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Another Confused About a Girl Thread

Discussion in 'Channel Zero' started by Grandpa, Nov 30, 2004.

  1. Grandpa

    Grandpa 12oz Junior Member

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    Another Confused About a Girl Thread

    Discussion started by Grandpa - Nov 30, 2004

    Yea it's kinda long, and you might think it's boring but I'm just looking for advice.


    So I've had a crush on this girl Elly for a little while now. It all started about 5 weeks ago...I had just broken up with a long term girlfriend who left me for another guy about 4 weeks prior and my roommates and I had a small party at our place one Saturday night. Elly and her friend showed up kinda drunk already and about 15 minutes into being in the place, Elly had to throw up. Long story short, i took care of her all night and she slept in my bed in my sweat pants. In the morning, we pretty much did the whole cuddling spooning thing. I pecker her on the lips a couple of times, she didn't stop me but she wasn't really into it either so i stopped.

    Next weekend, I pass out drunk on her couch and she tucks me in and takes off my shoes and glasses etc. Fast forward a couple of weeks and we're partying a little at her place after we got home from a club, again were all just chilling in her room and me and her are doing the spooning thing on her bed and shes holding my hand and rubbing my fingers and such, I massage her...bla bla bla. Again i go to peck her on the lips and she acts the same way.

    We chill sometimes during the week, one night until about 4AM pretending to study but just hanging out and talking. Last weekend, my buddies take it upon themselves unbeknownst to me to talk to her and tell her she needs to make a decision. She is feeling bad about making me "upset" as they put it to her, anyway, she basically tells her friends and mine that she doesnt know how she feels and is confused. She then witnesses me making out with some other girl and gets mad because my friends made her feel so bad about the whole situation and apparently im not that upset about it. She wasn't jealous or mad that I hooked up with this girl, she was just angry because they made her feel so bad about keeping me on hold.

    Needless to say, in my drunken state I went to her place to talk to her because she wouldn't talk to me anywhere else. I find myself in her bed again cuddling and doing that thing while she tells me that right now she likes me as more of a friend than anything else. I spend the night in her bed for the first time and we just basically cuddled and did that whole thing all night...with her playing "footsie" and rubbing my hands just the same?

    Next night, I come by with some buddies after drinking out in Boston with her roommates. We start another conversation about the situation because I was pretty drunk the night before and don't remember much of the convo the night before. She told me she likes me more as a friend. She says something about how she doesn't like me to the extent I like her and she doesn't want to hurt me. I proceed to explain to her that she is making it out to seem like I'm in love with her. I think shes cute, fun to hang out with, and to be honest she was just the first girl since my ex that I was really comfortable around, and I just had a crush on her. I told her that i was comfortable doing the whole friend cuddling thing and she said she was too...and I said that if thats all she wants right now then its completely fine with me and ill be there if she changes her mind. Then she kinda pulled my arm around her so i was spooning her and then she kissed my hand a couple times and she somehow ended up looking at me and next thing i know we were kissing eachother followed by more cuddling and massaging and then we started making out for the first time. This cycled for the rest of the night until we eventually fell asleep.

    I woke up early on Sunday morning becuase her dad was coming to pick her up for Thanksgiving break and I kissed her goodbye. Didn't talk to her all during break and now that I'm back, things seem as though what happened on Saturday night never occurred. She acts the same flirty way to me, and nothing is different. She hasn't told any of her friends that we hooked up and we haven't talked about the incident either. I guess I'm more confused than anything. Anyone have any idea what's going through this girl's head?

    I forgot to mention that she is an extrememly good girl as well. She told me hooking up with a guy is kinda a big deal to her nowadays and she's only kissed one other guy at school in the last year and a half. She has her high school boyfriend that she still hooks up with at home and I guess a lot of her emotional ties are to him.
     
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  2. society_kills

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    society_kills - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    ask her if she wants to do humpies.
     
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  3. why write?

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    why write? - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    i think shes lying about she rarely hooks up with guys, i bet she has tons of fuck buddies, and your next on the list...
     
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  4. Grandpa

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    Grandpa - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    not the case, i know this girl pretty well
     
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  5. GamblersGrin

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    GamblersGrin - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    shes treating you like you are her gay best friend


    hahaha and she gave you the biz markie line kid!
     
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    T=E=A=S=E - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    closed.

    ;)
     
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  7. Dr. Dazzle

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    Dr. Dazzle - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    I hear you, man. Fucking girls......

    Wait this wasn't an informative response at all.
     
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    anal fist
     
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  9. why write?

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    why write? - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    hahah this is funny and true.....maybe she wants to talk to you when your sober once?
     
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  10. Grandpa

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    Grandpa - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    hahahahaha yea youre fucking right she is
     
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    T=E=A=S=E - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    its all about the...

    [​IMG]
     
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    seriously, i think after this gem of a line no more need be said on this topic.
     
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    InnerCityRebel - Replied Nov 30, 2004

    in true Knightbat fashion..get pictures of her tits and show us..I can not give any advice until that is done...












































    best of luck homie
     
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    just pull it out. that's all you can do.

    I'm serious, too. Just put her hand on your crotch and say that you have needs. If she starts drama, that means she's a drama queen. Then you do my patented "punch the fridge" technique because you don't have to punch it that hard for it to make lots of noise because of all the bottles on the shelves in the fridge. Then you grab her hard by the shoulders (hard enough to leave marks) and tongue kiss her. Your mission is to bust in her mouth, and you're not advancing the troops at all. Diplomacy does not work in love and war!
     
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    ^hahaa!
     
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