assumptive heavy-handed fingers and i'll buy you another 'beer' ;)

    freightlover. you are correct. but like is said, i don't want to ... use. straight up, i just gotta talk to him. see what 'race' he plans on winning. i see that now. thanks everyone.
  13. WebsterUno

    WebsterUno Guest

    as long as you can make him bust one off..
    I dont think he mind not getting any play.
    For some, thats plenty.
  14. SteveAustin

    SteveAustin Veteran Member

    Joined: Mar 12, 2002 Messages: 7,042 Likes Received: 2
    date #6?
    Christ....what happened to the 3 date rule? Don't tell me its gone the way of the dodo!
    options a & b could probably get you another month, before the frustration gets to be too much.
    I gotta ask...what's homeboy doing? Is he puttin around like he's driving his momma's automatic or is he driving it like a stolen 6 speed 911? If he's letting you do the initiation then you can probably get more time out of it. if you're constantly having to relocate his hands...time is running out...quickly.
  15. --zeSto--

    --zeSto-- Veteran Member

    Joined: Jul 12, 2000 Messages: 6,979 Likes Received: 2

    • Nice with the continued car comparisons.
      I'd be willing to be that these two are both
      still on their 'learners permit' if you get what I'm saying.
      The 3 date rules only applies to licensed drivers.