Grandpa Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Yea it's kinda long, and you might think it's boring but I'm just looking for advice. So I've had a crush on this girl Elly for a little while now. It all started about 5 weeks ago...I had just broken up with a long term girlfriend who left me for another guy about 4 weeks prior and my roommates and I had a small party at our place one Saturday night. Elly and her friend showed up kinda drunk already and about 15 minutes into being in the place, Elly had to throw up. Long story short, i took care of her all night and she slept in my bed in my sweat pants. In the morning, we pretty much did the whole cuddling spooning thing. I pecker her on the lips a couple of times, she didn't stop me but she wasn't really into it either so i stopped. Next weekend, I pass out drunk on her couch and she tucks me in and takes off my shoes and glasses etc. Fast forward a couple of weeks and we're partying a little at her place after we got home from a club, again were all just chilling in her room and me and her are doing the spooning thing on her bed and shes holding my hand and rubbing my fingers and such, I massage her...bla bla bla. Again i go to peck her on the lips and she acts the same way. We chill sometimes during the week, one night until about 4AM pretending to study but just hanging out and talking. Last weekend, my buddies take it upon themselves unbeknownst to me to talk to her and tell her she needs to make a decision. She is feeling bad about making me "upset" as they put it to her, anyway, she basically tells her friends and mine that she doesnt know how she feels and is confused. She then witnesses me making out with some other girl and gets mad because my friends made her feel so bad about the whole situation and apparently im not that upset about it. She wasn't jealous or mad that I hooked up with this girl, she was just angry because they made her feel so bad about keeping me on hold. Needless to say, in my drunken state I went to her place to talk to her because she wouldn't talk to me anywhere else. I find myself in her bed again cuddling and doing that thing while she tells me that right now she likes me as more of a friend than anything else. I spend the night in her bed for the first time and we just basically cuddled and did that whole thing all night...with her playing "footsie" and rubbing my hands just the same? Next night, I come by with some buddies after drinking out in Boston with her roommates. We start another conversation about the situation because I was pretty drunk the night before and don't remember much of the convo the night before. She told me she likes me more as a friend. She says something about how she doesn't like me to the extent I like her and she doesn't want to hurt me. I proceed to explain to her that she is making it out to seem like I'm in love with her. I think shes cute, fun to hang out with, and to be honest she was just the first girl since my ex that I was really comfortable around, and I just had a crush on her. I told her that i was comfortable doing the whole friend cuddling thing and she said she was too...and I said that if thats all she wants right now then its completely fine with me and ill be there if she changes her mind. Then she kinda pulled my arm around her so i was spooning her and then she kissed my hand a couple times and she somehow ended up looking at me and next thing i know we were kissing eachother followed by more cuddling and massaging and then we started making out for the first time. This cycled for the rest of the night until we eventually fell asleep. I woke up early on Sunday morning becuase her dad was coming to pick her up for Thanksgiving break and I kissed her goodbye. Didn't talk to her all during break and now that I'm back, things seem as though what happened on Saturday night never occurred. She acts the same flirty way to me, and nothing is different. She hasn't told any of her friends that we hooked up and we haven't talked about the incident either. I guess I'm more confused than anything. Anyone have any idea what's going through this girl's head? I forgot to mention that she is an extrememly good girl as well. She told me hooking up with a guy is kinda a big deal to her nowadays and she's only kissed one other guy at school in the last year and a half. She has her high school boyfriend that she still hooks up with at home and I guess a lot of her emotional ties are to him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
society_kills Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 ask her if she wants to do humpies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 i think shes lying about she rarely hooks up with guys, i bet she has tons of fuck buddies, and your next on the list... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted December 1, 2004 Author Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by why write?@Nov 30 2004, 07:36 PM i think shes lying about she rarely hooks up with guys, i bet she has tons of fuck buddies, and your next on the list... Quoted post not the case, i know this girl pretty well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GamblersGrin Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 shes treating you like you are her gay best friend hahaha and she gave you the biz markie line kid! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T=E=A=S=E Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 closed. ;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Dazzle Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 I hear you, man. Fucking girls...... Wait this wasn't an informative response at all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vanity Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 anal fist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by GamblersGrin@Nov 30 2004, 07:51 PM shes treating you like you are her gay best friend hahaha and she gave you the biz markie line kid! Quoted post hahah this is funny and true.....maybe she wants to talk to you when your sober once? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted December 1, 2004 Author Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by GamblersGrin@Nov 30 2004, 07:51 PM shes treating you like you are her gay best friend hahaha and she gave you the biz markie line kid! Quoted post hahahahaha yea youre fucking right she is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T=E=A=S=E Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 its all about the... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by GamblersGrin@Dec 1 2004, 12:51 AM shes treating you like you are her gay best friend Quoted post seriously, i think after this gem of a line no more need be said on this topic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
InnerCityRebel Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 in true Knightbat fashion..get pictures of her tits and show us..I can not give any advice until that is done... best of luck homie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 just pull it out. that's all you can do. I'm serious, too. Just put her hand on your crotch and say that you have needs. If she starts drama, that means she's a drama queen. Then you do my patented "punch the fridge" technique because you don't have to punch it that hard for it to make lots of noise because of all the bottles on the shelves in the fridge. Then you grab her hard by the shoulders (hard enough to leave marks) and tongue kiss her. Your mission is to bust in her mouth, and you're not advancing the troops at all. Diplomacy does not work in love and war! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villain Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 ^hahaa! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fermentor666 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Haha WeaponX, classic. That and the "humpies" line. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earmuffs Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 I know where you are coming from Grandpa.. one of my good friends is a girl and we started out liking each other, then her feelings changed. Although when ever I'm in town to see her things always escalde further than kissing, but she acts like nothig happens the next day.. In the summer she was working out of town so I went and stayed with her for a week, and she acted like she was my fuckin girl friend, but when i ask her about it she has no answer for me... She gets pissed if I talk about other girls or bangin other hoes, but yet she is just a friend.. My advice to you is dont be friends with her. Why? because your feelings are gonna get stronger for her, and she is just gonna like you as a friend. So get out now!!!. As for me I recently stopped talking to this girl cuz she does some shit that really pisses me off.. Keep in mind that we are not alike , she is a nice caring emo girl and well, I'm me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
earmuffs Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 why can t i edit my post.. but I can this one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Verbal Kint Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 why dont you go to a cosmo message board or sumthin whats wrong with all these sensitive writers the fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 that snatch was ugly. i didnt read your novel. sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by Verbal Kint@Nov 30 2004, 07:10 PM why dont you go to a cosmo message board or sumthin whats wrong with all these sensitive writers the fuck Quoted post why don't you jump off a cliff and save someone else the effort of throwing you over. the fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CinchedWaist Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 I don't know if this is going to be telling you anything new but from a female's perspective... it sounds as if she wants nothing serious. She wants to cuddle and make put and all that, but nothing more. SOunds like a mere experimentation, an exciting fling to see what its like to be with you. and i would take earmuffs advice even though it might be hard. Otherwise you'll probably end up hurt b/c it seems as if you really like this girl..i mean, shit, you're making a thread about her and all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GamblersGrin Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 a mod should retitle this to the "i am the gay best friend thread" so all the kids can complain how the girls they think about when they jerk off dont want to have anything sexual to do with em Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaesthebluntedwonder Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 yeah, i'm real good friends with this girl who i've been crazy about for years. i've told her several times how i feel, and she's always told me she doesn't feel the same way for me...although she once said there's "something" there between us, like good chemistry, which there totally is. but, i realized time after time, it wasn't meant to be, and we're probably better off as friends anyway. we never got involved physically, and that probably woulda complicated things. so we have a pretty cool friendship, and sometime i even get a little crazy about her again, but it's easier for me to just be like, "nah dood, forget it". but i still feel that of all the girls i've gone out with, she's the most perfect one...i probably say that though because we haven't gotten more involved, thus there's not really much bullshit, like there are in most other cases. kaes/pointless advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
decu goldyn1 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 hmm yea sounds like this is going nowhere leave it alone stone cold heart says move on far - although ppl like her are good to have around when drunk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Overtime Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 no harm in punchin her in the stomach, is there? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Weapon X Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 Originally posted by CinchedWaist@Nov 30 2004, 10:35 PM Otherwise you'll probably end up hurt b/c it seems as if you really like this girl..i mean, shit, you're making a thread about her and all. Quoted post What you talkin' about? I make threads about the girls I don't like so much, if anything. And CinchedWaist, you know you'd fall for either the humpies line or my method. EarMuffs...I think there's a 4 minute rule on editing posts now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted December 1, 2004 Author Share Posted December 1, 2004 fuck it, im not going to lie...i like the girl but its not anything serious...im just lookin to get a regular hook up going...and then well see how it goes from then on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fermentor666 Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 How could anyone NOT fall for humpies? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueaZyFunK Posted December 1, 2004 Share Posted December 1, 2004 what you should do is give me her number, and ill call her up and convince her to let us run trains on her and then we can get everone else on this board to run trains on her, because trains is what make life better whether relationsihp or in graffiti. trains are the shit. so think about it, oh and we can eat doublecheeseburgers while doing it, because doulbe cheeseburgers are also the shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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