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Being Shallow?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Tough Love, Jun 25, 2005.

  1. Tough Love

    Tough Love Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 10, 2004 Messages: 1,894 Likes Received: 2
    alright, ive had this discussion with a homie of mine...inspirde by that pic of bridget the midget.
    anyways, we both agreed that wed never settle for a chick we didnt find physically attractive. I mean, i wouldnt completely shut out a girl who was ugly or whatever, but i wouldnt bother going anywhere beyond friends. Is this being shallow or is it the right thing?

    i mean, i figure if you're gunna devote SOME time and effort into a chick while in a relationship, why do it for some girl that isnt up to the standards you'd like? i mean sure it may be harder to get laid if your not trying to hook up with every hooch you see (ugly or not), but in the long term, i think it makes way more sense to be with someone you find hot.

    which brings me to another point? would any of you, guys or gals, lower your standards or settle for less if its just for a fuck. do you care who u pork :five-o: or do u ever get so bored/needy/whatever that youd get with anyone.....?

  2. fermentor666

    fermentor666 Veteran Member

    Joined: Sep 27, 2003 Messages: 8,152 Likes Received: 15
    If you ONLY base attraction on the physical then yes, that is shallow. There are many different factors to attraction. I'm Dr. Phil, buy my book.
  3. sarcasm

    sarcasm Elite Member

    Joined: Oct 30, 2003 Messages: 3,352 Likes Received: 35
    i didn't feel like reading your post but i mean it's only nature-al to
    be attracted to your mate who you deem attractive. it's a fundamental
    rule of nature. the best will mate, and the less fit will be weeded out.

    that's how we got our thumbs. nahmean?

    but like fermentor said, just basing it on looks and not the other
    attirbutes is kind of shallow. but i mean, looks can't be everything.

    if i went out with a girl who was fucking hot, but a complete moron,
    it would only last until my penis goes flacid again.
  4. MOOGLE?

    MOOGLE? 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: May 23, 2000 Messages: 11,495 Likes Received: 502

    on the real... i dig this chick in a sortatrailer park..i'm a drunk who dont work who makes her work three jobs and take care of our5 kids of two by other women as well as support my booze and gummi bear habit kinda way"
  5. Tough Love

    Tough Love Senior Member

    Joined: Oct 10, 2004 Messages: 1,894 Likes Received: 2
    well im not meaning just physical..but everything has to be there..the complete package..
  6. The Leader

    The Leader Senior Member

    Joined: Jan 23, 2005 Messages: 1,591 Likes Received: 1
    personality makes ugly people beautiful and pretty people ugly.

    it's not shallow, if you aren't interested in someone you aren't interested in them.
  7. wiseguy

    wiseguy Elite Member

    Joined: Mar 1, 2002 Messages: 2,543 Likes Received: 1
    physical attraction has to be there, but the mental is sooo much more...
  8. MOOGLE?

    MOOGLE? 12oz Loyalist

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  9. fatalist

    fatalist Dirty Dozen Crew

    Joined: Mar 10, 2004 Messages: 6,354 Likes Received: 25
    your not being shallow man...you have standards....
  10. GEEB

    GEEB Senior Member

    Joined: Dec 6, 2004 Messages: 1,803 Likes Received: 44
    I have way high standards. and thats why I bang only the finest of females.
  11. Vanity

    Vanity Veteran Member

    Joined: Apr 11, 2000 Messages: 7,673 Likes Received: 6
    well... physical attraction is more than just T & A, you judge them based on how they dress and such... which is ussually a bigger factor, since they can actually control that.
  12. flatliner

    flatliner Junior Member

    Joined: Mar 9, 2005 Messages: 132 Likes Received: 0
    I dunno man. I got a mate who delibaratly goes out with a girl a little less attractive then him (If ya get me), but he does this, so his girl thinks she is so lucky and never even thinks of cheating and does whatever he wants.. She is really cool, and had OK looks, but she is by far a stunner. Maybe this is a bad thing on his part. He is very insecure though. Well thats my input..
  13. Dirty_habiT

    Dirty_habiT Administrator

    Joined: Mar 8, 2001 Messages: 18,136 Likes Received: 82
    Definitely lower your standards man, get with a fat chick.

    "Once you go fat, you don't go black..." (I think)
  14. flatliner

    flatliner Junior Member

    Joined: Mar 9, 2005 Messages: 132 Likes Received: 0
    Why yould you EVER go black? That makes no sense mate...
  15. Weapon X

    Weapon X 12oz Loyalist

    Joined: Sep 6, 2002 Messages: 14,905 Likes Received: 202

    Haha...for real, I can see how that is a confidence booster.

    I made up my mind a good while ago that only hot girls would get it, but I still find myself calling the just decent looking ones when it comes down to it and the hot girls aren't available.

    But if you're talking relationship (which I'm not into), then the girl has to be decent, for sure. But other factors must be there. She's gotta dress decent, and be funny. If you're settling for less than what you want and actually going out with her, then you need to get your head checked.

    So, no - not shallow.