Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 my girl of 2 years and I go to school in different states...we stayed together through freshman year and had a good summer together for the most part...especially towards the end...we get back to school and things just start going downhill...three weeks ago she broke it off with me cuz shes starting to have a thing for this other guy...it sucks you know, but i tried to be mature about it and realized it was out of my control...i cant tell if im upset because shes not mine anymore, or because i just dont like the fact that it wasnt my decision...we had our share of fights since she broke it off and we both went home to see eachother this weekend...ive been trying to talk to a couple girls just to get my mind off my girl but its just not the same thing...anyway, were home and chilling in her room and she asked me what i was doing the next day...i told her i had plans with some people to hang out (i had plans to get some lunch with some girl), and she asked me who...i knew it would jsut get her mad if i told her so i said it wasnt important and that i didnt want to bother her...she gets pissed regardless and declares that shes signing online...and as soon as she gets on, the kid shes hooking up with IMs her and im sitting there while shes talking to him online and i tell her shes being immature...i left the house after fighting with her for a little and then we made up later that night...i told her that while im geting over the fact that shes hooking up with this kid, its unnecessary to shove it in my face...next night were hanging out and her cell rings...same kid...she stops talking to me mid sentence and has a conversation with him for 15 minutes in front of my face...i wait till she gets off and tell her again that im pissed shes being so fucking inconsiderate...we have a huge talk about everything thats going on, shes crying...then about an hour later the cell rings again...same dude...she gets on and starts talking...i wait for about 5 minutes..get up and tellher to fuck herself and bounce...i call herabout 5 mintues later from the car and start getting really heated...she gets pissed and says "look, im on the phone right now...im going to have to call you back" and hangs up...shes called me about 25-30 times in the last day and a half and ihavent picked up...the thing that bugs me is that as soon as i get over one thing that happens...a new thing pops up...i want to wash my hands of it all, but after 2 years it just sucks...especially how she treats me with such disregard for how i feel or anything...i dont see how she could do that...it gets me sick...sorry for the legnth im just venting...cant wait to hear all the bullshit criticism... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
test pattern Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 now just stick around for a bit and watch as the idiots flock to tell you you're emo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Casual T. Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 Handicapped spaces are the mirage of the parking lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatalist Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 BEEN THERE .....BUT I WAS THE GIRL WHO WAS ON THE PHONE FOR 5-15 MINUTES...ANNOYING THE SHIT OUT OF MY EX...look dude the reason why she is doing hoe shit like that is to piss you off..and it's working....so play it cool..and don't pick up her phonecalls...let her stay with the new guy....that will so piss her off...no longer will she have you attention...just do you thang...yea yea it's easeir, said than done, but not fucking impossible...TRUST. goodluck...and please don't mope around...being emo...not a good idea here's a good song to listen too...by the "Streets" called "dry your eyes"...good shit you better listen to it.... ;) ^o^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Author Share Posted October 18, 2004 Originally posted by test pattern@Oct 18 2004, 12:02 PM now just stick around for a bit and watch as the idiots flock to tell you you're emo Quoted post hahahahahahaha fuck emo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 the only mature thing for you to do is get a bunch of your buddies together, pile into a car and go beat this guys ass. Whining solves nothing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Author Share Posted October 18, 2004 Originally posted by LENS@Oct 18 2004, 12:30 PM the only mature thing for you to do is get a bunch of your buddies together, pile into a car and go beat this guys ass. Whining solves nothing Quoted post thought ran through my head, but to be honest its not the dudes fault...id be all over it if a cute chick wanted me too man...its her decision, shes the one with ties to me...hes just doin his thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Herbivore Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 i'm with fatalist.... just fucking ignore her, even if it's really difficult to do. just act like you could care less, and don't even hang out with her... complete remove yourself from her life. if she keeps calling you, pick up every once in a while and just be like "what? i'm busy". it'll drive her nuts... and from what you said, she deserves to be driven nuts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dpuerto Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 i didnt read it all... but i never talk to any girls online.. and non of the girls i date talk online(to my knowledge)... was it your girl who's house you were at? Why werent you fucking her? c'mon man. You mad because you didnt get to fuck her and dump her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metallix Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 totally disengage with her all means of communications. you see that way you can avoid having her play with your emotions. change your phone number, and email and screen name if you have to. and find something that will take your mind off the emo that is productive. i kno its easier said then done but this will help u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gunm Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 kick the guys ass Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dpuerto Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 hell yeah KICK HIS MOTHERFUCKIN ASS! Be a man about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Author Share Posted October 18, 2004 the chickes excommunicated...blocked on aim...outta the phone book Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dpuerto Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 speak english Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Herbivore Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 Originally posted by LENS@Oct 18 2004, 01:22 PM kick the guys ass Quoted post if anyone's to blame it's the girl.... if some girl broke up with her boyfriend to date you, would you expect that guy to come and kick your ass? i wouldn't, unless i did something to make her break up with him. she's the one i'd be mad at, not him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iloveboxcars Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 i went through the same exact shit as you. it feels so much nicer not talking to her. trust me, do not call her back or answer her phone calls no matter how long it's been. it's just more drama. good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Author Share Posted October 18, 2004 Originally posted by dpuerto@Oct 18 2004, 02:11 PM speak english Quoted post hey sorry i didnt know this was the fucking english class...even so, you spelled "none" wrong a couple posts back...so kindly eat a dick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
perhap Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 sorry, didnt read all the replies, but yea, hate isnt the opposite of love, its indiffffference. Ignore the bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Father John Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 tell her to fuck off. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Herbivore Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 Originally posted by perhap@Oct 18 2004, 02:41 PM sorry, didnt read all the replies, but yea, hate isnt the opposite of love, its indiffffference. Ignore the bitch. Quoted post to quote el-p: "what a difference indifference can make" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scrabble Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 COMPLETELY break that shit off with her...like she doesnt exist anymore. It shouldnt be that hard, considering y'all are in different states, summer's not that long. You shouldnt be fucking with little girls like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seeking Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 ever read the onion? you know when they have the advice column and it's from some totally random person? like "ask a gut-shot policeman' or 'ask a woman going through menopause'? well, let's play 'ask a guy with 18,135 posts'. you're on the right track dude, blocking her from aim and taking her out the phone book is key. now you just gotta stick with that. it sucks, but standing your ground is the only way to get anyplace. it's understandable that she wants to date other people. i mean, it happens, but the phone call shit is inexcusable. fuck her for life. she does not deserve to hear your voice, unless it's followed by a womans voice asking her to press 5 if she'd like to leave a number. fuck her. you're in a good position right now, cause she's still calling you a bunch. it's easier to walk away mad when they're doing insane shit like that, cause atleast you know she's thinking about you. walking away in silence is way more difficult. try and hang out with other girls, write on shit, use the university servers to host a porn collection for all the students...whatever it takes. just dont answer even once. fuck her. seeks/if you can't do it for yourself, do it for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1988 Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 Agreed with most people, sever all ties! You shoulda never broke the lunch plans with the other girl...You should've actually told your ex that you had plans with another chick...Throw it right back in her face, after all shes the one that broke it off. When/if you do talk to her, let her know how great things are going and mention something about freedom! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spike Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 Let go Spike/concise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dick Quickwood Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 put it in her butt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
why write? Posted October 18, 2004 Share Posted October 18, 2004 kill them both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grandpa Posted October 18, 2004 Author Share Posted October 18, 2004 seeking...good looks man...its appreciated Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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