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cohabitation extrication

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by ubejinxed, Jul 11, 2003.

  1. ubejinxed

    ubejinxed 12oz Veteran Member

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    cohabitation extrication

    Discussion started by ubejinxed - Jul 11, 2003

    ever have one of those messy messy situations where u lived with someone you were dating and it was time to move on?

    like the financial issues: that's mine, or you owe me this for this bill, or i did that for you so we're not even etc...

    or just the emotional drama leading up to this and the aftermath?

    sigh. week three and it's still going.

    i guess 2 yrs and a ring don't die easily.
     
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  2. --zeSto--

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    --zeSto-- - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    you're better off ubeski.

    Just think of the doors opening for you right now.
    I know it's hard to look past the pain of a failed relationship,
    but you know there's much more for you. Maybe a little time to
    yourself without having to (emotionaly) support another person
    is what you need to break down some of the other things in your
    life you dont like. Do you think you'd have the nerve to leave the
    cube and try a new direction if the ground wasn't 'pulled out from under you'?
     
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  3. Poop Man Bob

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    Poop Man Bob - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    Kilo coming correct with the advice.
     
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  4. ubejinxed

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    ubejinxed - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    i agree but it's just so messy and painful.

    note to others, never buy cars for your boyfriend or ask them to help u with your house and live with you. it won't end up well.
     
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    ubejinxed - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    i should just turn his ass in to the INS.

    fucker
     
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  6. --zeSto--

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    --zeSto-- - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    *note to single girls... she's clearly not talking about me.
    I actually recommend buying cars! nice ones!

    damn ube... he's got absolutely no legal ground to stand on.
    If he doesn't have the right paperwork the only thing keeping him
    from geting deported was you. And now he's going to go and mess with that?

    fool.
     
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  8. SteveAustin

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    SteveAustin - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    my ex's friend had to do this to get rid of her ex. dude was psychotic. second he walked out of jail...INS picked him up.

    yeah, it really sucks. moving on is always difficult. when my relationships end...I try and get all my shit in one nice fell swoop. after that there is no reason to talk to one another and I never answer the phone if they call. easier said that done I realize. don't let things linger and spend tons of time with friends. tequila helps as well.

    I'd also like to point out that kilo is exactly correct about the car and...just for the record of course...I think a mid to late 60's 911 could buy...er I mean earn...a lot of respect from me.
     
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  9. i7531p

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    i7531p - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    Rough times. I'v come soo close to that situation a few times. I never wish it upon anyone. It's really hard to leave someone that you have a strong emotional bond with and then to have to see them everyday and continue to share financial responsibilities. Sometimes I think it would be easier just pack up what ever you have and walk away and never look back. It's much easier said than done or maybe it's just a cowardly way out...I don't know.
     
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    banjo bob - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    really true.

    my friend had a really good piece of advice for me when i got out of a longterm relationship.. he said the one thing you don't want to do is idealize the person or the relationship, it makes it that much harder to get on with your life. maybe that's kind of intuitive, but it seems like a good thing to keep in mind, it definitely helped me.
     
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    SleepAnDream - Replied Jul 11, 2003

    no doubt....i wish someone gave me that advice...getting over someone you believe to love is probably one of the hardest things to do...i guess stay optimistic and focus on the things you can now have as opposed to the things you had....being americas most elligible bachellor/ette definetly has its perks...and for the future, at least you now know some of the things you DONT want yknow? the world is yours...im saying, if you give me his car, ill take care of him for you....you can live happily ever after ;)
     
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    TEARZ - Replied Jul 12, 2003

    i feel for you. i went through the process a while back and it can be long and arduous.

    it's cliche, but dividing up the record collection was war. i ended up surrendering or forgetting shit that she had no business having. she's got my original cactus album, original juggaknots and numerous classic 12 inches.... whatever, she can keep them, i don't really need them. but haha, i've got your SWV "right here" 12 inch, and that's your favorite song of all time! and sometimes i play it out at the club, and girls go crazy haha. but damn if it doesn't make me think of you sometimes... but still i wouldn't go back dammit.

    i feel you pain. find new avenues for yourself, a new hobby (or obsession) is perfect for getting the job done. strictly forward motion. best of luck, keep moving.
     
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    BigJoe - Replied Jul 12, 2003

    all too fuckin well!
     
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    KaBar2 - Replied Jul 12, 2003

    Ubejinxed

    Two years? And a ring? Dude, you are married. Common law married, but married all the same. To be on the safe side, I would get her to sign a no-fault divorce packet. If not, ten years from now she may sue you to get HALF OF ALL YOUR ASSETS, and sue your new wife for "alienation of affection" and demand that you pay BACK CHILD SUPPORT for the nine-year-old kid fathered by her new crack head boyfriend who has YOUR LAST NAME ON HIS BIRTH CERTIFICATE.

    Fucking GET A LAWYER, Ubejinxed. I'm not kidding.
     
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    miles apart - Replied Jul 12, 2003

    Ok why is there a KaBar2?!?
     
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