Tough Love Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 alright, ive had this discussion with a homie of mine...inspirde by that pic of bridget the midget. anyways, we both agreed that wed never settle for a chick we didnt find physically attractive. I mean, i wouldnt completely shut out a girl who was ugly or whatever, but i wouldnt bother going anywhere beyond friends. Is this being shallow or is it the right thing? i mean, i figure if you're gunna devote SOME time and effort into a chick while in a relationship, why do it for some girl that isnt up to the standards you'd like? i mean sure it may be harder to get laid if your not trying to hook up with every hooch you see (ugly or not), but in the long term, i think it makes way more sense to be with someone you find hot. which brings me to another point? would any of you, guys or gals, lower your standards or settle for less if its just for a fuck. do you care who u pork :five-o: or do u ever get so bored/needy/whatever that youd get with anyone.....? discuss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fermentor666 Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 If you ONLY base attraction on the physical then yes, that is shallow. There are many different factors to attraction. I'm Dr. Phil, buy my book. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarcasm Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 i didn't feel like reading your post but i mean it's only nature-al to be attracted to your mate who you deem attractive. it's a fundamental rule of nature. the best will mate, and the less fit will be weeded out. that's how we got our thumbs. nahmean? but like fermentor said, just basing it on looks and not the other attirbutes is kind of shallow. but i mean, looks can't be everything. if i went out with a girl who was fucking hot, but a complete moron, it would only last until my penis goes flacid again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOOGLE? Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 on the real... i dig this chick in a sortatrailer park..i'm a drunk who dont work who makes her work three jobs and take care of our5 kids of two by other women as well as support my booze and gummi bear habit kinda way" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tough Love Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 well im not meaning just physical..but everything has to be there..the complete package.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Leader Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 personality makes ugly people beautiful and pretty people ugly. it's not shallow, if you aren't interested in someone you aren't interested in them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiseguy Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 physical attraction has to be there, but the mental is sooo much more... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOOGLE? Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 ppshhh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 your not being shallow man...you have standards.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GEEB Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 I have way high standards. and thats why I bang only the finest of females. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 well... physical attraction is more than just T & A, you judge them based on how they dress and such... which is ussually a bigger factor, since they can actually control that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flatliner Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 I dunno man. I got a mate who delibaratly goes out with a girl a little less attractive then him (If ya get me), but he does this, so his girl thinks she is so lucky and never even thinks of cheating and does whatever he wants.. She is really cool, and had OK looks, but she is by far a stunner. Maybe this is a bad thing on his part. He is very insecure though. Well thats my input.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty_habiT Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Definitely lower your standards man, get with a fat chick. "Once you go fat, you don't go black..." (I think) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flatliner Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Why yould you EVER go black? That makes no sense mate... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Originally posted by flatliner@Jun 25 2005, 10:18 AM I dunno man. I got a mate who delibaratly goes out with a girl a little less attractive then him (If ya get me), but he does this, so his girl thinks she is so lucky and never even thinks of cheating and does whatever he wants.. She is really cool, and had OK looks, but she is by far a stunner. Maybe this is a bad thing on his part. He is very insecure though. Well thats my input.. Quoted post Haha...for real, I can see how that is a confidence booster. I made up my mind a good while ago that only hot girls would get it, but I still find myself calling the just decent looking ones when it comes down to it and the hot girls aren't available. But if you're talking relationship (which I'm not into), then the girl has to be decent, for sure. But other factors must be there. She's gotta dress decent, and be funny. If you're settling for less than what you want and actually going out with her, then you need to get your head checked. So, no - not shallow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dirty_habiT Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Originally posted by flatliner@Jun 25 2005, 11:16 AM Why yould you EVER go black? That makes no sense mate... Quoted post Sorry if I confused you, but it wasn't supposed to make much sense. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dumy Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Originally posted by The Leader@Jun 25 2005, 02:27 AM personality makes ugly people beautiful and pretty people ugly. it's not shallow, if you aren't interested in someone you aren't interested in them. Quoted post whoa, this is on point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Dazzle Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 Obviously attraction is the main thing. Hence the term "attrcation", there has to be something that draws you towards them, be it their looks, their dress sense, their attitude, otherwise you wouldn;t notice them. If I don't find somebody attractive, it doesn't necessarily mean they are ugly, they just don't fit my idea of what's attractive. That made a lot more sense in my head.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted June 25, 2005 Share Posted June 25, 2005 "Dad, my teacher says that real beauty is on the inside." "Ha ha, son....that's just something ugly people say!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tough Love Posted June 25, 2005 Author Share Posted June 25, 2005 hmmm i see most people are on the same page... as far as dressing goes though...i dont really consider that to be so important....i mean, if she looks good naked, then who the hell cares? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bellbeefer Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 i'm attracted to a girls style...cause i can't get with a girl with giant foam sandals. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
droptheknife Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 For me if I want to fuck a girl and she's fairly safe then that will do for me. Beggars can't be choosers lads. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flatliner Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 You can take giant foam sandals off mate. You cant rip an ugly face from the skull. If you are going to have a relation ship then I think you really do need to like then for their looks. They are the person who's face is gonna be there every morning. And if they have no personality, they are just gonna bug the fuck out of you for the whole time. You should both bring something unique into a relation ship. I have my penis. *If you say "HAHA ye your cocks unique cos its so small!" then you are a fuck tard. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GEEB Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 Originally posted by flatliner@Jun 25 2005, 10:16 AM Why yould you EVER go black? That makes no sense mate... Quoted post Hey, shutup, theres nothing wrong with black chicks...as long as theyer not all ghetto and that jazz. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flatliner Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 It wasent that, I just had no fuckin idea what he was on about... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PINK DOT Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 some uss is some uss. weather or not you go back to it is where shalloness comes into the scene. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 SINCE THIS IS A THREAD ABOUT SHALLOWNESS LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT MY NIGHT: i went out with an old friend who i had beef with for a while, but we but it aside, and we had a great time. We hooked up with another friend of hers...i know the girl, but i don't talk to her, and i see why. The girl is fuckin shallow, no personality, laughs for anything, just dingy. Yo i was sitting there thinking to myself..WTF I'M I DOING HERE...the girl and i had bad vibes with each other through out the night. I wasn't even trying to act friendly with her wtf for, i'm not trying to make this girl my fucking friend. I should of punch that girl in her damn grill..She chills with two real good friends of mine so i know i'll run into her again.. i dispise broads like this fucking bobblehead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOOGLE? Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 so what you wnat me to call er what? i aint got time ta be playin na games girlie...i'm a busy guy nowadays..between playin neogeo roms and sleep i dont know where i can fit you into my schedule but just fer you i'll let you talk to me for five minutes....an i know you'll like that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 ^^are you being shallow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MOOGLE? Posted June 26, 2005 Share Posted June 26, 2005 kupo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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