Bloc131 Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 i have an ex whom i dated about 2 months. we got pretty close, but i had to move. i was fine with that and felt it best to just end things then and there. she had other plans however and wanted to maintain the relationship even though i'd be on the other side of the country. should i: a.) tell her how i really feel - that i dont care to really talk to her again. it just annoys me to talk to her. or b.) try to let her down easy and just let things fade away. long and painful for me. any advice would be nice as long as it's somewhat intelligent. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rubbish heap Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 im going towards a)... even though its harder, at least you can get it out of the way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
effyoo Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 A) Snip, quick and easy, just like a vasectomy or A) Zip, quick and easy, just like puliing of a band aid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 C) Come back to jersey, hit that shit then go on photo adventures with Mis and Rage. On a more serious note, so no remorse and bust out with option A. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloc131 Posted August 6, 2003 Author Share Posted August 6, 2003 Mis, you dont know how tempting C is, man, if i ever have to leave Cali.. i'll be in philly for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 Originally posted by Bloc131 Mis, you dont know how tempting C is, man, if i ever have to leave Cali.. i'll be in philly for sure. You're in Cali now? Damn, last I talked to you you were in kentucky? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloc131 Posted August 6, 2003 Author Share Posted August 6, 2003 yeah i got a job out here kind of and a place to stay. i wanna come back to visit super bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mr_president Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 first off how old are you? im guessing young... anyways, if you like her a lot still or even love her, let her know that, but let her know you broke up because you didnt want to deal with the heart ache of not being able to be with her but you'd like to remain best friends for life or until yall could be closer together. thats what id do. and if you are young, like 18 or younger, 2 months aint shit, i doubt she was the one, so dont put to much worry into it... it was only 2 months. IBGODOLA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the shitz Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 try asking help not on a internet forum Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
space base Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 http://www.webdunia.com/nirogdham/yonrog/0201/31/images/animated.gif'> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GLIK$ Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 Dont draw it out. Call the lady woman tonight and tell her, "Listen you're one fly piece of hoopty. But baby I'sa playa." <click> No really, don't draw it out. Long distance isn't meant to work. Thats why people go on dates together rather than over a phone or internet connection. If you try a long distance thing, you'll get too overly attached or she will and when someone new who lives closer moves into play, you'll end up in the note as a reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Born Loser Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 I hate dealing with ex's I usually just run from my problems... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GLIK$ Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 And that my friend is why you're ugly. And from Canada. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
!@#$% Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 2 months?? you're still allowed to crush her feelings like an empty beer can and get away with it without being/looking like a dick.. 2 months is seriously, a drop in the bucket of relationship time take it from me (a woman), you have no obligation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JUDONO? Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 2 months aint shit man, just drop it like its hot:hatred: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Pilau Hands Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 yeah 2 months aint jack what you should really do though is help me figure out how to get the the bay. that shit would be hot, and she'd respect you for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SukiSukiNow Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 I think you should let her know that you would like some time apart, in every sense of the word. Tell her you will give her a call when you're ready to be friends. She will either understand or get pissed, but atleast you will be rid of her and you will not feel guilty or leave her hanging which is really really bad. Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
test pattern Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 Originally posted by the A squad try asking help not on a internet forum because we're not real people you fucking chump Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloc131 Posted August 6, 2003 Author Share Posted August 6, 2003 Originally posted by test pattern because we're not real people you fucking chump seconded also, thanks for all the responses. i appreciate them. it will give me a lot more to think about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomadawhat Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 A. definatley. i was in a similar situation once and chose B. and had to pay for it for a long time, don't give her something to cling on to, or else she'll drag behind you for some time to come. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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ClueTwo Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 If you have to ask, go with A....She obviously doesn't mean all that much to you if you have to ask. Her feelings won't mean shit in two months when your humpin someone else... http://everyschool.org/u/edslug/krista/a.gif'> Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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