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anyone liked a girl this much?

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by mapo wc, Aug 7, 2001.

  1. mapo wc

    mapo wc 12oz Elite Member

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    anyone liked a girl this much?

    Discussion started by mapo wc - Aug 7, 2001

    Alright, Ive found that the people on here seem to be pretty down-to-earth and level-headed people (well when you want to be).
    So Im gonna explain my situation here since telling anyone in real life would make me look like a pussy or something. Since this is usually the shit girls go through.

    Back in 10th grade I saw a 9th grade chick that caught my eye. My jaw hit the floor with how fine she was. After just seeing her a few times I was fuckin consumed by her. I found where to be between classes just to catch a glimpse of her. I figured I had absolutely no chance with a girl like that.

    Enter 11th grade. Shes in 10th. We share a class. I am still in awe of how fine she is.
    But Im too fuckin scared to even say anything in class, afraid Ill embarrass myself or some shit. I actually realize just how cool and down-to-earth she is, I initially thought for sure she was a rich snob type. I actually get her email address (long story). I made a new account and emailed her. I just acted like some out of the blue person wanting to chat on email, she replied and didnt even wonder how I got her email or anything. We got along great, alot of the same interests. Somehow we stopped emailing, Im not sure why.

    Enter 12th grade. We're not sharing a class anymore so I pretty much get over her. But after I graduated, on a whim, just for fun I email her again. She replies and she fucking throws gas on a spark that I didnt even know was there.
    Obviously I give a fake name and location but in the emails, Im giving my real thoughts, personality, etc. She tells me she likes emailing and stuff because I sound like a nice person. And I feel the same about her. Shes been on summer break and rarely uses the net so it literally takes about 3 weeks for her to respond to emails now. But I still check my mail a few times a day, which is pathetic.

    I literally think about this girl every day.
    Im fucking going insane. So heres the plan.
    Go to the army. Live like a bum. No cable, no computer (Ill still come on 12oz and email her from the library comp though), eat nothing but free army food, no car, dont buy any new clothes, pretty much save every penny except for the absolute necessities (sp?). All Ill do every day is my infantry training (my job), then when I get off Ill play basketball until the gym closes, go check my email, then go to my barracks and study, then sleep. Obviously not every day will run that smooth but thats the gist.
    It will be hard, but its not impossible.
    Then I will go to the college shes going to (I found out from emails), Ill have about a year worth of school finished, so we'll be about even. Ill have a new car and nice clothes with all my money saved from my 2 years army (around 20 grand - and thats conservative), Ill be in great shape, and my school will be paid for.
    Then Ill approach her after a class and mention we went to school together, she wont recognize me, and Ill suggest we go out and get to know each other, etc.

    This is probably the longest post in 12oz history. Basically Im just wondering if Im fucking insane for going this far to get a chick (I wouldve probably gone army anyway). Or if anyone has any thoughts to help me out - maybe youve been there or something.
     
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  2. --zeSto--

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    --zeSto-- - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    ummm... short answer..

    just approach her at college
    as your new confident self.

    After she's warmed up to you being there,
    tell her the truth. she'll probably think it's 'sweet'.
    or.. act like you didn't know the girl you
    were emailing was her.
    act like it's just as much a suprise for you
    as it is for her.
    She probaly think it's 'fate'.
    Then move forward.

    Don't stress about the past.
    Just be glad the two of you share the present.
    Good luck!
     
  3. Fox Mulder

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    Fox Mulder - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    the only thing i can say is just be upfront about it when you go to her college. because if you try to play it like you don't know anything about her you will slip up at some point. and when she finds out she is probably gonna be a little freaked and think you are a stalker or something.

    oh yea lso don't tell her that you've been obsessed with her since she was in the 9th grade. for one that might freak her out too and if you are together and then break up she will rub it in your face and think she is the shit because she has guys who have done all this shit just to be with her.

    [This message has been edited by Fox Mulder (edited 08-07-2001).]
     
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  4. mapo wc

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    mapo wc - Replied Aug 7, 2001



    Thats definite. She definitely wont know Ive been obsessed for so long. Ill act like I used to have a little crush on her back in HS or something.
     
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  5. Devilush

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    Devilush - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    you can give that a try. i wouldn't tell her how much you've been obsessing with her. she'd prolly be scared.
     
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  6. MASk!

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    MASk! - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    fucking strange man. you should have just spit some game when you had a chance.
     
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  7. Trend

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    Trend - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    dude, no offense, but i think you're planning wayyyyyy too much into the future and revolving your life around one person. i mean, not to be pessimistic, but she may have a boyfriend by the time your "plan" finally goes into action... you never know, i say the sooner the better in regards to letting her know the deal, you might miss your chance and regret it. but try not to stress her too much, you'll go insane
     
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    LUKY - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    dont hide stuff tho, thats bad. dont lie to her or she'll get hella pissed, havent you seen any after school specials?
     
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  9. mapo wc

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    mapo wc - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    Yeah I know. But Im hoping I might still be talking to her on email and maybe I could find out if she had a boyfriend like that.
    Plus we'll both be there as a sophormore so that gives plenty of time for them to break up if that is the case.
     
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    TOY - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    thats a lot to go through just to get with this girl. you should have approached her a long time ago if you really like her. but if this is what you want to do, go for it
     
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    TOY - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    oh and to answer the like a girl that much question. there is a friend of mine that i would have no problem getting involved with though. ive known since since sophmore year but i took until senior year for us to get real close. we talk about getting married and having kids. we planned out where we're going to live, how our house is going to be, how many kids we're going to have. hold hands, hold eachother all the time. shed talk about her boyfriend problems and id just answer, "thats why you need to be with me." im not hardcore jockin her but she knows i kinda want to be with her. shes good people to be around and shes so beautiful. i wouldnt go through hell to be with her and i dont have to. i just have to wait for her to come to me. id never go through so much to be with anyone.
     
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  12. KidGoneBad

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    KidGoneBad - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    Yeah, man, best of luck to ya, but, I mean, all that planning, what if she's like, "sorry, but I don't want a relationship right now"? Then what? There's gotta be other girls just as hot and cool out there. Just keep looking.
     
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  13. Trend

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    Trend - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    sounds like she wants to be with you too, if you guys hold hands and shit... i dont see what's stopping you two from hooking up
     
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    suburbian bum - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    Sounds like its gonna take you about 8 years to meet her.... I bet you will be goin after this gril your whole life...
     
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    fr8oholic - Replied Aug 7, 2001

    it's a crush man. it's supposed to hurt
     
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