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dealing with an ex - advice would be nice

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Bloc131, Aug 6, 2003.

  1. Bloc131

    Bloc131 12oz Member

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    dealing with an ex - advice would be nice

    Discussion started by Bloc131 - Aug 6, 2003

    i have an ex whom i dated about 2 months. we got pretty close, but i had to move. i was fine with that and felt it best to just end things then and there. she had other plans however and wanted to maintain the relationship even though i'd be on the other side of the country.

    should i:

    a.) tell her how i really feel - that i dont care to really talk to her again. it just annoys me to talk to her.

    or

    b.) try to let her down easy and just let things fade away. long and painful for me.



    any advice would be nice as long as it's somewhat intelligent.
     
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  2. rubbish heap

    rubbish heap 12oz Senior Member

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    rubbish heap - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    im going towards a)... even though its harder, at least you can get it out of the way.
     
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  3. effyoo

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    effyoo - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    A) Snip, quick and easy, just like a vasectomy

    or

    A) Zip, quick and easy, just like puliing of a band aid
     
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  4. MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega

    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega 12oz Veteran Member

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    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    C) Come back to jersey, hit that shit then go on photo adventures with Mis and Rage.

    On a more serious note, so no remorse and bust out with option A.
     
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  5. Bloc131

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    Bloc131 - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    Mis, you dont know how tempting C is, man, if i ever have to leave Cali.. i'll be in philly for sure.
     
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  6. MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega

    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega 12oz Veteran Member

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    MisPantalonesEstaEnfuega - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    You're in Cali now? Damn, last I talked to you you were in kentucky?
     
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  7. Bloc131

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    Bloc131 - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    yeah i got a job out here kind of and a place to stay. i wanna come back to visit super bad.
     
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  8. mr_president

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    first off how old are you? im guessing young...

    anyways, if you like her a lot still or even love her, let her know that, but let her know you broke up because you didnt want to deal with the heart ache of not being able to be with her but you'd like to remain best friends for life or until yall could be closer together.

    thats what id do.

    and if you are young, like 18 or younger, 2 months aint shit, i doubt she was the one, so dont put to much worry into it... it was only 2 months.

    IBGODOLA
     
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  9. the shitz

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    the shitz - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    try asking help not on a internet forum
     
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  11. GLIK$

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    Dont draw it out. Call the lady woman tonight and tell her, "Listen you're one fly piece of hoopty. But baby I'sa playa." <click>


    No really, don't draw it out. Long distance isn't meant to work. Thats why people go on dates together rather than over a phone or internet connection. If you try a long distance thing, you'll get too overly attached or she will and when someone new who lives closer moves into play, you'll end up in the note as a reason.
     
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  12. Born Loser

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    Born Loser - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    I hate dealing with ex's I usually just run from my problems...
     
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    And that my friend is why you're ugly. And from Canada.
     
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    !@#$% - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    2 months??

    you're still allowed to crush her feelings like an empty beer can and get away with it without being/looking like a dick..

    2 months is seriously, a drop in the bucket of relationship time

    take it from me (a woman), you have no obligation
     
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    JUDONO? - Replied Aug 6, 2003

    2 months aint shit man, just drop it like its hot:hatred:
     
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